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Are you serious?

Are you serious?

Happy birthday my boy

Before you propose to her, you need to consider some certain things.

How many years will you stay in canada?
When are you coming back to marry her?
Can she be able to wait for you?
Don't you think suitors will be coming for her?
What about pressure from family?

Remember she can find a man that she desires more than you or you might meet another woman along the line (stuffs sometimes happen). Tell her about your plans of travelling out, the way she reacts towards it.....then you'll know how to tell her about your intentions towards her. Don't rush into marrying a girl, to avoid making mistakes in marriage.

Or why not do it this way, tell her you love her immensely & you would like to settle down with her if things turns out fine. Hence, If she sees a good man, she should get married. But If God had destined for the both of you to be, so shall it be (To avoid been hurt/promise and fail).

Relationships last longer if the lady loves you more. Men has their love at heart.....If your love is much more than that of a lady...you'll die before your time.

Nice concept

Ofcus, his lifestyle must change.

He gives directives without your husband's consent, hence your husband is not the one ruling the country.



Something must be wrong in that aso rock ..there's no smoke without fire.

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NaijaOlosho:

Marriage that will break after few months

If thats your prayer....let it be your potion IJN

That's amazing

Since Orji Uzor had been convicted to prison for 12years. Does it mean Inec with conduct another election in his constituency?

Let's hear from the politicians in the house.

Young lady, you are still 25.....yes world is still revolving around you...its normal. When African women are between the age of 20-25 probably 26, 27 yrs, they will feel they are still beautiful and young but seize to remember that world is not a bed of roses. You get to find out by the time they clock 28,29,30 years of age, the thought of getting married comes to their mind & they would try to curtail/ adjust their lifestyle....My dear, We don't get all we need in life. Forget about carreer and your so called standard. Irrespective of force men and doctors, they are still other men that are doing legal stuffs. Everybody cannot fit into your own standard. Just look out for a man of good potentials...... Understanding is the ultimate in any relationship. Am not saying you should rush into marriage, just take yourself and ask God to help you make the right decision. You wont allow anybody to have access to you unless he's comitted....well, its your decision/life. But the fact remains that if you keep on chasing/ blocking people in your life, time shall come you will look for them, you won't see them again.

Harlequeen:
I opened this account because my main one is pretty popular.

I've had this issue and don't know what's wrong.
I can't seem to get into a new relationship. I am now 25, about serving, working a normal job

My dating history is not too rich. I dated just one guy for 2 years, i became sexually active with him, we enjoyed each other, but things didn't work out. I tried to be better, have moved on, and he has too. This was mid last year. I have been celibate since then not because i don't like sex, but because i had time to think, i read a lot of books, listened to a lot of relationship counselors on YouTube, reddit, Nairaland and so on. I decided to approach dating differently, with my head and not my heart . i would vet men out who were not in line with some basic standards, to avoid fuckboys and meet high quality men. He should be well spoken, either with a career or into trade, accomplished, way older by at least 10 yrs(no i don't have daddy issues, i just like mature guys because i think like a mature person) he could also have plans to leave the country, because i plan to do that also.


Here's the issue, the men that express interest in me do not fit this criteria. They seem to have no plan for their lives. I get this impression that they are broke, they recycle the same lines all the time, i usually see their bull sh1t tactics a mile away. some are in the army(i can't date men in the armed forces, they lifestyle is not what i want for myself, cannot date doctors either for the same reason)others are artisans, some are plain hustlers who just do whatever to eat. I have a soft spot for ambitious men, and i have not seen a lot in the area that i am in. I have been advised by my friends to try highbrow areas like lekki or VI or go to church, but i don't believe in religion.

But whenever i see these men, i am not attracted to them. I have even tried online dating with some male nairalanders, but i get disinterested easily. I get turned off when someone asks for my normal pics, it is quite frustrating. There's that fear that some of these men could use my pics to masturbate or one other creepy purpose. I block them if they ask for nudes. But the issue is, it is quite exhausting to keep chatting with someone without seeing them in person and some of these guys just want to smash and run which i won't allow. No man will have access to my vagina and womb without investment and commitment. Eventually it becomes hard to keep up communication and we just fizzle out like that.

I am not under pressure to marry from my parents, infact my dad says he won't allow his daughters marry until they clock 28 and i am the first. He wants us to have a career and a life before moving with a man. I just want to know if what i am doing is right?

To be honest, i just want some words of advice and encouragement, you can ask me questions if you want. This approach of mine? Is it the right thing? Am i being too smart for my own good? Am i afraid of commitment?

You've not seen something yet....tell people something different and stop deceiving them.

Zita55:
I have done that several times. ..


And yes, I'm from the east

would like to have a chat wid you... How about that? Please reply my mail.

But Have you cared to find out why they give up immediately? Seems you are from the east.... Are you Igbo?

Zita55:
Oga, who told you that?? I reply mails wella..hian!! Oh chim

SteveOfu:
They wanted to leeche on your better days ahead.

Damn, young lady you are huge & looking sweet too. Are you the one in that picture?

Zita55:
Hmmmm...those that mailed me, loose interest almost immediately. I don't know why!!

Why won't they? Did you try to see what they are looking for or atleast reply their mails. One thing wid some ladies is that they seize to know that their so called "Mr right" might appear from anywhere.

naniawini:
thank you

just sent you a mail. Please reply.

naniawini:
E still dey wear Louis Vuitton

Sweerie, you look sweet. Can I slide into your DM?

Wow, nice concept.

When am waiting for him to give us another sweet music. Rest in peace.

NaijaOlosho:
Why don't I know him?

it is because Oloshos in Naija only focus on their f*cking business.

So pathetic

Wow, that's lovely

Almaiga:
Check very well, the State is likely Imo, Anambara or Abia. These are the worst State in this Country.

Papi, that's Edo state. Learn to get your facts right before you spill it out.

Noneroone:
Ngige is still the best Governor Anambra has had. Obi does not even come close comparing the prevailing political atmosphere, the resources at their disposal and the time they spent.

Papi, Were you in Anambra during Ngige or Peter obi's tenure or you were just an outsider? Cause if you were, believe me your write up is irrelevant. What are your facts or you were just fed wid stories or are you defending the man simply because he's from your place or you happen to be one of the beneficiaries of the national cake during his tenure. He just asked you a simple questions that demands a simple reply and you can't even defend or express yourself.... How bad? Well, everybody has access to Internet, i don't blame you much. Wished people like you will be restricted from accessing the internet. If you don't have anything to type, just pass the trend..its very simply...after all, its not mandatory you comment.

mightyokwy:
Please can you explain farther by giving points and instances

pocohantas:
Nawa. You mean someone will wake up everyday, wear all these things, wear complete makeup...come take picture.

Not easy at all

Some women are trying. But Am not surprise.

Nice concept

Am not surprise.....

Tiwa tiwa

Are you serious?