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If OP really has OCD and Schizotypal Personality disorder then all this are merely signs and symptoms of the illness (derealization,thought disorder,paranoid ideation/paranoia) All this belief that people talk about you and you are being monitored simply means you need to as a matter of urgency find the nearest mental health hospital and see a psychiatrist. You'll be placed on drugs and the symptoms will disappear with time. All the best.

Op, sent u a mail.. Kindly check and do the needful

Op, marriage is a decision, to endure, enjoy, and persevere. There is no one you can marry that will make you happy all days of your life. That said, the abuja lady kept her virginity den gave it to u,im sure she must have met other guys before so you need to ask yourself why she choose u not dem. I think in marriage you need someone that complements and understand you. Which of them brings out the best in you, encourages you to pursue your dreams, supports you physically, emotionally, spiritually and financially,wabts you to improve yourself instd of spendn on frivolous things . Which of them can stand you at your worst and which of them wil go out of her way just to see you happy? Ignore the 'very good cook and my friends love her aspect' because ur d one gettn married to er not ur frnds. Moreso, the notion that a lady mght be promiscuous aftr being dsvrgnd nids to change. If she wantd 2b ,she could have bein long bfr she met u. All in all, d decision is yours to make, but id suggest u take d decision fast bfr either of them finds out about the other.