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what? this pastor don join gang ooo

clive2u:
I knw the feeling bro, same thing has happened to me, left a very good girl for a virgin, so she told me (i believe her tho) but in my own case i dont intend testing, if i loose her without getting it no problem. If your virgin girl is true to u stick to her but marrying a virgin might come with a little price, what if she want to check how another guy is? She might noy tho. Goodluck

exactly my worry. may be she will one day decide to explore

lenghtinny:
If you want to marry her because she's a virgin, then you need to have a rethink.

Marriage no be beans, what matters is the level of compatibility. Are you guys compatible? Do you see both of you lasting forever like nothing?

Weigh your options between the two and go for the one that suits you best. Virginity is an added advantage but it shouldn't bethe main focus when it comes to marriage

compatibility? i really can't answer that for now. the situation here has been love, love, love, and love. Compatibility takes time to know. all this started about three weeks ago

I need your sincere advices about this problem. I succumbed to temptation and it is driving me nut.
The story:
i have a girlfriend, and we have been together for almost a year and half now. We stay in the same city(abuja) but little bit far away. Things have been going well. I trust her. I know no one should be trusted but she hadn't given me the impression to suspect her in any way. She is not the type of girl that would wait for her boyfriend to call or initiate sex. She has been so good to me and has helped our relationship stand strong. Now, i have gone and brought another problem into the whole love story. There is this little girl in my area in her early twenties. I was never interested in her ooo. She started from greeting me with most beautiful smile you could ever imagine. Because of that, i started greeting her that way. This time we don't greet in passing but we stand for some seconds to greet each other. she would ask me where was going or coming from and i would aske her the same thing. So, one day she met me going out and she was coming back. I asked her where she was coming from she told me she went for errands for her mum. I told her was going to watch football match. She asked me if women would be allowed in. I laughed and asked her why not. I told her i was actually going to watch the match at our Estate Garden and not normal viewing center. She asked me if i could allow her join me. i agreed. she asked me to wait for her to give her mum stuff. I used the opportunity and went back to the house and collected my Atm card. just to prepare for an unseen expenses. i knew i was in for unnecessary expenses. As expected i met some of my friends. They asked me usual questions if she was my girl. I told them no but she was a very good friend of mine. One of my friends sat with us and started gisting with her. I never knew him as a comedian until that day. He would joke from one thing to the other. That made me to leave them. I left the match and went outside joined our chess club. While playing chess, i noticed i was actually jealous not that my friend was being foolish. I got beaten twice by somebody that never won me in chess. I left there and joined them. ha, my friend has already ordered for 800 naira suya and drinks. she has taken Malt already. she had to turn down another order. he asked them to give me another bottle of hero. long story short, he paid for everything. he told me he was interested in the girl. I told him no wahala. as we were coming back, she folllowed me to my house. we were discussing the guy. how funny he was. I told her that the guy was actually interested in her. She asked me if i would allow him touch her. as she put, "you wey dey jealous like this go allow another man take me?" I was surprised to the born and i didn't know when i said, "he can try me!" That sense of ownership she has given me started working my brain backward. I didn't touch her that day. Early in the morning the following day, she came. dressed up for church already. this time she told me she forgot to ask me which church i attend. I told her i was a Catholic. we attend different churchs. I wanted to see her off but she told me her mother was inside car waiting for her at the front our house. I was surprised and was wondering what she could have told her mum that would make her stopped car just for her to ask me which church i attend. She came back to our house the same day but i wasn't around so she gave her number to our GM and asked him to tell me to call her as soon as i am back. I called her and she refused to pick. she came to my house instead. She is very pretty. her laps alone can reset brain. She as so relaxed with me. we talked for a while and she saw Listerine(mouth washer) in my room and asked me if i have mouth odour. i said no. it is just for fresh breath and gum protection. She went ahead and used it. She came back and i kissed her. I told her now your breathe is fresher. she laughed. after a while she told me that the kiss was her first and that she never wanted it that way. i told her story, story. she insisted that was her first kiss. i went ahead to inquire if she was a virgin. she said yes. Ha! in my mind, i said to myself, a virgin at my disposal. just like that? We argued over it. she told me a long story that she didn't even finish. we were lying in the same bed this time. legs crossed. Then i knew something must happen but didn't just know the time or the right move. we kissed for long. she asked how many girlfriends did i have and i told her 10, jokely. she asked how many would be her biggest rivals. I told her may be none. that queens always have their way. we HAD it and it was true. she was a virgin. she was so confused after the sex. she asked me if her mother would know. Since then, i have had it like three times with her. she doesn't only see me as her boyfriend, she sees me as her husband. Right now, i am confused. My girlfriend has started noticing some funny behaviors from me. I don't know how but she has been complaining that i have started changing. It could be her instinct because i do call her. I am just praying that they don't meet each other in my house. I told my best friend and he said, "who go chop virgin and still go ahead and marry a nonvirgin?" Yes, i am planning to marry by 2019. So this Monday, yesterday, my virgin girl called and told me she had told her mum about us and that she approved me. that i am humble guy. The major problem is that my family members do not have preference between the two. what should i do. the problem is already here but how to solve it to my own benefit without hurting anyone

what is the meaning of mbok and ufan?

quote author=buoye1 post=67212735]ok.. Now tell us their differences please [/quote Figures of spech are expressions used to CLARIFY subjects, objects, idea or whatever While Idiom is by itself a meaning. Idiom is used to transfer wisdom. What you have in the book of Psalms are mostly idioms not figures of speech. When you say, "she is as black as charcoal ", you have just used figures of speech but definitely not Idiom. Idiomatic expressions are deeper in meaning than figurea of speech. This is just my random thought. i am somehow too busy to go into details but will definitely do if no one could do justice to that before night falls

They are not even related or near

Too much energy guy

youngest85:
Lesbianism is Ok but gay is abomination

na po'n dey cause this kind thing. Your thought is inspired by po'n

Gangster1ms:
Bitter ass woman

what do you call that grown ass man that does not respect his age, Sweet ass man?

Internet witches and wizards everywhere

dafeyankee:
Nothing spiritual here.

Once dated a girl who only sleeps holding a pillow. Try hard as I did to make her put her head on the pillow,I always wake up to her holding very tight to the pillow.

At first I thought it was spiritual. I mean who holds on to a pillow so tight and firm as if they are choking it?

Later I discovered she and her younger sister fought a lot as kids over pillows,and each would hold on tight to her pillow so the other don't snatch it.

As an adult she still hold the pillow tight.

I still hold pillow till today. i am even laughing out loud here because i am holding it right now. I dn tink am before but said to masef say na because me still single.

About Op, i still lie that way but when i am waiting for sleep or half awake.

slimfit1:
So he left former heads of state that has experience to ask a governor and instantly followed his advice.

That i can't defend him on. Just saying that seeking advice from people by president ain't totally wrong. May be he sought the wrong one and from the wrong person

slimfit1:
The President with PHD that cant use is own initiative. The man that makes PHD look stupid taking advise from Babangida can you imagine.

No democratic president in the world makes decision based on his own knowledge. they all seek expertise in every issue. That is why cabinet is constituted to help expedite pressing issues and at the same time, reduce the possibility of failure

she wants to take care of some pressing issues. hold on. the only thing i have to tell you is that it will never yield anything.

sharp ex

Another marriage hit rock again. Waiting for the impact and resistance

If it is by bidding, i am in. i have an unreasonable deity that can serve that purpose. Money will be offered to it before it comes out. 500k per word during the swearing in. If my deity kills the offender, the property belonging to the culprit will my deity's. my deity does not kill family members... it kills the real culprit.

i want to fight you too. please, i am not going to fight over victory with you. i am just concerned about what happens after the fight.

ceeroh:
5months You commit murder?

i served one damn year.

amzee:
It feels good to be back after serving 5months and some weeks ban.
To the Moderator that ban me,I am back and better.

Back and better. all thanks to mod. he made you better within 5 months

me: i love you

she: just like that?

Me: what do you mean?

She: love is shown and you are no where near loving me.

Me: (in my mind:this girl na prophetess) it is a statement i hate saying myself due to its misuse and misunderstanding. Sorry if you're offended by it. I hate you, a lot.

She: this is exactly what u feel for me. hate.

me: hate is shown

Used

Noooooooooooooooooooooo
Buhariiiiiiiiiiiiiiii
Nooooooooooooooooooooo
Not Again!

dokJ:
their names though....may they RIP

those names do not sound Nigerian at all but that is by the way. The BEE family were three. Just imagine losing three family members in one morning like that. May their souls gang against their killer and seek justice from the Lord they served.

noooooooooooooooooooooo. What is this? these people will finish benue ooo. Enough of all this. FG hardly discuss this issue. the killing is damn too much. I see this as war and the people of Benue state should pick up weapons and defend and if possible, attack too.

MiddleBelt needs your prayer

Benue people should ban or forbid cow meat in their state. it is too much

Zamad:
They have enough cleaners sir

There is only one vacancy there. I need a coaching job.

how can i submit my CV? i want an Arsenal job. I have an impeccable record because i never coached anywhere.

TheUpsetGirl1:
thousands me.. we don't have more than 16000 female soldiers in this country

how many female soldiers did you count in Israel before coming up with that generalization?

internationalman:
WTF..

And they say it's only guys that kiss and tell..

Everyone does. it is not skewed to any gender, rather it is the person that is involved. No man would tell his mate when he 'does' an ugly girl and no girl would tell when she screws no-future guy