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eazzzy1:
If it’s your money she’s using, stop giving her money or reduce what you give her. If it’s her money let her be.

I don’t take advise from people as to how to spend the money I worked for, neither do I give advise to others.

She’s going to stop telling you about her money moves if you keep acting like you are the only one who knows what to do with money.

Your wife isn’t a child stop being aggressive with her, she will soon start returning the aggression, then what? You will start pummeling her?

Ritzybeauty:
The best way to solve this is to get very close to her, do things together that you both haven't done before, communicate more often and she would be comfortable sharing things with you, and then you would be able to advise her on what and not what to do, do not be aggressive or else she would have no other choice than to go to others who she would be comfortable with and they would continue to exploit her by trying to act nice to her..

Richy4:
Aggressive correction pattern you said? that Sounds like a military regime you were about to bring into your relationship... The disadvantage of what you want to do is that you might forget your boundaries...you MIGHT TOTALLY forget that she was an adult and will wants to control her every move, whom she goes out with and whom she has dealings with.... we don't want to hear her coming to Nairaland in future, open a thread, complaining that her husband won't allow her to breath without his approval.... then people that encouraged you to do what you were about to start doing will turn against you.....

I will suggest that you soft pedal on her ... She is the trusting type and that golden heart I guess was what attracted you to her... Some people, when they have and can't give, it gives them sleepless nights...Sometimes, it's hard to let go of someone u assumed was a best friend that have your interest at heart...
Sometimes also, the way to open people like your wife's eyes is by providing a concrete evidence to back up your claims so that when she starts dropping them like hot potatoes, she has all her facts right... a lot of people were still trusting in this world..

DECC:
Are you in Enugu or Onitsha ? I want the Samsung AC ....

charles009:
I see, I saw, I see snake agwo.
Guys the below items are in top condition and going for sale.

Samsung 1hp bought March 2020(nylon still dey some parts) =52k. Will add a full installation kit as a souvenir.

Scanfrost 1hp digital display=50k top condition, also bought brand new. Will throw in an installation as a bonus. SOLD

3 seater visitors chair 20k. Top condition.

OX FAN=SOLD

Once paid, items will be collected from my apartment as additional comfort guaranteeing the impeccable condition of these items.

I will give a 3 year guarantee on the ACs.

Location is Enugu
Call/wassap obiorah:08038708407

eddiense:
Let's me pick the both ACs for 90k (that is if they haven't been worked on) cos i will still do waybill. If it's ok by you, let's deal

charles009:
Guys this items has to go asap.
All items are in top condition meanwhile apologies for posting here.

Samsung 1hp AC 55k Moscow standard
Scanfrost 1hp digital display 50k mortuary standard
20'' Ox fan copper coil 25k
3 seater visitor chair 20k

I will throw in the installation kits for free

Please all prices are non negotiable.

I am only selling because I have a very urgent medical need to attend to.

Location ENUGU/08038708407