Hello my fellow fruitful mums, you ladies don't no how much u inspire and encourage pple with your posts and write ups, it's been a while since my last post, but I've come to understand something in this process of TTC'ing, it does not only make u stronger but also closer to God, open ur eyes to so many thins from friends to neighbors to inlaws n pple around u, at times u see urself smiling even in d mist of pain, you have a doctors report in ur hands that's full of nagetivities and u say to urself...na, I believe in Gods reports and not the doctors, some will say oh she cant gv birth coz of the kind of life she lived b4 she got married, some u hear, some u dont hear, all thanks to our tradtions! u are still able to carry on, my superwoman,it takes a lot to do all these, and it can only be God, he has a plan for us, we are being melted and molded to become wht He wants us to be, the process is not easy , but trust me joy Cometh in the morning! Do not despair keep trusting Him, am still very hopeful, and I trust and believe God will visit us all at the set time, I receive and claim all the blessings and promises of God concerning child bearing for us all...IJN Amen

@tanidabi thanks so much for your words of encouragement. Will keep trying and believing in Gods report about child bearing concerning me......may G meet us all at the point of our needs. Amen.

Wow...am new here, and honestly am so touched with the post and testimonies, it's so encouraging. I have been TTC since 2009, I got preggy in 2010, but lost it almost immediately, since then, ive not been able to take in again, they are pressures already from my husband's family,myself and my hubby have been discussing on trying IVF, but we've not concluded cos of financial issues, we are not very rich, and at the moment we can only afford about 500k for IVF, I don't no how possible it will be, please my good people I need your advice on what to do, will appreciate it. May God meet us all at the point of our need.....please oooo help a sister in need!