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Prec1ous:
I don't get it.

Why are you bothered or concerned? How did you know she blocked you if you closed her out?

If you are so invested to know she blocked you which means you were stalking her, then why exactly did you stop talking to her.

Grow up!

I'm concerned because mutuals friends keep making me feel like the bad one for the way I reacted.

Her number is still on my phone,
So I should know when I'm blocked.

I have a female friend from years back
We've been cool till Dec last year.
We're super close that nobody believes we ain't dating.

What went wrong?? 😆
Facebook brought out 5 years anniversary between she and I.

I decided to share it on my timeline.
Omo it was the beginning of the end.

She woke me up at midnight just to question me why I did that and wanted me to pull it down.. which I obliged.

She woke apologizing and feeling remorseful?

I forgave but did I forget?? Nope.

I stopped texting, calling and deleted her number.

She texted and called, got my popsy involved in it but I didn't yield.

Las las after months of giving her the cold shoulders , she blocked me.

Was I wrong by been unforgiving??

Kobojunkie:
Stay where you are for as long as you can. The Nigerian economy as e dey no be for big decisions for small man abeg! Wait till the next president enter and sit down well well.

In the meantime, work on your relationship with your sister to resolve issues you may be having at this time..

Thank you boss

kayone2:
It's okay to move out (you're an adult) but make up with your sister. You two will still need each other. Even if she's the one that'll need you afterwards, don't decline helping when you can. Look out for your sis, bro.

A few things I'm curious about are...

What could be her reason for allowing you pay rent under her roof? Is she your younger sister? It could be a good reason though. But did she ever explain why?

Well it's not as if we fight , the quarrels are born out of she trying to subject me to certain psychological stress and me resisting them which in turn leads to exchange of words sometimes when I can't afford to keep calm.

And for your questions,
She is my eldest sister,

Well she never really explained why I had to pay but I got used to it..

Hello nairalanders..
I'm a 27 years old guy who has a business.
I live with my sister in her flat, lately we've been having a lott of issues and I actually thought about moving out.

I'm independent, I pay for the room I stay in her flat, I feed my self and I fetch water for the house cos the building doesn't have a running water.

I'm actually scared of taking this necessary step, what's it like out there??

Guys motivate a brother.

With 1k...

Na to jejely go buy the vegetable wey dey hungry me since and cook...

Las las na who eat get hope

Leezah:
Where are you based?

Onitsha

Please recommend a good and new Infinix phone I can buy at 40-45k or fairly used ones with strong battery...

Location should be within Onitsha and environs..

Pictures should be added too

chatinent:
Everyone who received the sum to indicate. Thanks.

. Congratulations to the lucky ones...

I wish I got lucky

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Leezah:
Where are you based?

Anambra

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