my dear Tara i feel u, i know u r going through serious pain now but i must tell u that u r not the only one or not cos u r not a nigerian, Nigerian men (almost all) are so mean and wicked, am a nigerian & got marrried to a Nigerian from same State and Local Govt but if i tell u wht am going through now u will not beleive it so dear ur hubby is just using that as an excuse to cheat on u, so dear if u can pray just pray and leave eveything to God. my case too is that my laws loves me so much, my mother said the day i will pack out of his son house will be the that she will die

if not for the child i have with him i would have gone by now cos he does not worth me, My son is just a year and 2wks now
so been a Nigerian or not will not make any different

Sure, Smtimes i wished i wasn't married, like a situation of go here and not go here or after arguement

To use my head and not my heart

pls i will like to know why u want to say goodbye so that i can advice u

my dear, I feel ur pain o but u have to follow ur heart, U will be the one to live with this man not ur parent and i do not see any thing wrong with him be 10 yrs older than u.

I have a friend whose hubby is 10 yrs older than her but now the lady is looking older than the man after 4yrs and they are living happyly cos people were against the age too

so ride on my dear if u r in love with this guy and get married to him

Pls let him go cos he does not love, he only use u as intimacy gadget am talking from experience dump him now
All the best

i have seat him down to talk to him, waking him very early in the morning, mid night even cry and cry but nothing has been done about it, am stil going to talk to him cos i still love and wht will happend to my son if i walk away

what do i preach to him again?, STD, broking home, and all that
so pls wht do i tell him now

Thank everybody

Love u all

thanks evert body
i will get back to u cos am going to talk to him tonite

thanks a lots

he is five years older than me
abi o to the pick condom from ground now na men business now o

Do u thing walking out of the marriage is the best idea?

Thanks for all ur contributions

Our marriage is just less than 2 years

do you think my hubby have any respect for me when he call his Ex in my present thinking i was sleeping so even if i don't gloss through his phone

There was a case of when one of those girls called and i took the phone to him left him there to come back and i over heard him telling the lady that (is that why u could not sleep won't woory i will see u with a funny tone and the conversation was real funny yet i did not say a word, cos i was pregnant and i did not want anything to affect me

another day i saw condom in his pocket and he said it fell out of his friend's pocket and he pick it

Like of of u said he doest not know how to lie

so what do u think i should do to keep my marriage

pls i need ur advice, i saw a text message sent by my hubby and i comfronted him and he deny it, he said he was just testing to see my reaction, i have been supecting him with his funny call but he keep denying till this very text, do i need to call those girls and let them know that he is married cos it is getting too much and am having sleepless night now, this one just happend few days ago

pls i need ur urgent contribution or suggestion

I think i hv the same problem with my Hubby, 3 days ago i saw a love test msg on his phone, which was sent by him to the lady, pls i need an advice, i called the Number only for the lady to tell me that she has no intension of dating my hubby that she would like to meet me, really she. this is my e-mail (charitylad@yahoo.com any advice cos am running out of patient (as thinking of packing my thing to leave him so that he can have time to sleep around

don't worry dear, the right man will come

this kids are something else, like my son of 10 months, If he wants anything he will do everything to get it so smart