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jonaifame22:
awwww, u can't be together? Why distance or wat?

Nope not really some issues that's all. That's why we can't be together

I get compliments most times but the one that really got me was when a friend told me I was priceless and said it hurts that we can't be together.

When I look at how the 2014/2015 football season went and how the 2015 /2016 football season is going especially for the English clubs, I can't help but laugh.
I am a die hard fan of Arsenal. Most of my friends are either in man u or Chelsea most especially Chelsea.
Through out last season, I couldn't be at peace, reason being that this so called Chelsea fanatics were always on my neck, telling me Arsenal this, Arsenal that, Arsenal barren club bla bla. I had enough of it and told them come next season, you guys will lose. They thought it was a joke but now they know it isn't a joke.
Yea yea, it's mourinho third year so what.
So far as I know Chelsea will continue to be a proud club but when they finish badly at the end of this season, they will remember when they mocked Arsenal my precious club, man u and other little clubs, so far a win, a draw and three losses. Mehn that's somehow. Don't mind if they are relegated. Mourinho should learn how to shut up and know the right time he should speak. I just hope they don't win a dime this season. I really don't want them to win and lol the difference between an Arsenal fan and Chelsea fan is that Arsenal fans hardly decamp, but Chelsea fans are willing to decamp to man city. Their attitude shows that they are not trust worthy at all. Let's just watch n see what happens!!!!! #proudly gunners!!

I have this amazing friend. He is a Rlander. We talk, chat and tease each other pretty much. Yeah good times, recently I noticed he has not been in high spirits due to his actions, called him and talked to him and he opened up a bout what's bothering him. Here is the gist
He met a girl in April, really liked her as a friend, the girl also likes him, the attend the same denomination, read the same course, from the same state and are both preparing for a professional exam coming up later this year. Along the way, he discovered that the like he had for her had blossomed into love, he thought it was a joke, but it wasn't. As a man, he sought courage and told her of his feelings, the girl responded in a manner which shouts 'friend zoned'. He took it in good faith and continued being her friend. The talk occasionally, now the shocking thing he told me recently is that, he can't concentrate. At work, at home and when he is reading. Anytime he tries to do something, he thinks about her. My worry right now is that his exam is in less than two months and he can't concentrate because of her. Yes he said she is a good person but he not concentrating is another case.. I
Fellow nairalanders, please advise him especially the guys who are experiencing or ve experienced it.
I really want him to pass his professional exam and make it in life but his lack of concentration is another case. Over to you nlanders. I hope he sees this.

Mine is uefa champions League tone. Sounds awesome. Actually I love football. Please who knows the name of the song that plays on play station.

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While there is nothing wrong with wanting to look and feel good, there are many other qualities that have much more permanent and lasting effects on our lives.
These are the traits we want to demonstrate for the little girls watching us and embrace for our own happiness.

Here are 11 qualities that women should crave other than beauty:

1. You Are Brave and Courageous
There are few truly brave and courageous people in this world. Stepping out of your comfort zone and facing your fears in order to help a friend, chase a dream or support your family takes guts. You will achieve more in life when you are willing to be brave.

2. You Are Confident
When you are confident, you don’t need someone to call you “beautiful” to feel beautiful. You know your individuality is special and that shines through in your posture, words and actions. When you are confident, other people will want what you have.

3. You Show Kindness To Everyone
People want to feel that someone cares about them. When you smile at your waiter, give up your seat on the subway, remember a friend’s birthday or bring cookies to your neighbor who lives alone, you are making someone else feel important. We all need a little more of that in our lives.

4. You Are Physically Strong
If you’ve ever done a push-up, run a marathon, been through a Pilate's class or pushed that double stroller up a hill, you know the power you feel from your own strength. Showing your kids and peers that you prioritize your health is much more awe-inspiring than putting on the right eye shadow in the morning.

5. You Are Witty In Conversations
When you are at a party, would you rather hang out with the guy who has nothing to say or the guy who keeps you laughing and on your toes with interesting conversation and one-liners? Being witty means you are both smart and funny, two characteristics shown in surveys to be more important than physical beauty.

6. You Love Encouraging Others
Maya Angelou said, “I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” When you give others encouragement, you will become someone they enjoy turning to and feel supported by. Being a true friend and better person involves encouraging others.

7. You Are A Reliable Friend and Partner
When you are reliable, you do what you say you are doing to do when you say you are going to do it. You don’t change who you are at the drop of a hat. The biggest difference between close friends and acquaintances is their reliability. When you are reliable, people know they better step up their game because you are going to get things done. Showing up for your friends and loved ones means they will show up for you.

8. You Are Honest
When you live and speak an authentic life, you are showing others you have nothing to hide or apologize for. You demonstrate that you are proud of yourself and the life you are living. Being honest in all of your relationships shows you respect both yourself and the people in your life.

9. You Know How To Be Resourceful
Resourcefulness is defined as the ability and creativity to cope with difficulties or unforeseen situations in your life. When you are driving down a deserted road and run out of gas, you will definitely want to be with a resourceful person. When you are resourceful, you get things done with what you have in front of you.

10. You Are Calm In Stressful Situations
Researchers at Caliper Talent Management recently wanted to find out if there are certain personality traits that are associated with women’s success in the workplace. They found that the more a woman is tolerant of the stress around her, the better she performs. When you are wiling to let go of control, stay calm and just go with the flow, you will be a better leader at work and in your families.

11. You Are Giving
You can be giving of your time, your thoughts, your money, your skills or your words. When you give without asking for anything in return, you show people you don’t need something from them to make the relationship valuable. You give simply because you want to.

Culled from NUS. Com.
Fellow nlanders you can add urs. Happy new week

Lol. It's all about mutual understanding. The girl should be contented With what she has. The guy won't remain poor for ever, better days lie ahead.

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Ohh sorry, ve been in ur shoes too. The truth is what might work for someone might not work for you and vice versa. But all I can say is try taking - 2 or 3 sachets of Andrew liver salt in half glass of warm water. It helps. Take much water. And fruits like orange and pineapple. Take watermelon too and perhaps eat excess beans

MrCork:
..Ladies, y*all no we Londoners have notin but love for u and we no how much u enjoy talkin to us coz we have Swagg, Moiney, Berrra cars and very good lookin...anyways...no to get distracted:

..Ladies...serrriously, Whats yor reaction when Homebase guys toast you? Do u feel like running away or u juss wanna change yor nomba or u juss wish they could automatically start lookin like we Londoners? Whats yor take on this apart from tryin to run away or change yor nomba or even sef...tell them to stay far far far far away from ya?



Mature contributions please and please please please....keep it clean (Cheers & no oofeinse)

. Same reaction with a foreign based person. There is no difference. Some home based are better than the foreign based. What's the big deal there, it's not as if the foreign based are more special. It is just a matter of luck and opportunities

boynigeria:
Okay, since my last serious relationship ended last year I find it so hard to make a real connection with any lady.
If I meet anyone, after a while, I get bored so easily and these ladies think I'm an assshole but in actual sense I just dont feel any connection at all so I dont even stress myself further.

So please matured people in the house, what d F is wrong with me and how do i get over this issue

. Let ur past relationship not stop you from meeting the right person. There was a reason why d relationship ended. Just move on, probably the lady u broke up with is having the fun of her life and you are here dying in silence. Grow up pls

Simple try doing things she doesn't like to the extreme and watch her reaction or you get angry with her and act as if you don't appreciate her

There is nothing wrong in dating one. The chances that she understands you will be so high. You will actually flow with her

As in eh. Even surprises me. Met this guy who told me that his name was George and he works with CBN at a new branch bla bla. Has a sis in my school. I didn't mind him just gave him my number cuz thats what he wanted at that time. He started the calls, I want to hang out bla bla. I gave the excuse that I was busy and he pleaded I refused. Knowing that in my state of residence that CBN has only one branch, I asked him to be sure he said the other branch. I laughed knowing it was a lie. Luckily for me, we bank in the same bank and I happen to have known where he stays as a family friend stays there also. I took to researching about him cuz I knew he was a big fat LIAR. Guess what I found out his name wasn't George, he doesn't work with CBN and he is not from my state. I am just looking for a perfect moment to tell him all these. I guess he thought that I would jump at him because he had a good car and works with CBN. MEN AND THEIR LIES. LYING SINCE 200 BC As in eh. Even surprises me. Met this guy who told me that his name was George and he works with CBN at a new branch bla bla. Has a sis in my school. I didn't mind him just gave him my number cuz thats what he wanted at that time. He started the calls, I want to hang out bla bla. I gave the excuse that I was busy and he pleaded I refused. Knowing that in my state of residence that CBN has only one branch, I asked him to be sure he said the other branch. I laughed knowing it was a lie. Luckily for me, we bank in the same bank and I happen to have known where he stays as a family friend stays there also. I took to researching about him cuz I knew he was a big fat LIAR. Guess what I found out his name wasn't George, he doesn't work with CBN, he is a civil servant and he is not from my state. I am just looking for a perfect moment to tell him all these. I guess he thought that I would jump at him because he had a good car and works with CBN. MEN AND THEIR LIES. LYING SINCE 200 BC he could have just told me the truth