lertee: Distance relationship works perfectly, it only depends on how you handle it.
Trust is the keyword to hold when thinking of a distance relationship,if you cannot trust your partner then there's no point going into a relation in the first place.

HisRib:

I don't like how you're throwing around this word "trust." How do you learn to trust someone you rarely see? Or someone who lives miles away?

You don't even know what they are up to.

lertee: Distance relationship works perfectly, it only depends on how you handle it.
Trust is the keyword to hold when thinking of a distance relationship,if you cannot trust your partner then there's no point going into a relation in the first place.

HisRib:

I don't like how you're throwing around this word "trust." How do you learn to trust someone you rarely see? Or someone who lives miles away?

You don't even know what they are up to.

HisRib: As a relationship expert & someone who has been involved in a long distance relationship, I believe it can work, but it takes 2 very dedicated individuals to make it work.

Relationships are quite hard, so the person being far can make things a lot more complicated.

Overall, I wouldn't encourage it.

XoXo

dlex21: I'm in one currently...tho I find it hard attimes bt It gives me opportunity to get on wiv my everyday hustlin rather than worryin abt ow I will take her out...all I need to knw is she z alright, she loves me and someday, we'll be 2geda...shikena!

lertee:
This is how shallow we think of ourselves,we give so much room for doubts and allow insecurity to take over.
See,the fact that you are in the same vicinity with your partner doesn't mean they would not cheat on you. A man or woman can cheat under the nose of his or her partner so forget that thing that "you don't know what they are doing", of course you can tell what your partner is doing.
Distance or no distance a cheating partner will still cheat,and the one that will be faithful will definitely stay faithful.

chiboy1928: dnt discourage the @op pls u said u are a relationship counsellor as being quoted by ur post on one of the thread I expect u to give the op a reasonable advice nt dis ur negative advice it can work if u must know complicated or not it all bores down to trust and regular communication btw the both of them tanks.

Smartie gurl: badt dude! You don escape that one abi?

HisRib:

Well him cheating when he's miles away surely gives him more leverage. Is that what you want?

The "other woman" could be sleeping on his bed every night. He can easily have a double life. How will you know?

I strongly discourage long distance relationships, unless you and this person were together for a long time & one of you moved to another country/city. In that case, I think it's acceptable because you already have a strong bond.

All other circumstances are a big NO!

sandra anakebe: Pls I want your views on long distance relationships, I had an argument with a couple of friends about it. Does it really work?

Flytefalls: How far we talking? My fiancé lives the other side of London

Flytefalls: How far we talking? My fiancé lives the other side of London

Ade__:

Lol, london isn't that big so park well

Monstertrucks: seriously mz falls.... OK,my girlfriend lives on the moon. Nd I'm in pluto.