The circumstances beyond our control is a strong oposition from my parent. They have given me a thousand and one reasons why i can't marry him.

1) Age differnce is too much, he is 10yrs older i m in my late 20's.

2) That the marriage would be stressful because of raisin the kids later in life,

3) That he must have been frivolous with women for him to have stayed this long

4) That our interests will differ in a couple of years to come etc

you still get pocket money or house rent from your parents?

How many Nigerian females have you seen that live alone? Ibeere Oshi

tumiebone, let those excuses go. If you really like the dude, tell your parents straight out cos i assure you in a baout of a year or so they will be the sam eones on your neck asking when are you getting married. So why not marry someone who you adore and adores you back

Just make sure he's not divorced sha or has kids

KarmaMod:

How many Nigerian females have you seen that live alone? Ibeere Oshi

Oga meeeen but woni ilu yen ti improve so i expect them to laju!!!

late 20s you know!!!

Has nothing to do with improvement of a country. It has to do with how one is raised and since when is it a bad thing anyway

Free Rent

Don't pick up his call, or engage in any kind of communication

KarmaMod:

Has nothing to do with improvement of a country. It has to do with how one is raised and since when is it a bad thing anyway

Free Rent  

Improvement as in well paying jobs, which translates to more cash to rent your own place and make decisions on your own


, it becomes a bad thing when they tell you when to get home, what aunty you will go and visit together, which market you will branch on your way back from a hard days work, or when they start telling you Alabi's son just arrived to pick a wife  

Gamine:

Really??

oh its a nice honest song

BUT, i wont condone this.


Honey why you calling me so late?
It's kind of hard to talk right now.
Honey why are you crying? Is everything okay?
I gotta whisper 'cause I can't be too loud

Well, my girl's in the next room
Sometimes I wish she was you
I guess we never really moved on
It's really good to hear your voice say my name
It sounds so sweet
Coming from the lips of an angel
Hearing those words it makes me weak

And I never want to say goodbye
But girl you make it hard to be faithful
With the lips of an angel

It's funny that you're calling me tonight
And, yes, I've dreamt of you too
And does he know you're talking to me
Will it start a fight
No I don't think she has a clue

Well my girl's in the next room
Sometimes I wish she was you
I guess we never really moved on
It's really good to hear your voice say my name
It sounds so sweet
Coming from the lips of an angel
Hearing those words it makes me weak

And I never want to say goodbye
But girl you make it hard to be faithful
With the lips of an angel

It's really good to hear your voice say my name
It sounds so sweet
Coming from the lips of an angel
Hearing those words it makes me weak

And I never want to say goodbye
But girl you make it hard to be faithful
With the lips of an angel

And I never want to say goodbye
But girl you make it hard to be faithful
With the lips of an angel

Honey why you calling me so late?

Which one be all this song of solomon

@ poster

I feel you.

Not everyone's family is like your own. when a perosn acts their age, they will be treated as such

If you're truly Nigerian, you'd know that most parents esp the old school ones dont encourage their daughters to live alone. Now the men, most often are begged to go away and start their own life. This is common knowledge.

Abi you be akata?  

i dont see those excuses as a barrier,just follow ur heart.Try and make ur folks understand you both love each dearly instead of cheating ur new partner.
If they know u are very serious,they will let u be

@poster

flimsy excuses.

confide in your mom and try to win her over.
Better now than later,
time and age are two most important things to waste.

skfa1:

Which one be all this song of solomon

@poster
I understand that u broke up becos of ur parent's pressure, but it is quite insane if u have taken the decision from your parents to break up and then still go back. Be real with urself, Leave the guy are u presently cheating on and then go back to grandpa, _{no be me talk am, i am quoting you}. Becos to be sincere, you are learning the act of cheating, and if u are not careful it will be a part of your life, even if u finally get married to grandpa, oh! sorry or anyother other man.

LOL

@Song of Solomon

nawa o. u guys are used to the act of breaking up, so break up ur current relationships and get back together. if u can't, contact me privately and ill make u leave both of em 4 good

I really dont see the big deal in this, if u love the guy that much to f%%k him after breaking up, go ahead and settle with him. i know parents can be very funny when it comes to issues like marriage to someone they dont want, but remember that you will be the one living in the house with the guy not your parents. If you go ahead to marry someone else you don't love, GIRL THAT WOULD BE THE BEGINING OF YOUR DOWNFALL.

ill like to beg nairalanders not to always take time out to abuse and run down people, if you feel the post is too stupid for you, hit the X button at the top right hand corner of your screen.

What went wrong? I think you guys are meant to be together.

my dear, I feel ur pain o but u have to follow ur heart, U will be the one to live with this man not ur parent and i do not see any thing wrong with him be 10 yrs older than u.

I have a friend whose hubby is 10 yrs older than her but now the lady is looking older than the man after 4yrs and they are living happyly cos people were against the age too

so ride on my dear if u r in love with this guy and get married to him

continue sleeping with him. U like it he likes it so damn wat!!!!!!! next topic?