Op got the pain and area, u re coming from don't mind the kids rubbishing u. she is ur wife and sure u got that right to sex, but one thing like u stated u live in a room and parlor house, and sure sex in the seating room when u have ur mom in-law in the room ain't safe. she could pop out to pee or any other stuff could bring her out and could meet u guys in the act, from dis I guess ur wife is very private and personal about sex, but sure hear her own story out, weda married or not its weird for a mum to hear her daughter moan or see her in the act. bro try kip d libido on the low for d time being.

Acidosis:


Bro, you deserve to be worried, pained and confused. Don't allow any hypocrite make you feel like you're imhumane.

Whether it happened 1000 years ago, it doesn't matter. If these folks found out that their ex slept with a dog some 50 years ago, they would still find a way to show their dissatisfaction to the said ex.

If I were in your shoes, I would be devastated as well.. It doesn't matter whether she confessed or I discovered myself.. the knowledge of what happened is all it takes to get one pained, so don't feel stu p!d or heartless.

Now to the real issue, I think you're worried that the said relationship with her cousin might continue even after a proper wedding with you. Whether you like it or not, you would henceforth feel insecure to have that cousin close and alone with your woman. Nobody welcomes such, except of course, the online "e-doesn't matter" e-pocrites.

The big question is: do you love your woman? Yes, right? Love is one aspect, do you trust your woman? Note, anybody can love, but trust is expensive. You have to be sure you trust her 100%.

Having said that, it's time to get your mind off the relationship with her cousin. It would be difficult but you have to try.

If you discover however at any point that moving on would be difficult, gently back out! This is marriage, not a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship. You will continue to meet her cousin, he will attend your wedding and probably offer you a handshake... Can you bear it?

Other days, he will stop by at your house when you're not around to say hi. Yes, it is true you now trust your wife, but do you trust the guy enough to share the same remorse with your wife? Has he repented and moved on?

My respect goes to your woman though. That's one hell of a secret 99.9% of her fellow will take to the grave. She has done her part... Now can you do yours? If your answer is yes, go ahead and marry her.

most stupid advice I HV heard in my life, we bro she and the cousin have already grown out of that moreover, she told u and still HV confessed to her creator, case closed go ahead and do the needful if u love her.

9jaflaver:
UNIABUJA Female Student Raped While Asleep

On the 13th of march, 2017, been tuesday, a university of abuja female student walked into her room (Girls hostel – Mini Campus), only to be shocked with the sight of an unknown man penetrating her room mate who was asleep, immediately, the rapist noticed her presence which alerted him as she screamed out for help, he (the rapist) escaped the lynch of mobs before there arrival.

9jaflaver news team, after investigations, questionnaires, gathered that the victim of rape was no not familiar with the rapist, neither was she aware of the penetration during the action, which qualifies it as rape. The victim’s room mate who caught the rapist on her, during a chat with 9jaflaver said that, she saw the rapist holding a vujuu-like material while penetrating her room mate, which clearly explains the fact that the rapist enchanted his victim.

The victim is currently under medical care, and prayer sessions.

Details coming soon….

Source:- http://9jaflaver.com/uniabuja-female-student-raped-while-asleep/

its very possible cos I recall dis happened in the 90s in fiwashaye girls sch akure way back, guys no try juju

Dren of nowadays sha. money miss step waka enter wrong turn.

lalasticlala:
I regretted divorcing my former husband, the beating I receive now is worse, wife tells court

Read more at: http://www.vanguardngr.com/2017/03/regretted-divorcing-former-husband-beating-receive-now-worse-wife-tells-court/




http://www.vanguardngr.com/2017/03/regretted-divorcing-former-husband-beating-receive-now-worse-wife-tells-court/

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its clear she has issues and the earlier she works towards making her life better or might b a coincidence the two re woman beaters but, the big point here is work on ur attitude
madam. the next might be same too.

zykson:
I just killed this animal in Uniben.please can someone help me with the name

its a potto

[quote author=POWEROFPEACE post=46170587]My fiancée took money from me one day only to wire it into another guys account. God so kind, she forgot the teller inside her bag and I saw it. I took the name and brows it on Facebook. I was very honest with the guy during our chats so that he told me the whole truth. I wish to quit the relationship even though she is begging but I don't know if that is the right decision because I will be 35 years in just few days from now. Your quality advice might just give way to meaning, Please.[/quote) U caught her send money to a guy doeesnt mean she is cheating and bro few months to wedding u say? We all clean our shelves b4 d D day so if she is open trust me u guys can work somefin out.

yinkus204:
Ipob yoot ar just so angry anytime they hear good news frm Apc

the worst u can do to ur sef is lie to ursef, Ode