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@Truth. pp- Previous poster. I was referring to Scash. the

@Truth. pp- Previous poster. I was referring to Scash.

Hello all,
I was just wondering about what the PP asked about. I intend going over this September too, to resume my masters programme. If the dollar naira rate doesn't go down I'm also considering not going with any cash at all. Then withdrawing via visa card when I get there. I think 86 to 1 ringgit is still better than converting money at 360 to one dollar

Unlike previous PP, I don't have RM. Do u think I'll have a problem with immigration in Nigeria or at Malaysia? What are the odds of a student getting deported? A friend of mine went earlier this year with a working visa and at KL, he wasn't asked for BTA

Thanks everyone...
First, he promised he was over her. It was just the guilt of having her abort her baby that couldn't make him let go. He was so sorry, I had to believe him n get married.

He just acts like he's so obsessed. no matter what I say, he can't help but talk to her. Comfort her wen she has problems wit her relationships n even help her decide Wu's d best.

I hope talking to him for d umpteenth time wild help.. tanks again

honestly, i dont know. i think it was just the moment that caused it. i dont want him to know av been reading his messages again, i feel bad cause he has been showing me so much love; there shouldnt be cause for doubt

I ve loved my husband since i was 14 years old. i think he noticed me when i got to the university in my first year.. then we started going out when i was 20. throughout our relationship, he loved me truly, because i gave him a lot of trouble. broke up with him a million times but he kept coming back, kept sending people to beg me and all... there was a time our breakup lasted for almost a year. i dated someone else, and after pestering me for a while, my husband did too..
But later, i felt, i couldnt live without him so i went back to him, and fortunately he still loved me enough to have me back.

Then i got to know about his former girlfriend.. she got pregnant along the way but aborted. he took her home to meet his parents before the abortion but tribal stuffs, they couldnt marry... i learnt all this from their whatsapp conversations, asked him about it n he affirmed. then he told me it was over with them. cool, we started planning our wedding.
a month to our wedding, i read hiis whatsapp messages again, and boy, what i saw almost broke me.
he was still seeing dis his ex.. they were still very much in love with each other, they always talked about how they wished it was the two of them getting married... even his friends at his place of work didnt know he was getting married! they knew just this lady because she worked in the same office while i was in another town entirely completing my youth service.
I told my parents, they told his parents.. family meeting... then apology. he cried. he was sorry. there was nothing i could do, so we got married.

At our honeymoon, this madam was pestering him with messages, i saw them later and then had to call her. pls try to leave him alone hez married n all. well, she didnt leave him n neither did he. they werent seeing, but they were really communicating, of which hez smarter now so its hard for me to get to read those messages.
I was pregnant n frustrated. i complained to his siblings over and over again. he told me it was out of pity and guilt, he needed to see her married before he could stop talking to her. And truthfully, it was just normal conversations nothing serious. i just felt, since he knew how much i didnt like them talking, he should stop if he actually loved me like he claimd.
Finally he stopped. we had our baby and we were very much happy and in love. then i made the mistake of telling him i trusted him, even if he chats with that lady again i wouldnt take offence. So, he started again. regular mails, asking about her relationship, who shez seeing, and all. i tried not to complain, because i had indirectly given him the go ahead. you ld see from the ladys reply that she was angry he abandoned her for sso long, but she kept on talking to him. today i poke nosed on facebook and on one of the messages he called her 'my honey'... and then he asked if he cld still call her that. at the end of the chat he wrote 'i miss u'
i dont want to think too much about it, as i m totally sure they av not seen since our wedding, but i dont like the fact that he just cant stop pinging her. cant stop talking to her. and now he wants her to b his honey again. i m worried. what do you think please.


I'm sorry its this long, av edited it a lot

Hi, anyone who has info about it or sells... pls drop a line. A white one preferably

Thank u all for your comments.
And lol... I won't call him. I want to more than anythin, bt I won't, d more I think of it d more I realize hez just a really mean guy. I'll wait for him to call

Thank u. I wish I just could. I lost my virginity to him like a month back, so maybe that's adding to my reluctance to let him go totally.

This is the first time ever I'll experience this kind of feeling. I and my boyfriend had a mutual breakup two weeks ago. Although its something I feel is right, I even orchestrated it... He is dis very handsome guy dt has loads n loads of girls around. I know he loves n cares about me bt not to the extent that he'l go through hoops for me. Everytin he does with me has a limit.
When we just startd dating, he was really crazy bout me my pictures were always his DP, later he stopped n startd puttin anoda girls picture there. I told me he once had a crush on d girl so he did dat majorly wen we had quarels cos he knew how dt wld make me feel. So I just had to step back, I had someone else that loved and still loves me so... I started acting like I didn't care, den he suggested we breakup and I said fine.
But now I just can't seem to stop crying,my hearts so heavy I feel I can never be happy again. I want to call him, but I know it won't help matters. Please guys just tell me what you think myt help. I don't want to get depression cos of a guy

GeeCee: Poster, Kill yourself!
Nonsense

u try to hard t b funnyn n u fail miserably

No one owns him, so he shdnt do what either of them says