marshalldgreat:
Well, it's only natural that they are attracted to each other but under your roof is wrong... Make them no plan bad against you one day... Your wife advised you well and even the language thing should stop since you and your wife don't understand HAUSA

that is my wife's fear.

na stupidity dey rush all of una

smadav:
for me I think your wife is wise she is trying to avoid possible coup by them on u. if u know u know

thanks for that. na she dey manage us here. she always makes groundbreaking decisions that i would wish i came up with first. i supported her about the language ban

I just found that my gateman and my housemaid are dating. They seem to be into each other. I really do not see anything wrong with that but my wife. The two lovers are from Northern part of Nigeria and i am an Igbo. my wife doesn't like the relationship, her reason being that we are like a guardian to the girl and anything happens, we are to be blamed for overlooking our responsibility. I still don't see anything wrong because the girl is 19 years but looks 16. She has small body while the gate man should be around 21 or 23, at most. My wife has even banned them speaking Hausa language around the house because neither my wife nor I understand Hausa language. Please advise us on the way forward. Apart from my safety, i care less about adults being adult.

miracood:
THE HATE I HAVE FOR MESSI CANT BE DESCRIBED.

are Chelsea or Manchester united fan?

She took it well. i like when people take things simple and fun

Gmajor:


I have a question about the second point your raised.
What if the persons name ends with an s like say Moses, where are you supposed to place the apostrophe

Just write it as it is if the name carried 's'. But when you are talking about possession, you have to put the apostrophe but after the "s". E.g: Those aren't mine, they are Moses'. Nairaland is James' favorite forum. Moses's is not correct.

flames01:



How will you say "almost everybody" makes the mistakes you listed? How can somebody mix "then" with "than?" Because you roll with dumb people most times doesn't mean almost everybody is dumb.

people do actually. Mostly Americans. i have read many facebook post and comments that misused the two words. Frankly, I haven't seen a sane Nigerian make such mistake.

And then, no one would think of her as innocent but slay queen(olosho) that fell inside trap.

Willian talks a lot theae days. he could be lonely

Reniel001:
If you listened to the message well...you will hear when he said...please don't do it out of compulsion but out of conviction of the lord...i think this clears it all...I don't think Der should be any form of debate in this...it's in the hand of the audience...Incase you don't know...people do Crazy and unbelievable things to earn unbelievable things from the lord...it depends on your conviction...these men didn't become great by mere ministration...please read between lines before going into sacred things...thanks

I tried listening in between lines but got confused when he said even if God told him that seeds didn't work, he would say thank you but it did. that doesn't sound okay when you associate it with a petson that calls himself man of God.

Reniel001:
If you listened to the message well...you will hear when he said...please don't do it out of compulsion but out of conviction of the lord...i think this clears it all...I don't think Der should be any form of debate in this...it's in the hand of the audience...Incase you don't know...people do Crazy and unbelievable things to earn unbelievable things from the lord...it depends on your conviction...these men didn't become great by mere ministration...please read between lines before going into sacred things...thanks

why should somebody tell you exact amount you should sow as seed? If seed sowing is by conviction, amount to be sowed should be by conviction not compulsion.

I strong think that AS MONACO is tired of being a club. how can you loan players after selling your starting eleven. just turn to football academy already

Go to friend's house? what is the difference between going home and going to friend's house? May be to get your friend into trouble or worst, killed, too.

smileing:
Please I need responsible advice

Many were coming as suitors but I don't know why I let him come closer.

He forcefully took away my pride and I was hurt. He said he did that cos he doesn't want to lose me

I wanted to leave but I couldn't cos I love him.
I don't offer sex cos I'm religious and I believe it's a sin. Told him to wait till marriage but he wouldn't.
for almost a year we ve been courting I didn't allow him touch me.

Till this day he forcefully had sex with me .
He wants to come pay my dowry but I'm not sure that my people will let me marry him. I too went and prayed about him and they told me that he is not my husband (about 5 different people said it)

He is OK, financially, is educated and promising.
But not God-fearing as I wanted.

Now I'm pained for what he did to me .I'm grieved cos I wanted to lose my pride on my wedding night.
and I'm thinking of leaving him cos I'm hurting so much now.

I feel less of myself and sinful too


Please what should I do?


those that married non Virgin how did your spouse take it. I need to know cos it ll help reshaping my mindset

I am really sorry for what happened. I don't think wise men value virginity the way you see it. Yes, girls pride themselves for that but in a case where you don't have it anymore, it does not in any way mean you are useless. Whether you want to punish you friend for that depends on you. you may jump and say yes, i want to get even with him but at the long run, you will end up hurting yourself or even losing more. If you really love him, pray over it and get married to him. No person is perfect. Your life can change him for better if you think he does not fear God enough.
God knows how you feel about losing your virginity. I still believe that being chaste is for God not for for human. No damn human is worth keeping your virginity for. We are sinners. God will forgive because you didn't do it willingly. You were forced. whether you enjoyed it or not doesn't matter. you were forced. whether you were talked into doing it doesn't matter. PLEASE DO NOT CONSIDER COMMITTING SUICIDE. IT DOESN'T WORTH LOSING YOUR LIFE FOR. Worst people most times make a good husband. do not count him off

HoodBillionaire:
nothing special
women got nothing to offer dan sex
bankys bich

my sister, my mom and girlfriend have something to offer. thanks

That is not racism. It is countrism

Barcelona why? I am still trying to like Vida and now Pogba, why me? We have got enough players to make a statement this season. Why buying more?

I am sure Daura will be compensated duly for being used as a sacrificial lamp in a failed plot. Apc's desperation is beyond comprehension. They don't mind killing half of Nigerians to remain in power.

I wanted to advise you on how to convince your mom that you love the girl and why she(your mom) should accept her but the problem is that you do not need any of that except how to end the relationship. From your post, ending relationship is never new to you. let the relationship follow its predecessors.

this man is pissed

ednut1:
Wetin concern dss and football. God y u put me for this zoo na

Direct Soccer Service. DSS

Realhommie:
When members of your immediate family can not trust you then you know something is seriously wrong.. Was he involved in money rituals?

No. Just fear.

4601CE:
Whats your point?
From your story , I can only deduct someone went away for ten years while working his ass off!

yes. it is unusual in our family. I don't believe in money ritual. Until our mom's death, we laughed her for that. When villagers do not know your line of business, they will term you ritualist and devil will punish you when your mom or dad or any of your family members dies in your house or after visiting you. My comment was just to state that people fear unnecessarily.

My elder bro stayed 10years without visiting home. We thought he was dead. When he came back, he came with new V-boot. I was very young then. he bought our mother wrappers. the one that got me was when our mother asked him to carry the wrapper and touch on his body first. There, he knew he had lost the trust.

My mentor once told me that when a hustle involves life, it is not longer a risk but suicide mission arguing that risk should be taken with money not life. He did give exception though. so, guys, can you spin?

ishowdotgmail:

Forget!!! Everyone will die one day hope you know?

yea. i agree but na why you wan rush am?

ishowdotgmail:
Will love to be a lecturer too

death dey hungry u?

CAPSLOCKED:

I'M IN NIGERIA, HOW CAN I DONATE FROM HERE? HOW MANY GALLONS YOU WANT?

they ain't talking about crude oil bro. it is sperm for fuckks sake

Monaco2:
All the cars are looking alike these days.....

one would think it is new generation highlander or what ford or Nissan would build

RZArecta2:
After all the wahala, starting price will be 16-22 million naira. No be Naija we dey ?

may be 11.4m is the Manufacturer's Suggested Retail Price(MSRP). the actual market price will be surely above that by 3 to 4 million. The car looks like the new generation toyota highlander.

Beating him or not should depend on what he needed the bible for. Is he stealing to survive or to feel alive?