LordIsaac:
Does he have money? He must!

No the chimp doesn't have, but his handlers have. They are the ones paying the lady . If you paid attention, you will notice there was a hand directly the chimp what to do

Iykegodslove:
Good day everyone!! I am emotionally shattered as I type this message. I have been suspecting my wife for years now but no concrete evidence to confront her.

There is a boss of my mine who happens to be our family friend. Each time he calls my wife, she deletes the call history immediately. This has been happening for years but I keep quite because i love my wife and my children so much.

Of recent, i decided to know what is happening by hacking her call with him. Lo and behold, they are into deep relationship that my wife calls him baby. Infact, sleep has gone out of my eyes and am thinking of how to deal with the situation.

It should be noted that i am not working under the man in question only that we are church members and he has rendered countless of help to me. I am wondering what puts my wife into this mess. I am graduate but i decided not to work for anybody but to focus on my farming. I am doing well financially bcs i can boost of 500k or more every month. We are not lacking anything at all.

Please house ignore my typo and help with good advice.

Note: i dnt want to divorce my wife and am ready to forgive her bcs she has been of great help to my success and moreover, i love my family very well. What should i do to stop them?

First please let me know the farming you do that you earn 500k monthly.

Second don't confront her since you still love her, PRAY for her and ask God to put division between her and the man. But pray for your self to be able to forgive her and your own emotional healing. Since you love her that much, there's hope to salvage her and for the sake of the children. Don't bring in a third party unless that person is someone that will pray with you or help in your emotional healing. Maybour father in heaven help you and strengthen you

Proudman1:
So, I received a good amount of money into my first bank account.

And they automatically freeze the account.

Something less than 100k.

So, I went to the bank to find out what the issue was about and they said I need to do KYC documentation.

My NIN and BVN are already with this people and I've been using this same account since 2015!

Ok, let me do the KYC na, they say my name doesn't match and I need to swear affidavit.

I went to court to do affidavit and then they submitted it and ask me to come back next week Wednesday.

The thing sha weak me because I no get any money to sustain myself till that Wednesday.

But the worst is the utility bill requirements. The support ask me to come with NEPA bill. I told her that I stay in the university hostel.

The next thing she said was that I should go to the university management and collect their NEPA bill and bring it to them

I was like how in hell will that be possible? 🤷

Right now, I don't know what step to take sha. Because who for school management go gree give student school NEPA bill to go complete the student's bank account?

Tell them you don't want to do again. You want to close the account. If they don't agree, make a scene, ask for manager on top of your voice, remove your shirt, they will attend to you fast

Namaster:
Stop killing yourself softly. A lot of sicknesses and diseases have similar symptoms. That's why there are clinical tests instead of guessworks.

Visit a hospital with a lab and do a HIV test. It's cheap. It's not more than #5K in most private hospitals. Probably cheaper than that in public ones.

Also, don't be an idiiiot. Use condoms.

I don't know about the single ones o, Omo the day I tried using condom with my wife,it was like trying to eat bread with the bread nylon. Kai

Tallesty1:
Married men are the most sex starved.

Says who?

T0T0Vulcanizer:

No I am not yet ready for marriage.
They still many fishes in the ocean that I still haven't tasted yet.

Yes I respect my parents very much. If someone goes to tell my mom that see me with cigar stick she won't believe.

As there are many fishes in the ocean to taste, there are also many sharks in the ocean to kill you, that's if you don't drown in the ocean first or mammy water does not capture you.
The risks far out weigh the perceived potential gains. I would have said to myself " mind your business, what do I know" but I know some and I can assure you, you are on a very slippery ground. It's only one mis step that it will take. Just one.

immortalcrown:
Terrible! Sentence him to a lifetime marriage with Jennyclay.

The signs for these problems show during courtship but people fool themselves. Be you a male or a female, don't tolerate in dating what you cannot endure in marriage. Also, don't give a room for pretence during dating. Do all the necessary assessments. Don't deceive yourself in the name of being romantic and peaceful. Don't fool yourself in the name of "I will change him/her". Otherwise, the outburst of your anger and depression in the marriage will be disastrous.

Dead men tell no tales. It would have been nice to hear from the deceased. What drives a man to this extent is not ordinary. And it happened less than 2 years they moved to the UK. Western society is so warped. And it's given too much power and authority to women and one thing women are not good with is Power.

Cindypresh:


Yes he still has a long way to go but if you deny you didn't see how bad that road was then you're the biggest liar to ever walk this earth.


Something everyone saw🙄

Na you get time to dey argue with blind men that have eyes.

shortgun:

If we want to act insensitive we will all be in our houses and enjoy sleep for the night. Do you think it's easy to abandon the comfort of our homes to spend the night outside for our late friend.
None of the family members knows our friend more than we do.
His immediate elder brother has given us go ahead to hold the wake keep, every other of his relatives can go and die

Truly you people are children. SMH

shortgun:
Tragically we lost a close friend to the cold hands of death who passed away in a ghastly motor accident.

He was in his late thirties to early forties,unmarried, no child, and a Christian from the North west.

In solidarity, we his friends, proposed to hold a formal wake keep for him at his Abuja residence and promptly began the preparation process. This included securing the services of a DJ and arranging refreshments for the gathering.

Certain members of his family objected to the idea of the wake keep, contending that it was inappropriate for us to engage in partying and funfair following the untimely passing of their loved one. They insisted we limit the gathering to just a public address system and a choir to sing, nothing more.

Some of our friends are threatening to hands-off and withdraw their involvement from everything about the funeral including not attending the burial and allow the family members do whatever that pleases them.
Others are of the opinion that we should ignore the family members and go ahead with our plans since we are going to be paying respect to our late friend and not members of his family.

What do you guys think?

You people are insensitive, Child like and immature.
Why throwing party in guise of wake keeping in a family that's mourning for a live cut short?
And so called friends are threatened to abandon the burial plans for the family to do what they like. Before nko, it's the families right to do and plan as they seem fit and lastly you don't have any grounds at all to disregard the family and go ahead with the party.

havenz:
Government of joke, when fire come now them no go fit put am off while in Benue State we get rivers of water but we no dey see water to drink.

You people are sadists. There's nothing any one does that will pacify you people. Thank God they don't listen to people like you. It's people around you that I pity

Kingray10:
You made a post the same you is the first to comment.
What kind of Op is this
Concerning the topic,it's best you don't disclose your title as a land owner in Lagos if you are wise

Why is that. Can you enlighten newbies

CatchMeIfUCanMO:

Make we dey watch na

Correct guy. Your head dey there. 👍

CatchMeIfUCanMO:
Draw soup loading

Winning dey this game

Rockyrascal:
When I come across post like this I remember the blessings I got from my grandmother before she breathe her last breathe years ago. She put her hand on my head and said my grandson People will waste their time to read your comments
And today is that day

Lol. Guy you no well

Illegal1:


omoh.........senior man abeg 4get long preaching,the matter no go anywere..

he go spend the money and notin go happen..las las he go tell them say he no dey receive alert,so he no knw wen money enter he acct..


dat supermarket get luck say nah good guy acct the money enter,if not..dat money nah bye bye...NO CASE.

What one poster said above is very true. It happened to me, luckily for me it was a little amount. They put my account PND, the particular fund was held back in my account, you will will balance a different thing then book balance is another thing, the bank called me after 3 days or so that please someone made a wrong deposit to me that they need my permission to debit my account back . I said okay. The bank guy was even begging. When I said permission granted you could feel his relief. But I am sure if I had spent the money, dey go blacklist your bvn

PointZerom:


Nwanne uche gi diya.

Wilcox Ukaegbu junction, All Saints Ehere road. Cat and dog. Chaii

NeckingNgulping:
Every now and then, i see news of women throwing their men out in the UK. This begs for a few questions..

Don't the men have the wherewithal to get a house for themselves that they chose to live with a woman i believe takes care of the rent?

Do they not notice when the problem is looming, so they can vacate on their own without being thrown out

You paid 24k pound for her school fees and you didn't plan to get an apartment for yourself knowing how women in UK are always prone to throwing their men out.

Some of just read a few sentence and jump to comment. Didn't you also read where he said


he is the one that pays for the rent if the house, hence he is s bewildered why he is been thrown out of his own house

Coldspice:


Not only was he attending City of David, he was the Chairman of the building committee of the Parish and a personal friend of the Pastor's family.

Less than 8 days after his death, the Pastor's wife celebrated a flamboyant birthday in the Parish and had Flavor in attendance, insensitive to the mourning of the parish and family.

Oh I get it now.

Coldspice:
They moved the Lagos program to RCCG the Resurrection Parish in Lekki.

I hope that Pastor in City of David and his foolish, insensitive wife are happy.

What happened? Was he attending City of David Parish?

Greenfaces:
Ok.
The cost of living is so high. Even the 1000watts inverters they used to sell for 8k is now 18k. That's why I have started producing my own modified square wave inverters. I don't mind helping technicians do their own by manufacturing locally or in batch. This country ehn! Chai!

Bro please explain. Is it the same inverter for light. Please help me understand.

baralatie:

That is the wrong way for the guy to even judge the situation
What happens if the lady in question is unable to even come no matter how hard she tried(due to unforeseen circumstances)

Yes. He judge the situation terribly. If the girl had genuine reason not to come. She would have communicated properly.

EreluRoz:
You are right on this. They are very aggressive and can kill . Imagine the damage ontop how much again? The babe sef should have done better

Immediately I saw your post. I just went to check your profile and saw your picture. A picture is worth more than a thousand words. It's your tradecraft. Birds of a kind. God help you people.

Kobicove:
Don't date people who have low self esteem

you people are missing the point. That's why our justice system is in shamble. What the man did can not be justified. But why collect his money when you knew you wouldn't go. You collect money go make hair, where you carry the new hair go?

Jennyclay:
Oh no!! Not again .

God knows I have absolutely nothing to do with a broke man. If you’re a broke man and you approach me, the way I will talk to you, you will regret the day your useless father ever gave birth to you .

Just look at what this broke animal did to a lady and her mother because of 7k Biko, the court should kindly sentence the broke animal to death ASAP!! He’s a threat to women in the society

Wicked and evil men!!

You don't have sense at all. I wonder how you people think. I DON'T SUPPORT the man in any way at all. He deserves to be eternally locked up. But how can you say you you can't date a broke man yen yen yen you go ahead and collect his 7k. Are you mad. Why collect his money when you knew you weren't going to go or never wanted anything with him. I can assure you that the girl has been doing that, her cup just got filled with this ' Broke man '. Thank God she came out with her life. She will always have the mark to bear witness to others.
Moral of the story: you can't date broke man, don't collect their money.

press9jatv:
What she said here is very true. Too much smoking and sniffing drugs from our youths is becoming alarming

Very wrong. S
Both of you are in a wrong company.

Supremedrizzy:
Women can be really funny at times and take frivolous things serious. My girlfriend came around to stay with me for a while, so she was kinda of expecting that we would celebrate Val or stuff but unfortunately I am low on funds cos I just settled some bills earlier this month.

After work today, I just bought only 1k palm wine because we enjoy taking it together, but I observed she was a bit moody. I just faced my front cos I had just 5k on me and I still have about 2weeks to go till the next pay day so I am being very prudent with it.

She kept making side comments about how other ladies would be receiving gifts from their boyfriends by now and other sarcastic talks. She lager opened up this night about how today is her worst val ever and it's more of a haters day for her. I told her to calm down, after all we have celebrated Val for the past two years very well so she shouldn't be upset about us not going out today. She insisted that it's not about us going out but I couldn't even get her fish or meat, I simply told her that I can't afford anything now and she's been giving me the cold shoulder.

Bro she is a lady. From your comments, you didn't communicate well with her. You would have communicated properly with her to make her understand you are low on funds and promise to make it up to her. If you had done that and she still gave you attitude, then that's when you would have known it's a red flag.

Lionessza6:


Yes, you were the lucky winners of the lottery....congratulations. Atleast the overyphed team didn't get to score a single goal during the real 120 minute combat. For that I salute our local champions . Congrats again.

Well no issues. It show how luck favors me. Better to be favored by luck than been unfortunate

funshint:
Isn't "kekerenke Obi" a song we used to sing when happy...how do you now attribute it to Peter Obi? Pls let's stop bringing politics into everything.

Oga the song is for Obi. Anything you like talk

Lionessza6:


This was a Lucky win. Nigeria with its European based team couldn't even score within 120 minutes . Penalties are like the lottery.....nothing humbling there. And how about vision 2024: let our citizens stop flooding our enemy countries?

It's like lottery and our goalie stopped two goals. Weldone o. Analyst. You why you no go score the goal na.

G00dharddick:
SA played Nigeria ball abeg.

Just that our luck shine

E be lack say na back if Tv you watch