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Elechi focused mostly on rural areas.. He did well also by starting his city and international market.. Just happy that the good work continued... I just pray it continues for God knows how??..

We should at least appreciate them even with the small federal government allocation, they are trying their best

masterblogger:
Very pathetic that ebonyi only has a double Lane (sub standard) " To be honest ebonyi is suppose to be a LGA. Most of the cute structures are banks. The others are government buildings. That's bungalow u see in d the 3rd pics is the government house, it's so local, poor finishing but we'll painted

Am not boasting here but my village is far better of, at least we have 4 lanes in my village. Solar Street lights everywhere and portable drinking water 247.

Please Am not trying to critize just making a point so the government and work harder

Sorry o but can't see any government house pix..
I guess your village started from somewhere...
Op is just trying to appreciate the little he has done in less than a year

magicfingers009:
I beg to defer. Dave is only riding on what Elechi did. He has only be showcasing his trophy wife and throwing parties up and down. (His mother's burial)

Now everyone that stays in ai know that you just gave a colossal lie..
If not for anything.. I bless him for repairing udemezue, new market road, ojeowere, fetha 2 road, hilltop, Street lights and co.. Crime rate has reduced... You are a sadist.. So he should keep his wife indoors abi

SpicyJosBabe:
SOPHIE GEMAL

This beauty queen who represented Nigeria at the Miss Universe competition in Brazil 2012 and won the best costume award after coming 2nd in the MBGN competition.

Op you are so wrong.. Sophie is not from Plateau.. Her dad is from Ethiopia and her mum from cross river.. Her siblings were my mates both in primary and secondary school.. So stop spreading lies

Yes it should for the poor..at least

Maybe she is having doubts about you.
Try engaging her in a convo... Ask her all the questions you have in mind.. Listen to her views.. Ask her if you had offended her in any way.. If she still insists that you wait and you can't.. Move ahead and tell her ur mind... The moment you start doubting her or thinking that she is cheating on you, that's the moment the relationship will receive a blow

Smellymouth:
Oya ladies come and woo ooo

Funny dude.. This statement and pix just made my day... Lmao.. God bless you

uselessgoat:
can u prove to me jesus isn't a bastard or shut up i am not here for fairytales

You can believe what you want to believe but that doesn't give you the right to say that... Keep your thoughts to yourselves

I bet you are one of those that always cry out to God when things are difficult for you to handle.. Op grow up please

uselessgoat:
If Joseph did not sleep with Mary to impregnate her, then mary must have slept with another man in Joseph's absence when he went for his carpentary work. Never trust women. Mary was probably a promiscuos woman sleeping around town. After getting pregnant she lied the holy spirit impregnated her which is scientifically impossible. Joseph foolishly believed the lie which Led to birth of Jesus the bastard son of mystery. Till today no one knows the true father of jesus but mary and she's dead. This is the same Jesus the colonial masters sold to we Africans and made us believe he his God after his controversial story. This is why i will never go to Church noe celebrate Xmas or Easter till i die. I will only celebrate new year until someone proves to me that jesus is not a bastard

May our gracious Lord forgive you. I bet you call yourself a Christian in quote.. You should be ashamed.. Has the attention seeking reached this extent??
Anyway say what you want to say but know one thing JESUS LOVE YOU SO MUCH!! and forgives you for you do not know what you are doing

PushPlay:
Becoming an alpha male is one of the highest achievements a man can ever have. Its not just about learning how to be smooth with the ladies (but that’s also part of it), there is so much more to the Alpha male lifestyle. Its all about living a life full of fulfillment and self actualization. An alpha male lives inside all men, its what makes us manly as men. Its the Big Difference between us and the ladies. And women love it! They find it so irresistible. Its what really attracts them to men. A woman will say she wants a man who buy her flowers and listens to her stories and cares and bla bla bla (all that sissy stuff) but at the end of the day she will fall for the alpha male (Usually found in Badboys) and break all her rules. This is because for women attraction is not in the head; its in the heart. Its how they are wired – To fall for Alpha Males – And they can’t help it. This is why you want to become an alpha male.

Here are the 25 Traits of an Alpha male

1. An Alpha male is very comfortable with himself. He always radiates confidence. He does not fear anyone, he does not really care how people think of him. Confidence is him. He knows he is more important than anyone else in his life.

2.Is very passionate in life. He knows what he loves to do and follows his dreams. A true Alpha male has goals and ambitions, and really high ones. He follows these to the ultimate end, and ends up living a fulfilled life. (And women love passionate men with ambition. They see these kind of men becoming very successful in life and in their subconcious minds this is a qualifying factor in choosing a mate that will be able to provide for their future kids.)

3. Failure is only a minor setback for a real Alpha Male. Its only part of the process, he is learning. He is moving. He will always bounce back from failure, learn from the experience and move ahead with life. Nothing holds him back, after all, he is the Alpha male. Nothing can put him down. This is how he overcomes the challenges in his life.

4. He is always composed. An alpha male never loses composure, he is always himself, thoughtful and calculated. He won’t be carried away in emotional spasms.

5. Driven. A real Alpha male is very self- driven and self disciplined. Once he decides his target, all his attention will be at achieving his goal. He will do everything persistently to achieve what he wants. This is also why Alpha males drive women crazy, they are men of their own, they don’t need to be told what they should do. Women prefer men who make the decisions.

6. High morals and values. A true Alpha male is not what we will call a ‘loose’ man. He has high moral principles. He is not abusive or arrogant and does not look down upon others. Many people confuse Alpha males and Bullies. But generally, while bullies are very agressive on the outside, alpha males are very calm, calculated and controlled people.

7. An Alpha male is a natural leader. He is always looked up upon to provide direction when needed.

8. An Alpha male is a Problem Solver. In a company or organization, he will always be put in a challenging position and because of this, he will be highly regarded and compensated. He will always be the best at what he does.

9. Dress- Code- Smart. Not that he really cares what anyone thinks of how he dresses; that is not very important to him. But he still dresses the best way possible, always. Its just part of his nature, after all, he wants the best in life! He doesn’t have to but he knows he should.

10. He believes in growth. He knows that change is an internal process and takes time. He does not blame anyone for his mistakes because he knows that he has the power to make his life better and become a better man. Life for him is all about constant growth. This is the real essence of a man living a life of purpose. Every successful man in history knew this. That life is learning process. It is only an arrogant person who thinks they know it all. Humble yourself and learn!

11. With women he always poses a challenge. No, he is not chosen by women, he CHOOSES them! He does not throw himself at women and start acting needy with women. For him its the other way round. They really have to impress him and earn his attention.

12. A True Alpha male is not bossy. Not at all. He likes to listen to others’ opinions. If he is in a position of leadership he will let everyone share their thoughts and collectively find the solution. That’s why his co- workers love him! His team always wins.

13. He is not afraid to face his faults or admit when he is wrong. For a real Alpha male, there is nothing wrong with admitting when he has done something wrong. Its all about moving on with life, finding a solution, moving forward. If he wronged someone, he will politely admit and apologise, without making a big deal out of it, then move on to the next best thing.

14. He does not have to prove himself. An alpha male is being of very high self esteem, he does not need anyone’s approval to make him feel better about himself.

15. Alpha males are very clever, smart and cunning people. He’s got a real keen mind. He will assess situations and find the best logical solutions. In business alpha males do very well, their analytical skill and keen mind goes a long way.

16. Dominant, not aggressive, Alpha males also posess superior social skills.

17. Social behaviour – Hang out mostly with other alpha males. A true Alpha male finds the most value in hanging out with others like him. He also finds growth in doing this by learning from others who are better than him at one thing or another. That is why he never fails in life, he surrounds himself with people who are either like him or better achieved than him. Those are his company.

18. Physically fit. Alpha males are into healthy living and proper eating. They workout regularly, this also helps them become more focused on their goals and ambitions. This is why most Alpha’s are well built and all masculine.

19. Optimistic. Alpha males will always see the positive side of things and make the best out of what they have. A true Alpha male knows that in every problem there lies therein an opportunity. They just have to find it.



Body Language

20. Alpha males talk slowly. They never rush things, they are always in control. They have a way of having there audience eat at their every word. They know they are important and when they talk they command this importance.

21. They walk slowly, not not lazily. There is a difference. Alpha males are very controlled people. They are not always in a rush like everyone else. An Alpha male will be very disciplined to be on time or earlier for a meeting and well prepared. He will therefor have enough time to observe and think through his strategy.

22. Really Good Communicators. The alpha male is a great communicator both verbal and non-verbal. He shows his feelings through positive body language and is not afraid to show his sexual side. Women love this too – Men who are not wussies at flirting and showing their sexuality. It is not about telling a woman that you love her. Its about Expressing it in body Language and letting her read it with her subconscious mind.

23. Witty. Alpha males have a high sense of humor, they always live on the fun side of life. Its never always too serious fo them.

24. Alpha males know that they are important. When you call them (Unlike Beta males) they will take their time to turn their head and focus on you. You always have to prove worthy of their attention.

25. Alpha males Demonstrate Strength. The kind of strength that will make a woman believe that she is safe with him and that he can protect her when it comes to that. Women are generally the weaker sex, and always look for comfort in Alpha males; men who are dominant.


Question now is, are you an Alpha male and what makes you think you are one or not?

Op are you an alpha male? If you are not abeg shift.. Alpha abi Beta ni

PushPlay:
Becoming an alpha male is one of the highest achievements a man can ever have. Its not just about learning how to be smooth with the ladies (but that’s also part of it), there is so much more to the Alpha male lifestyle. Its all about living a life full of fulfillment and self actualization. An alpha male lives inside all men, its what makes us manly as men. Its the Big Difference between us and the ladies. And women love it! They find it so irresistible. Its what really attracts them to men. A woman will say she wants a man who buy her flowers and listens to her stories and cares and bla bla bla (all that sissy stuff) but at the end of the day she will fall for the alpha male (Usually found in Badboys) and break all her rules. This is because for women attraction is not in the head; its in the heart. Its how they are wired – To fall for Alpha Males – And they can’t help it. This is why you want to become an alpha male.

Here are the 25 Traits of an Alpha male

1. An Alpha male is very comfortable with himself. He always radiates confidence. He does not fear anyone, he does not really care how people think of him. Confidence is him. He knows he is more important than anyone else in his life.

2.Is very passionate in life. He knows what he loves to do and follows his dreams. A true Alpha male has goals and ambitions, and really high ones. He follows these to the ultimate end, and ends up living a fulfilled life. (And women love passionate men with ambition. They see these kind of men becoming very successful in life and in their subconcious minds this is a qualifying factor in choosing a mate that will be able to provide for their future kids.)

3. Failure is only a minor setback for a real Alpha Male. Its only part of the process, he is learning. He is moving. He will always bounce back from failure, learn from the experience and move ahead with life. Nothing holds him back, after all, he is the Alpha male. Nothing can put him down. This is how he overcomes the challenges in his life.

4. He is always composed. An alpha male never loses composure, he is always himself, thoughtful and calculated. He won’t be carried away in emotional spasms.

5. Driven. A real Alpha male is very self- driven and self disciplined. Once he decides his target, all his attention will be at achieving his goal. He will do everything persistently to achieve what he wants. This is also why Alpha males drive women crazy, they are men of their own, they don’t need to be told what they should do. Women prefer men who make the decisions.

6. High morals and values. A true Alpha male is not what we will call a ‘loose’ man. He has high moral principles. He is not abusive or arrogant and does not look down upon others. Many people confuse Alpha males and Bullies. But generally, while bullies are very agressive on the outside, alpha males are very calm, calculated and controlled people.

7. An Alpha male is a natural leader. He is always looked up upon to provide direction when needed.

8. An Alpha male is a Problem Solver. In a company or organization, he will always be put in a challenging position and because of this, he will be highly regarded and compensated. He will always be the best at what he does.

9. Dress- Code- Smart. Not that he really cares what anyone thinks of how he dresses; that is not very important to him. But he still dresses the best way possible, always. Its just part of his nature, after all, he wants the best in life! He doesn’t have to but he knows he should.

10. He believes in growth. He knows that change is an internal process and takes time. He does not blame anyone for his mistakes because he knows that he has the power to make his life better and become a better man. Life for him is all about constant growth. This is the real essence of a man living a life of purpose. Every successful man in history knew this. That life is learning process. It is only an arrogant person who thinks they know it all. Humble yourself and learn!

11. With women he always poses a challenge. No, he is not chosen by women, he CHOOSES them! He does not throw himself at women and start acting needy with women. For him its the other way round. They really have to impress him and earn his attention.

12. A True Alpha male is not bossy. Not at all. He likes to listen to others’ opinions. If he is in a position of leadership he will let everyone share their thoughts and collectively find the solution. That’s why his co- workers love him! His team always wins.

13. He is not afraid to face his faults or admit when he is wrong. For a real Alpha male, there is nothing wrong with admitting when he has done something wrong. Its all about moving on with life, finding a solution, moving forward. If he wronged someone, he will politely admit and apologise, without making a big deal out of it, then move on to the next best thing.

14. He does not have to prove himself. An alpha male is being of very high self esteem, he does not need anyone’s approval to make him feel better about himself.

15. Alpha males are very clever, smart and cunning people. He’s got a real keen mind. He will assess situations and find the best logical solutions. In business alpha males do very well, their analytical skill and keen mind goes a long way.

16. Dominant, not aggressive, Alpha males also posess superior social skills.

17. Social behaviour – Hang out mostly with other alpha males. A true Alpha male finds the most value in hanging out with others like him. He also finds growth in doing this by learning from others who are better than him at one thing or another. That is why he never fails in life, he surrounds himself with people who are either like him or better achieved than him. Those are his company.

18. Physically fit. Alpha males are into healthy living and proper eating. They workout regularly, this also helps them become more focused on their goals and ambitions. This is why most Alpha’s are well built and all masculine.

19. Optimistic. Alpha males will always see the positive side of things and make the best out of what they have. A true Alpha male knows that in every problem there lies therein an opportunity. They just have to find it.



Body Language

20. Alpha males talk slowly. They never rush things, they are always in control. They have a way of having there audience eat at their every word. They know they are important and when they talk they command this importance.

21. They walk slowly, not not lazily. There is a difference. Alpha males are very controlled people. They are not always in a rush like everyone else. An Alpha male will be very disciplined to be on time or earlier for a meeting and well prepared. He will therefor have enough time to observe and think through his strategy.

22. Really Good Communicators. The alpha male is a great communicator both verbal and non-verbal. He shows his feelings through positive body language and is not afraid to show his sexual side. Women love this too – Men who are not wussies at flirting and showing their sexuality. It is not about telling a woman that you love her. Its about Expressing it in body Language and letting her read it with her subconscious mind.

23. Witty. Alpha males have a high sense of humor, they always live on the fun side of life. Its never always too serious fo them.

24. Alpha males know that they are important. When you call them (Unlike Beta males) they will take their time to turn their head and focus on you. You always have to prove worthy of their attention.

25. Alpha males Demonstrate Strength. The kind of strength that will make a woman believe that she is safe with him and that he can protect her when it comes to that. Women are generally the weaker sex, and always look for comfort in Alpha males; men who are dominant.


Question now is, are you an Alpha male and what makes you think you are one or not?

Op are you an alpha male? If you are not abeg shift.. Alpha abi Beta ni

live4christ:
most people believe every lady should be clean and neat.Yes they must.To my surprise you will see some ladies using paper for collection of mensuration.some ladies find it difficult to wash their pants or change it regularly. when you visit some,their room looks untidy with odour of dirty clothes oozing out from where it is gathered.finally, just try to smell their hair,na die b DAT.

Mehn paper for collection of what

naughtynaughty:
Hello all,
I was jxt wondering.. How do single ladies get hooked up in Nigeria?
When I say get hooked up I mean in a crios relatnshp, not those ones dt d guy is jxt there to eat some bo.oty..I mean a crios one dt leads to marriage? Criosly how??


I mean, u think yhr fine, hot, nd well mannerd bt its hard fr u finding mr right. Whr r all d mr rights in Nigeria? Abi they r all taken ni?


Wen I was in 100lvl I alws picture 500lvl as dat level whr evritin in jxt perfect, u knw..like u nd ur fiancee driving around in his ride nd doin 5 nd 6 evriwhr. Maybe by den ure alrdy engaged wit one fine ring.

Am der nau nd Mr right is stil nt here..nawa ooo.
Whr r all the Mr right guys nah.. Oga o!


Jxt thinkin out Loud


Cc seun lalasticlala

Lol its possible just be the right lady with the right attitude and xtics

baebae:
even if you want to beat the criminals why must they be stripped off their clothes..??, its very uncalled for

My dear imagine ur own child was the victim. You would do worse than that.

peter1994:
AIRTEL 300MB for 300#

pls wats d code

Olarajee:
A startling new study of the Christian and Islamic texts has revealed that violence and anger are more common in the Old and New Testaments than in the Quran.

Using software he developed himself, American software engineer Tom Andersen performed a text analysis of the holy books to find out whether the Quran is more violent than its Judeo-Christian counterparts.

“The question of whether or not there is something inherently violent about Islam has become the subject of intense and widespread debate,” Andersen wrote introducing his three-part study.

“The project was inspired by the ongoing public debate around whether or not terrorism connected with Islamic fundamentalism reflects something inherently and distinctly violent about Islam compared to other major religions,” he further elaborated.


Using Odin Text, Andersen found out that killing and destruction are mentioned “slightly more often” in the New Testament than in the Quran, while their mentions in the Old Testament are “more than twice” that of the Quran.

“The content in the Quran is not more violent than its Judeo-Christian counterparts. In fact, of the three texts, the content in the Old Testament appears to be the most violent,” Andersen said.

Moreover, the study revealed that the Old Testament is “the angriest” of the three texts, based on an emotional analysis that categorized eight primary human emotions into joy, anticipation, anger, disgust, sadness, surprise, fear/anxiety and trust.

The Old Testament was also found to contain the most mentions of disgust and the least mentions of joy. Overall, the Bible registered higher in anger, while the Quran registered higher in joy and trust.

In addition, Andersen found that the concept of love is mentioned more often in the New Testament than in the Old Testament and the Quran, but the concepts of mercy, forgiveness and grace are much more prevalent in the Quran than in the Old and New Testaments combined.

“This is partly because references to “Allah” in the Quran are frequently accompanied by “The Merciful.” Some might dismiss this as a tag or title, but we believe it’s meaningful because mercy was chosen above other attributes like “Almighty” that are arguably more closely associated with deities,” Andersen said.

The software engineer admitted that he himself was surprised by the fact that the concept of mercy was most prevalent in the Quran, saying that he expected the New Testament would rank highest in that aspect.

“It appears safe to conclude that some commonly-held assumptions about and perceptions of these texts may not necessarily hold true,” wrote Andersen.

“Those who have not read or are not fairly familiar with the content of all three texts may be surprised to learn that no, the Quran is not really more violent than its Judeo-Christian counterparts.”

https://stepfeed.com/more-categories/big-news/startling-study-finds-bible-much-more-violent-than-quran/#.VsfHLVliia4

BIG FAT LIAR

perkyendy:
It is what every body should know before jumping into anything that will crash later and caused them tears

Exactly, I concur

Interesting. This needs to go to Fp
Cc lalasticlala

Dear Lord. Please help the naira

Third week of March

ssoftappless:
NO lady born of a woman can break my heart

Lol are you sure it's not a normal thing for . you

tonyobj:
Your nose go soon begin work overtime.

you wish ooo. *tongues out *

cirmuell:
She got served, some girls are just too desperate these days. Most don't even care about career or anything anymore. Young girls o, they don't even know jack sh*t 'bout life yet. They just wanna get married, it's more like competition these days.

Serious competition. More competitive than uefa champions League sef.

cirmuell:
That's just it dear.

.
I know of a girl who got married to a guy after being warned by her friends that he was a womanizer. She confronted the guy n he told her he had changed. He took her shopping, bought her a car, told her that her friends were jealous of her that's y they were telling stories. She stopped talking to her friends.
Along the line, they got married, when she was almost due, he started his old ways. This one in full swing, worst was when she put to bed. He gave her money yes but the funniest aspect is that he started dating someone in her faculty. *she is a student *. And the guy got no chills. He comes to pick up the other girl sometimes.
Imagine ur husband picking another girl in school. Her girlfriends saw this and didn't say anything. They minded her business. When sh the saw she couldn't handle it, she the ran back to them and told them, she wants a divorce. They just told her that they had nothing to say.
I don't kn know how it ended.
This happened in my university. Where I school. It happened last year

Op you should have even carried a male friend as a date. Thank God you are over the drama. Time to move on. Life is all about making choices, you made urs and he made his. Life moves on. Keep us updated!!

For the guys saying it's people like her that won't get married. Pls leave her alone. Moreover she is working, earning her money, same with the guy. Had it been it was only the guy, the story would have been different. Leave her alone. I bet if some of you here can make such sacrifices. Note she said renting a place for the main time not forever.

Deed has been done and life moves on. Op don't forget to invite him for your wedding since you both are Still friends

[quote author=great664 post=42952267]Thank You Sir, I thought I was the only one seeing the pride in the write up and how she will be in real life too....

Considering your Pride and the age difference, the brother didn't consider you for marriage cuz he knows he will never have a good and peaceful Home.

Your type nags about anything and everything. I am glad he married a lesser person who will show him respect (you denied him) and will appreciate the little he has to offer.

life is all about choices. They both made a choice. My friend's mom is older than her dad by a year and they have been happily married for years so let age not come into this and she couldn't handle the transport situation so she opted out. Are u inferring she becomes unhappy or displease herself just to make him happy??

cirmuell:
No mind Acidosis jare, even 1 month dey wella. the rate at which people rush into marriage these days.

as in ehn, once you have money no need of wooing for a long time. Most ladies need financial security. They want to be better than their friends. Some don't even mind if the guy should cheat as long as she has the latest stuffs in town

Acidosis:
well, in my dictionary, such cannot happen. Its either the parents have known the bride for donkey years or someone somewhere knows her and recommends on that basis.

any thing can happen.

Acidosis:
First meeting?

yes yes. The guy was being pressured by his family to settle down. And since he was comfortable and rich, getting the girl was so easy.

Acidosis:
You've seen a better man already, right?


Please let him be, don't crash his marriage. Whether the girl is a village girl from Akwa Ibom or not, the truth is that she had something you didn't have (its not your fault). The lady is ready to move to Mowe, while you're not ready for such.


Only a lady who has seen another man ALREADY will do all you did. Mind you, he has been dating that lady for years. No man, I repeat no man will meet a new girl and get married to her within a space of 2 months. It will never happen in Nigeria.

I have seen something like that happening. This one was less than three months. The meeting, intro, trad, white everything so I believe her

tonyobj:
Nice write up on the women with heavy yansh and kegs thingy.
Looking at your profile pic, you are definitely well endowed and shouldn't be intimidated by starring eyes and rude comments. You are a queen, stand tall and proud, knowing that those who stare and pass comments aren't real men. You deserve a real man who would treat you like the queen you are.

Lol I smell something fishy

naughtynaughty:
tnx boo. *warmhug

wlcm hun