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Gifted scholar: Is dia still love out there for me??....I am jst tryin to struggle out of a love lorned relatnship....I hav an affair wit a guy for abt 1yr naw nd I cn barely boast of him loving me, bt I love him very very much, bt den I barely receive d love in return...he doesn't stand by me in difficult tymz..he runs frm my responsibility, nd dodge wen they re big bills on ground!..apparently!!.all my siblings re in sch am d only one working nd caring for my sick mum(ulcer)..tinz hasn't been very easy bt dis guy has nt contributed even 5kobo to my mums medical bills....sumtyms I get fade up nd want to quit frm d relatnship bt he doesn't want to leave me...he wuldn't let me go he wuld say he loves me bt dats occasionally....I dnt understand him....does it mean he doesn't love me??...although he is dis SU kind of person...a deeper life brought up nd he is a virgin, he hasn't been in a relatnship b4 bt is dat an excuse for his love lorn??...shuld I jst dump him regardless of my love for him?...or shuld I stay wit him nd believe he ll change!!...pls advice needed plsss@op u can't say he is stingy first of all does he have a job and how much does he earn all dis are wat u have to check then if he has a job and earn well and doesn't help u out then I will say he is stingy so my question right nw is does he have a job? |
Gifted scholar: Is dia still love out there for me??....I am jst tryin to struggle out of a love lorned relatnship....I hav an affair wit a guy for abt 1yr naw nd I cn barely boast of him loving me, bt I love him very very much, bt den I barely receive d love in return...he doesn't stand by me in difficult tymz..he runs frm my responsibility, nd dodge wen they re big bills on ground!..apparently!!.all my siblings re in sch am d only one working nd caring for my sick mum(ulcer)..tinz hasn't been very easy bt dis guy has nt contributed even 5kobo to my mums medical bills....sumtyms I get fade up nd want to quit frm d relatnship bt he doesn't want to leave me...he wuldn't let me go he wuld say he loves me bt dats occasionally....I dnt understand him....does it mean he doesn't love me??...although he is dis SU kind of person...a deeper life brought up nd he is a virgin, he hasn't been in a relatnship b4 bt is dat an excuse for his love lorn??...shuld I jst dump him regardless of my love for him?...or shuld I stay wit him nd believe he ll change!!...pls advice needed plsss@op u can't say he is stingy first of all does he have a job and how much does he earn all dis are wat u have to check then if he has a job and earn well and doesn't help u out then I will say he is stingy so my question right nw is does he have a job? |
Gifted scholar: Is dia still love out there for me??....I am jst tryin to struggle out of a love lorned relatnship....I hav an affair wit a guy for abt 1yr naw nd I cn barely boast of him loving me, bt I love him very very much, bt den I barely receive d love in return...he doesn't stand by me in difficult tymz..he runs frm my responsibility, nd dodge wen they re big bills on ground!..apparently!!.all my siblings re in sch am d only one working nd caring for my sick mum(ulcer)..tinz hasn't been very easy bt dis guy has nt contributed even 5kobo to my mums medical bills....sumtyms I get fade up nd want to quit frm d relatnship bt he doesn't want to leave me...he wuldn't let me go he wuld say he loves me bt dats occasionally....I dnt understand him....does it mean he doesn't love me??...although he is dis SU kind of person...a deeper life brought up nd he is a virgin, he hasn't been in a relatnship b4 bt is dat an excuse for his love lorn??...shuld I jst dump him regardless of my love for him?...or shuld I stay wit him nd believe he ll change!!...pls advice needed plsss |
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dmcdad: Thats because I am more than 6feet tall...dis guy u aint giving up dude and accept d fact. |
Chomzy19: What is ur bizness wit women over 30 getting married or not getting married?? You are u married? Are u not over 30?? U'll not find sth reasonable to do with ur life n time, u n ur olofofo colleagues sit down dey discuss Women that are not married.. I wonder what kind of job it is u pple are doing? U pple will not discuss biz ideas dt will move u forward, is rubbish... Dts how u know small minds that will never go farwat eating u up madam or are u within that single @30 age range abeg let us knw cos I no understand why ur body dey scatter u like dis. |
Chomzy19: What is ur bizness wit women over 30 getting married or not getting married?? You are u married? Are u not over 30?? U'll not find sth reasonable to do with ur life n time, u n ur olofofo colleagues sit down dey discuss Women that are not married.. I wonder what kind of job it is u pple are doing? U pple will not discuss biz ideas dt will move u forward, is rubbish... Dts how u know small minds that will never go far |
dmcdad: Hehehehehehe. I guess you are new here, otherwise you will know I ain't that kinda person. Even the person involved know I am just joking. Besides, I am taller than you are, so don't think better of yourselfu are taller than a 6ft guy like me is dat wat ur church mind is telling u. |
MORN DEW: Can i knw who made it a law dat ur wife must b older. I rili dnt kia if she is older so long i lov her nd it dos nt matter to her.hw was the experience like and why didn't u get married to her if u belive they truly make sense as u have stated. |
Alikaxon: It depends on d depth and degree of the love and some other private considerations. If all these are positive, I can.private consideration hw be specific? |
talk2cemmia@gma:she look ugly abeg wit dose tiny bone. |
Guys can u date or marry a lady older than u,even if ur parents are not in support of the relationship option only wen they are aware of the fact that lady in question''is older than you''hmmmm ![]() |
dmcdad: Hehehehehehe. At least allow her to answer my question first...mr man u like woman 2much are u seeking for her attention? |
dmcdad: Hehehehehehe. At least allow her to answer my question first... |
nutty_hnic: When you here names as chiboy, aboy, bomboy,.......dey r really short with big head,have u taken ur drugs. |
Why blaming the girl all alone the @op should also be blame for cheatin on is girlfriend u are into a serious relationship and u went asking somone out again isn't it dat fault fr the @op side as well pls wen judging pple u judge fr both side.I have dis feeling that the @op isn't even faithful to is fiancee or girlfriend wich of them. |
Winnie1950: kind of......... Something of that nature.God go help u increase ur height u fit visit TB joshua for deliverance I hear say dem dey give anointing for pple way wan grow tall. |
Winnie1950: For someone like me who is already short, its impossible. Wetin u want make we born? Dwarf?are u short? |
redsquare: Met this girl a couple of months ago in a Calabar bound bus from Benin. We exchanged numbers and started talking. On my invitation, she visited me in Benin once. At that time my girlfriend was still doing her NYSC in Kano. I made it clear to her that I'm into a serious relationship. 2 weeks later after her first visit, she started calling that she wants to visit again which I declined. She has been complaining that I don't want her to visit me again. I told her I'll invite her when it is convenient for me. Just last saturday, I went to see a friend in my neighbourhood when she called that she was in my house. Initially, I thought she was joking, not until my neighbour called to confirm that a girl was waiting outside my door. I got mad! How could she have travelled all the way from Calabar without at least calling me? I called her back and asked her to go back from wherever she's coming from, she started pleading that she just wanted to surprise me. To cut the long story short, I asked my neighbour to give her some money for her transport which he did, and she left. I'm kinda feeling guilty at what I did. Did I do the right thing? What if she had met my girl at home?What kind of surprise (according to her) is that? Pls I need your contributions/advice/criticisms.@op wat u did was wrong no mata wat that not hw to treat a lady even if u dnt want her to sleep in ur House but u should have atleast see her face to face do u knw wat she might have gone through taking dat trip dat why I don't pity some guys wen dey are heart broken by ladies cos we caused some of dis tings ourself. |
dasparrow: Let the ladies come and answer you. By the way, I am sure you have female family members like female cousins, female siblings and the likes. What stops you from asking them? Are you afraid you gonna get slapped should you go ahead and ask them such a question? Just asking........can u be reasonable for once and tink wit ur brain if u have notin meaningful to say take a walk rather than insulting the @op or derailing the thread tanks. |
dasparrow: Let the ladies come and answer you. By the way, I am sure you have female family members like female cousins, female siblings and the likes. What stops you from asking them? Are you afraid you gonna get slapped should you go ahead and ask them such a question? Just asking........ |
lertee: Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder,all the praises is overrated believe me.are u jealous. |
HisRib: As a relationship expert & someone who has been involved in a long distance relationship, I believe it can work, but it takes 2 very dedicated individuals to make it work.dnt discourage the @op pls u said u are a relationship counsellor as being quoted by ur post on one of the thread I expect u to give the op a reasonable advice nt dis ur negative advice it can work if u must know complicated or not it all bores down to trust and regular communication btw the both of them tanks. |
Yes u can but it all bores down to trust and constant communication u guys need to work on it dat jst the key. |
@op to be Frank and honest wit u it nt bad for u to call ur woman atleast twice a day is gud but dnt over do it so she won't take advantage of that to start fooling around wit u,u knw hw our ladies are but always watch it dnt over do it and always learn to read the hand writin on the wall fr her own side as well. |
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Burger01: @Op, you get wahala sa! The writing is clear on the wall. Take your mind off her and forge ahead in life abeg. Some girls are just not worth the stress. Concentrate on your studies or business and every other thing shall follow including a woman that's meant for youLol. |
Caracta: *faints*baby hope u ok nw so ask me wat is it? |
Adaobi12: Nwa nna onwe kwa ka odi. Have heard ladies pray that there mother in laws should die.nwanne biko dat one is a bad prayer oh hope u re nt like dem oh! |
Caracta: *faints*but nt nw sombody help! |
Caracta: You didn't answer my question. I won't answer yours tooadd me on BB 22AFBC88 let talk private u knw d walls have ears!!! |
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