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Politics › Re: Boko Haram Planning To Bomb South-west – NOA Raises Alarm by Chibuzoc(m): 9:54am On Nov 13, 2015
No Biafra is the problem, yelloba una don suffer, hausa/fulani go finish una
Politics › Re: IPOB Protest In Owerri -13/11/2015 - Has Kicked Off by Chibuzoc(m): 9:19am On Nov 13, 2015
ALL HAIL BIAFRA, LAND OF THE RISING SUN WE LOVE AND CHERISH. Gr8 Biafra I hail thee
Webmasters › Re: Where Can I Buy Website Traffic? by Chibuzoc(m): 12:45pm On Nov 09, 2015
Setting up a company would of course require a lot of things, to get straight to the point, you need a capital. To make money requires money as well. But of course, with the opportunity the internet offers, there are many ways you could find that could help optimize the potential of your site or business in generating traffic.
While there are ways to jumpstart your traffic flows, many sites don’t have the resources that others have to generate more traffic for your site. Well, you don’t have to spend a cent; all you need is the proper mindset and a lot of eagerness. You also must have the drive and perseverance to do hard work and research to generate more traffic for your site.

How sweet it is to have more traffic for your site without spending a single cent. Now it’s a sure thing that many sites have articles that offer tips and guidelines in how to generate traffic using only free methods. Because it is possible, you don’t need to speed a single cent, it may take time, to say honestly, I’m not going to beat around the bush with you. You get better chances by paying for your advertisements, but at least you get a fighting chance with some of these free methods I’m about to tell you.
Take advantage of online forums and online communities. The great thing about forums and online communities is that you can target a certain group that fits the certain demographic that you are looking for. You can discuss about lots of things about the niche that you represent or offer. Another great advantage is that you know what you are getting into and you will be prepared.
With online communities and forums you can build a reputation for your company. Show them what you are made of and wow them with your range of expertise about the subject, with that you can build a reputation and build trust with the people in your expertise and knowledge.
You can also make use of newsletters. Provide people with a catalog of your products and interesting and entertaining articles. If you make it really interesting and entertaining, more people will sign up for your newsletter and recommend it to other people. The more people who signs up for your newsletter, the more people there will be that will go to your site increasing your traffic. continue reading @[url]masterstip..com[/url]
Webmasters › Re: Please Help, What Do I Need To Start My Own Blog? by Chibuzoc(m): 12:36pm On Nov 09, 2015
A blog is basically an online journal wherein you can digitally write down your thoughts, ideas, opinions and practically anything that you want people to read. Blogs come in different styles, formats, and settings, depending on the preference of the user. Many blogging sites, offer built in features such as hyperlink, straight texts, pictures etc. Some blogging sites, even allow you to put video and mp3's on your blogs.

Instead of writing texts, some bloggers choose to make their blogs more audio friendly, by using spoken word entries. This is called audio blogging.
Basically a blog contains these features:
Title- which allows you to label your post
Body- this is the content of your post
Trackback- other sites can be linked back to your blog
Permanent link- every article that you write has a URL
Comments- this allows readers to post comments on your blog.
One of the advantages of blogging, is that it is made of only a few templates. Unlike, other websites that is made up of numerous individual pages. This make it easier for blog users to create new pages, because it already has a fix setting that include: slots for title, body of the post, category, etc.
This is especially useful for first time users, since they can start blogging right away. They can chose from a number of templates that blogging websites provide.
Anyone who wants to start a blog can do so by becoming a member of a blogging website of their choice. Once they've become members, they automatically become a part of that particular blogging community. They can browse through other bloggers pages, and link them back to their own blogs. They can also make comments on other members' blogs.
Blogging is not just limited to personal usage. There are a lot of blogs that follow a theme such as: sports, politics, philosophy, social commentary, etc. These blogs espouse on their specific themes. This way blogging becomes a medium in which people can share their knowledge and opinions about a variety of themes and topics.
Some bloggers even use their blogs as a means to advertise. Some authors advertise their books on their blogs. While other bloggers, use their blogs to shed light to currents issues, events, news and catastrophes.
Nowadays in education, blogs also play an important part. Professors use blogging to document the lessons that they have discussed and taught. This way, students who have missed classes, can easily catch up with their assignments.
A lot of entrepreneurs benefit from blogging by promoting their businesses on their blogs, with millions and millions of people logging onto the net every day, blogging has become a lucrative move. Some bloggers who run online businesses promote their products online. While others profit through advertisement.
But by far, the most popular blog type is the one that takes the form of a personal journal. This is the kind that is usually used by first time bloggers. Individuals who want to document the daily struggle of their everyday lives, poems, rants, opinions, find that blogging offers them a medium in which to express themselves.
Bloggers usually communicate within themselves. This is one of the appeals of blogging. It creates a community of people sharing their ideas, thoughts, and comments with each other.
Blogs varying in topics, themes, and set-ups, can be found in blog directories. First time users who want to get an idea of what the blogging world is all about can browse through a number of blogs using these directories. This way they'd get an idea of what these blogging communities are like.
Blogging is popular all over the world. Blog is short for the term weblog. There are no rules when it comes to blogging. Bloggers have the freedom to express themselves how ever way they want, and the best thing about blogging, is that most blogging sites are free.
There are numerous blogging websites to choose from in the net. This give first time users the option of joining a blogging community that appeals to their interests.
Just search any blogging directory and you'd get a listing of a lot of blogging sites that are available on the net. It's easy to search a blogging directory, because it is organized according to category. This way you would get exactly what you are after. Blogging is really for everyone. It is fun, simple and easy.
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Webmasters › Re: Domain Name Business; The Easiest & The Most Profitable Online Venture by Chibuzoc(m): 4:53pm On Nov 06, 2015
please, i submitted my domain name (painterspringdotcom) on namerific and the are asking for $8 to list it.
what do you advise
Investment › Re: Commonwealth Trust Early Bird Plan;take Action Now! by Chibuzoc(m): 7:34am On Oct 29, 2015
idokocc@outlook.com
Webmasters › Re: Domain Name Business; The Easiest & The Most Profitable Online Venture by Chibuzoc(m): 6:13pm On Oct 18, 2015
please i just bought painterspring.com. is it worth selling?
Politics › Re: Breaking; Radio Biafra Director, Nnamdi Kanu Arrested by Chibuzoc(m): 11:12am On Oct 18, 2015
The monkeys in the zoo are happy now. Boko Haram Still dey o
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Politics › Re: Breaking; Radio Biafra Director, Nnamdi Kanu Arrested by Chibuzoc(m): 11:07am On Oct 18, 2015
kestolove95:
His now a monkey in d zoo
Like ur old man who has been a monkey in d zoo since 1960
Politics › Re: Breaking; Radio Biafra Director, Nnamdi Kanu Arrested by Chibuzoc(m): 11:02am On Oct 18, 2015
iconize:
Exactly. Just like Gowon's police action finished off Biafra in 1967. grin grin grin

I laugh at y'all war mongers.
Aboki shine my shoe, 1967 no be 2015. Boko Haram + Biafra = End of the Zoo
Politics › Re: Breaking; Radio Biafra Director, Nnamdi Kanu Arrested by Chibuzoc(m): 10:58am On Oct 18, 2015
PDPwayoo:
people r just stupidd. How can this fo0l come to Nigeria with all those hate speeches and incitements? THIS MAN IS NOT SMART TO THINK THAT HE CAN COME TO NIGERIA AND GO FREE.

I HOPE HE IS NOT HOLDING NIGERIA PASSPORT? HE SHOULD START TRAVELING WITH BIAFRA PASSPORT... THIS IS JUST THE BEGINNING: small pikin wen say he mama nor go sleep, he too can not sleep.
Omo you no get sense? No be ur mate be dat o for ur info. My director de play him game well. #NO PAIN #NO GAIN
Politics › Re: Breaking; Radio Biafra Director, Nnamdi Kanu Arrested by Chibuzoc(m): 10:46am On Oct 18, 2015
Biafrians dont't be afriad, the zoo government are just trying to offer him bribe to quit the struggle for biafra. God pass them
TV/Movies › A Month Without TV Or Video by Chibuzoc(op): 9:21am On Sep 16, 2015
‘I find television very educating. Every time somebody turns on the set, I go into the other room and read a book.’ ~Groucho Marx

Article By Leo Babauta
Of all the challenges I’ve done for The Year of Living Without, going without TV/video has been the one with the most mixed feelings for me.
One side of me: I all of a sudden had more free time, to read, write, do whatever I wanted without distraction. I enjoyed being free of TV and movies.
But the other side: I couldn’t hang out with my family when they watched TV. Which they tend to want to do every night, for an hour or two. I honestly didn’t want to watch the TV shows with them (we don’t have cable, but watch shows we pick on iTunes), but when they watched, I was isolated. This wasn’t always great.

I could have asked them to not watch TV, to join me, and some nights I did. I enjoyed those nights. We would hang out and talk, instead of staring at moving images. But I didn’t want to force them to go without something just because I wanted to experiment with it myself, so I tried to allow them to watch, most of the time. So I would go to my room and read.
And so the results are mixed.
Here are my findings after a month of no TV and video:

Well, in the beginning, I forgot to not watch online video, and so I slipped up once and watched this video on how the iPhone is isolating us. I’m glad I watched it, but when I realized I’d already violated my challenge, only a day or so into the month, I felt bad.
A number of other times I automatically clicked on an online video, to watch, and had to turn it off after a few seconds when I realized what I was doing.
I don’t really miss video online. It’s not a big deal to me.
I wanted to do yoga this month, just 5-10 minutes every evening, but couldn’t watch yoga videos. So I had to make stuff up on my own.
I did feel isolated from my family, as I said, when they would watch TV. It would be great if we could find some non-TV things to do in the evening instead. They love board games, so I might start proposing that we play board games together some evenings.
On my daughter Maia’s birthday, she wanted us all to watch the first episode of Naruto, one of her favorite anime shows. I had to sit out. I felt bad.
I did feel good skipping out on watching a bunch of re-runs of our favorite TV shows. We often just watch these things out of habit, because there’s nothing better to do. I’m not proud of it. I don’t think it’s a good use of our time. So I’m glad I sat it out (again, if it weren’t for having to miss hanging out with Eva and the kids).
I got more reading and work done this month than normal. Really great.

So what will I do going forward? Here are my thoughts:

I’m not going to watch online videos unless it’s to learn something useful (no entertainment videos).
Only one movie at the theaters per month, so I’ll have to be more choosy.
Propose board games or other activities with the kids in the evening, instead of TV.
I’ll allow myself 2 hours of TV a week. So 1 hour, twice a week. No reruns.
Health › The Simple Joy Of A Beating Heart by Chibuzoc(op): 9:13am On Sep 16, 2015
Editor’s note: This is a guest post from Eric Hamm of Motivate Thyself.

The average human heart beats around 100,000 times per day. It’s one of the most common occurrences in our human existence. And yet for Liz and I, hearing that tap-tap-tap was the only thing on our minds. As we waited in that room, Liz on her back in that awkward position once again, the tension grew while we anticipated the findings. We were 9 weeks pregnant and all we wanted in that moment was the assurance that our little baby was alive and kicking.

6 months earlier…
6 months earlier we were in exactly the same situation; excited to finally see the progress of our growing child. This would be our first. A first for many things, actually. The first time we would go to Babies ‘R Us for a personal reason. The first time we started thinking about where the crib would go. And of course, the fist time I started worrying about diapers and preschool and all that a new baby brings to the table. But these were wonderful firsts and worries that I could handle. We were just happy that we were finally starting a family.
Here we were, 12 weeks into the pregnancy and awaiting the doctor’s entrance. He assured us that today we should hear a heart beat; a sign that all was well. Liz had to lay on that table in that vulnerable position while the doctor searched for the signs of life.
As the process finally began, we held each others hand as we awaited the results. It didn’t take long, though, for me to realize that something was wrong. The doctor was quiet as he checked and rechecked the same location as if to verify what he already knew. I looked up at the monitor and saw just what I had feared…nothing. The room grew loud with silence as I looked over at my wife. Her face seemed blank as if unsure of the findings, but the tear running down her cheek revealed her true understanding. I tightened my grip as if to say, “Hang in there. We’ll get through this.”
The weeks that followed were filled with sadness and frustration. All the plans we had made had to be put on hold. My wife had to go through the struggles of postpartum depression without the benefits of actually having the child. The whole experience came out of no where and left us shell shocked.
More common than you would think. 1 out of every 4 pregnancies ends in a miscarriage. A staggering numbering if you think about it. And yet no one even mentioned this as a possibility. It’s a subject that few like to talk about, so you find out through experience only. It wasn’t until we actually had one that others spoke up. All of a sudden we would hear, “Oh yeah, we had two miscarriages before we had our first child.” Or, “I’m so sorry to hear that, we also had a miscarriage. It’s quite common, you know.”
This is not to say that knowing before hand would have prepared us for the experience or that it would have softened the blow. I just think that couples need to be aware that it CAN happen and there’s a decent chance it will.
Back to the present…
So here we are again, awaiting the same doctor to perform the same procedure. Once again, he started probing for the signs of life as my wife and I nervously held our breath. But this time, within seconds, the doctor burst out with his findings, “There it is, the beating heart of your little baby!” I could feel the tension in Liz’s body evaporate as she took in the wonderful news. This time when I looked up at the monitor I was greeted by a peanut shaped image with an amazingly powerful little heart beat; 175 beats per minute to be exact. :-)
What truly matters.
Earlier that day I had been concerning myself with all kinds of ‘issues’. Worrying about the many things I had no control over. I’m quite certain that my mind was focused on everything except those that truly mattered. But in that moment, every one of those thoughts had disappeared. One thing and one thing only concerned my soul. It was the continued existence and good health of a fellow human being that captured my every thought and emotion. Just knowing that life was still in tact was all I needed to rejoice.
Celebrate the lives of those around you!
The fact is, we shouldn’t have to be in such dire circumstances to appreciate the simple gift of life. It is in every day living that our highest priorities should reflect those of ‘the anticipating father to be’. So let go of your worries as they have no useful place in your pursuits. Stop seeking happiness in things that do not matter. Instead, be thankful on this day as you truly appreciate the simple joy of a beating heart.
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Business › Six Simple Steps To Avoid Credit Problems In A Bad Economy by Chibuzoc(op): 6:47am On Sep 16, 2015
The New York Times ran a story today that says the next consumer crisis is credit cards — a sobering fact in a nation that has racked up massive amounts of credit card debt.
Unfortunately, when times get hard, many people turn to credit cards to help them make ends meet … and only dig themselves into a deeper hole.
I’ve been through this myself, buying things on credit when I had no other way to pay for them. I’m not talking about plasma TVs, but about necessities like medical bills. As a result, I dug myself deep into debt, and one of the biggest decisions of my life was to get rid of credit cards and begin eliminating my debt.

At the beginning of this year, I finally got completely out of debt, and I celebrated. But it wasn’t easy. It took some hard decisions, some sacrifices, and a commitment to change my spending habits.
I highly recommend that people get out of debt and stay out of debt, especially as the economy hits difficult times. It’s not a good position to be in if you lose your job while burdened with lots of debt. Better: become debt-free, with a good emergency fund and a small budget. That’s recession-proof personal finances.
Here’s how to get there in six steps:
1. Curtail spending. The first step is to stop the bleeding. If you’re trying to get out of a hole, you’ve got to stop digging first. So make the decision right now to not use your credit card except in emergencies. Cut back on your spending in any way you can, at least for now as you try to get out of debt. Consider tracking your spending for a week or two at least, writing down every purchase, so that you can see where your money is going. Some suggestions for cutting back: eating out, going out, magazines, expensive coffees or other drinks and snacks, new gadgets, non-essential clothing purchases, non-essential furniture or home purchases, to name a few. Now, I’m not suggesting that you never eat out or go out to have fun — but I am suggesting that you cut back on these types of spending. Find other ways to have fun that don’t cost as much.
2. Save an emergency fund. With the money you save from Step 1, begin saving an emergency fund as quickly as possible. Let’s say you identify $200 per paycheck that you can save from cutting back on specific spending items (as an example — your amount will vary). Now put that $200 into a savings fund each paycheck, and within 5 paychecks you’ll have a $1,000 emergency fund saved up. This is extremely important, as there will always be unexpected emergencies that come up (you have to go to the hospital, you car breaks down, you home floods, etc.) and many people will use credit cards to pay for these expenses when they don’t have an emergency fund. If you have an emergency fund, you can avoid going deeper into the hole when these expenses inevitably come up.
3. Make debt elimination a priority. Once you have a small emergency fund saved up ($1,000 is best to start with, but you can get by with as little as a $500 fund), begin channeling your extra money toward debt repayment. Make this a top priority, or you won’t get to it. That means make it your first payment each payday: set up an automatic payment at your bank where you automatically pay an extra amount to your highest-interest debt. Pay the minimum on your other debts for now, and once you pay off the highest-interest debt, put all your extra money to your next highest-interest debt … and so on, until all debts are paid off. An alternative is to pay your smallest debt first, then focus on the next biggest debt, and so on.
4. Scale back your lifestyle. While Step 1 asked you to find ways to cut back on spending immediately, there are longer-term changes you can make that will have a big impact on your spending. For example, you could trade in your large car or SUV for a smaller, less-expensive car that gets better gas mileage. You can eventually move to a smaller home and get rid of a lot of the clutter in your house that requires a lot of space. You can work at cooking at home more instead of eating out, brown-bagging it to work instead of having expensive lunches, making your clothes last longer instead of buying new clothes all the time, and deciding you don’t really need the latest computer, TV, video game system, or smart phone — the ones you have work well enough already. These changes may take time, but a commitment to scaling back can pay huge dividends over time.
5. Make sacrifices and buy on cash. This is an extremely important habit that may become the keystone to this entire plan. While many people buy on impulse and put purchases on credit cards so they can have it now, that’s rarely necessary. Rarely do you really need to make a purchase right away. A much better habit is to save up until you have enough money to buy the item on cash. Get into the habit of waiting. Sure, maybe you need new shoes, but can you wait until you have the $50 to buy them? Yes, you can. Sure, maybe you need a new computer, but can you save up the $1,000 you need for it? It’s possible. It’s even possible to make your current car last longer and save up enough to buy your next car on cash — I did this with my last car purchase (actually it was a slightly used mini-van), trading in my SUV and paying the balance on cash. The key is to wait, save up, and buy on cash.
6. Make a commitment to stay away from credit. Getting into some debt may be unavoidable — student loans, for example, or housing loans are usually seen as good debt, especially at low interest rates. Even auto loans aren’t necessarily bad debt, although as I said above, it’s possible to save up enough money to buy a decent used car on cash so you can avoid getting into that debt. But credit card debt is rarely ever desirable, for the average person. I’m not saying you should never use credit cards — obviously they are convenient for online purchases or traveling, although for these purposes you could use a debit card that’s backed by a major credit card company in most cases (I have). But my advice is to just have one credit card (cancel all the rest) and to keep the balance at $0. Only use it when you actually have the money in the bank, and then pay it off immediately. Don’t use your credit card when you don’t have the money — that will just lead to trouble. Make a commitment to doing this, and you’ll avoid credit problems and be in good shape, whether a recession hits or not. [url]blackasset..com[/url]
Business › The Way Of No Debt by Chibuzoc(op): 6:36am On Sep 16, 2015
Article By Babauta

In 2005, one of the low points of my life, I had 5 kids, crippling debts, and was barely making it from paycheck to paycheck.
I would shove my bills in a drawer, envelopes unopened, so I didn’t have to deal with bills I couldn’t pay. I would avoid the calls of collection agencies. I was swimming in debt, and didn’t know how to get out.
The real low point, though, came when we didn’t have enough money to buy some milk and cereal for the kids. My bank account had a negative balance. So I stole money from my kids’ piggy bank to buy the food. Yeah, that didn’t feel good.
Things went on like this for awhile before I finally decided it was time to face the fears, see my situation clearly, and start doing something about it.
Here’s what I did:

I finally faced the problem: I took the bills out of the drawer, and make a spreadsheet with all my debts, the amounts, and the minimum monthly payments.
I took a look at our spending, and realized we needed to stop the bleeding before we could start healing. We were spending more than we earned, or at best, all of what we earned.
So we cut out all kinds of expenses: cable TV, one of our cars, magazine subscriptions, daily lattes, going to the movies with the kids, buying new things other than actual necessities, going to the mall for entertainment, eating out, buying convenience food. Many of these things we cut out gradually, a month at a time, but some we cut out right away.
We started a spending plan — most bills were put on automatic payment, and a few discretionary categories (food, gas, etc.)
I started an emergency fund.
I started paying off the debts, one at a time.
I renegotiated with some of our creditors.
We found other fun ways to have fun as a family.
I started earning more as a freelancer, to bring in extra income.
I started this blog, and sold my first ebook 11 months later, to make more income.
Then we got out of debt. And stayed out. We haven’t been in debt one single minute since then. It’s wonderful.
The Way of No Debt
The first part of the Way of No Debt is getting out of it. The steps I took above are how I did that. It’s the hardest part, but definitely worth it.
The Way is then a transition from being in debt, to living debt-free.
First, we kept living frugally for awhile — we didn’t really loosen up, and that meant we put a lot of our income to savings. We grew our emergency fund to the recommended 6-month cushion, which was important to me as a self-employed business owner.
Then I started looking to invest, and invested in index funds, which are pretty basic but low-cost and low-worry investment vehicles. Then I learned about tax-advantaged investment vehicles like IRAs, and got me some of those. I’m still learning about all of this, but the important thing is that I got started.
The Way is now just a philosophy, of not going into debt. I use credit cards now, but pay them off completely every month (for awhile, I paid them off weekly, then just set up autopay). I don’t have a car, but the last time I did, we bought it used, with cash. We don’t have a mortgage. We live within our means, and spend less than we earn.
This means we don’t worry about finances, for the most part. It means we don’t pay interest. We earn interest. We aren’t tied to a house, we don’t have anything expensive we’d need to sell, and we live lightly.
This is the Way of No Debt, and I recommend it highly. read interesting posts on [url]blackasset..com[/url]
Career › A Guide For Young People: What To Do With Your Life by Chibuzoc(op): 6:25am On Sep 16, 2015
Written by leo babauta
I had a 15-year-old write to me and ask about figuring out what do do with her life.
She writes:
‘As a high-school student I’m constantly being reminded to figure out what to do with my life, what career I would like to have and so on. I definitely feel huge amounts of pressure when my teachers and parents tell me to figure out something now. I’m young and I don’t want to make a mistake and ruin my future. I know what I like and what my interests are but when I read about a job related to those interests I always feel as if I wouldn’t enjoy it and I don’t know why.’
What an extremely tough thing to figure out: what to do with your future! Now, I can’t really tell this young woman what to do, as her parents might not like that very much, but I can share what I’ve learned looking back on my life, and what I would tell my kids (oldest is 21 and still figuring things out, but I also have 17- and 16-year-old boys and a 14-year-old girl).
Here’s what I’d say.
You can’t figure out the future. Even young people who have a plan (be a doctor, lawyer, research scientist, singer) don’t really know what will happen. If they have any certainty at all, they’re a bit deluded. Life doesn’t go according to plan, and while a few people might do exactly what they set out to do, you never know if you’re one of those. Other things come along to change you, to change your opportunities, to change the world. The jobs of working at Google, Amazon or Twitter, for example, didn’t exist when I was a teen-ager. Neither did the job of Zen Habits blogger.
So if you can’t figure out the future, what do you do? Don’t focus on the future. Focus on what you can do right now that will be good no matter what the future brings. Make stuff. Build stuff. Learn skills. Go on adventures. Make friends. These things will help in any future.
Learn to be good with discomfort. One of the most important skills you can develop is being OK with some discomfort. The best things in life are often hard, and if you shy away from difficulty and discomfort, you’ll miss out. You’ll live a life of safety.
Learning is hard. Building something great is hard. Writing a book is hard. A marriage is hard. Running an ultramarathon is hard. All are amazing.
If you get good at this, you can do anything. You can start a business, which you couldn’t if you’re afraid of discomfort, because starting a business is hard and uncomfortable.
How do you get good at this? Do things now that are uncomfortable and hard, on purpose. But start with small doses. Try exercising for a little bit, even if it’s hard, but just start with a few minutes of it, and increase a minute every few days or so. Try writing a blog or meditating every day. When you find yourself avoiding discomfort, push yourself just a little bit more (within limits of reason and safety of course).
Learn to be good with uncertainty. A related skill is thriving in uncertainty. Starting a business, for example, is an amazing thing to do … but if you’re afraid of uncertainty, you’ll skip it. You can’t know how things will turn out, and so if you need to know how things will turn out, you’ll avoid great projects, businesses, opportunities.
But if you can be OK with not knowing, you’ll be open to many more possibilities. Read more on uncertainty.
If you’re good at discomfort and uncertainty, you could do all kinds of things: travel the world and live cheaply while blogging about it, write a book, start a business, live in a foreign country and teach English, learn to program and create your own software, take a job with a startup, create an online magazine with other good young writers, and much more. All of those would be awesome, but you have to be OK with discomfort and uncertainty.
If any opportunities like these come along, you’ll be ready if you’ve practiced these skills.
Overcome distraction and procrastination. All of this is useless if you can’t overcome the universal problems of distraction and procrastination. You might seize an opportunity because you’re good at uncertainty and discomfort, but then not make the most of it because you’re too busy on social media and watching TV.
Actually, distraction and procrastination are just ways of avoiding discomfort, so if you get good at discomfort you’re way ahead of most people. But there are some things you can practice — read more here.
Learn about your mind. Most people don’t realize that fear controls them. They don’t notice when they run to distraction, or rationalize doing things they told themselves they wouldn’t do. It’s hard to change mental habits because you don’t always see what’s going on in your head.
Learn about how your mind works, and you’ll be much better at all of this. The best ways: meditation and blogging. With meditation (read how to do it) you watch your mind jumping around, running from discomfort, rationalizing. With blogging, you are forced to reflect on what you’ve been doing in life and what you’ve learned from it. It’s a great tool for self-growth, and I recommend it to every young person.
Make some money. I don’t think money is that important, but making money is difficult. You have to make someone believe in you enough to hire you or buy your products/service, which means you have to figure out why you’re worthy of someone believing in you. You have to become worthy. And you have to learn to communicate that to people so they’ll want to buy or hire you. Whether you’re selling cookies door-to-door or an app in the Apple store or trying to get a job as a cashier, you have to do this.
And you get better with practice.
I worked as a clerk at a bank and then a freelance sports writer when I was in high school, and those were valuable experiences for me.
Protip: save an emergency fund, then start investing your earnings in an index fund and watch it grow over your lifetime.
Build something small. Most people fritter their time away on things that don’t matter, like TV, video games, social media, reading news. A year of that and you have nothing to show for it. But if you did a sketch every day, or started writing web app, or created a blog or a video channel that you update regularly, or started building a cookie business … at the end of a year you’ll have something great. And some new skills. Something you can point to and say, “I built that.” Which most people can’t do.
Start small, and build it every day if possible. It’s like putting your money in investments: it grows in value over time.
Become trustworthy. When someone hires a young person, the biggest fear is that the young person is not trustworthy. That they’ll come in late and lie about it and miss deadlines. Someone who has established a reputation over the years might be much more trusted, and more likely to be hired. Learn to be trustworthy by showing up on time, doing your best on every task, being honest, admitting mistakes but fixing them, trying your best to meet deadlines, being a good person.
If you do that, you’ll build a reputation and people will recommend you to others, which is the best way to get a job or investor.
Be ready for opportunities. If you do all of the above, or at least most of it, you’ll be amazing. You’ll be way, way ahead of pretty much every other person your age. And opportunities will come your way, if you have your eyes open: job opportunities, a chance to build something with someone, an idea for a startup that you can build yourself, a new thing to learn and turn into a business, the chance to submit your new screenplay.
These opportunities might come along, and you have to be ready to seize them. Take risks — that’s one of the advantages of being young. And if none come along, create your own.
Finally: The idea behind all of this is that you can’t know what you’re going to do with your life right now, because you don’t know who you’re going to be, what you’ll be able to do, what you’ll be passionate about, who you’ll meet, what opportunities will come up, or what the world will be like. But you do know this: if you are prepared, you can do anything you want.
Prepare yourself by learning about your mind, becoming trustworthy, building things, overcoming procrastination, getting good at discomfort and uncertainty.
You can put all this off and live a life of safety and boringness. Or you can start today, and see what life has to offer you.
Lastly, what do you do when your parents and teachers pressure you to figure things out? Tell them you’re going to be an entrepreneur, start your own business, and take over the world. If you prepare for that, you’ll actually be prepared for any career.
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Health › Level Up To Lose Weight by Chibuzoc(op): 11:53am On Sep 02, 2015
BY LEO BABAUTA
I know a lot of people who want to lose weight but are stuck, like I was in 2005.
They want to get healthy and fit, but can’t seem to stick to a diet or exercise plan. They start, and then fail, and then feel bad about it.

This was where I was 10 years ago, and I’m happy to tell you that it’s possible to change.
The secret lies in leveling up.
Like a video game, the way to changing your health habits is by starting out at the first level, and only going to the next level after you’ve beaten the one before that. The problem is that most people start at Level 10 and fail, and wonder what happened. Most of us want to skip several levels, but we’re just not ready.
So the secret is to start at Level 1, and only advance once you’re done with that level. One level at a time, you’ll master the game of losing weight and getting healthy.
Here’s my guide to leveling up.
Level 1
Please, for goodness sake, don’t make the mistake of skipping this level because it sounds too easy. The easy levels are where you gain your skills.
You need to do two very easy things in this level:

Start walking just for a few minutes every day.
Reduce your eating by a little bit. A very little bit.

The walking should be as simple as walking around the block a couple times, or going to a nearby park for just 5-10 minutes. It should seem so easy that you feel a little dumb not doing more.
Why should it be so easy? Because you’re not ready for higher levels yet. You might think you are, but if you haven’t been regularly exercising for awhile, you aren’t.
The eating could just be as simple as putting a little less on your plate at dinner, or having one less soda a day. Make it almost unnoticeable.
Only progress past this level after you’ve successfully done it for a week.
Level 2
Remember, don’t go to this level until you’ve had a streak of 7 days of doing Level 1.
Here are the two things to do in this level:

Walk every day for a few minutes more. If you’ve been going around the block twice, make it three times. Or add 5 minutes to your walking.
Eat a little less than in the previous level. Just a little less — not really noticeable.

You’ll slowly adjust to the new levels of walking and eating. Do this for another week before going to the next level.
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Family › The Essence Of Fatherhood: 6 Simple Lessons by Chibuzoc(op): 11:45am On Sep 02, 2015
By Leo Babauta
I’ve been a father for more than 21 years, and have 6 kids altogether, and have loved every messy minute of it.
And now I have a young brother who’s becoming a father this month, and is deeply scared by the prospect of fatherhood. He’s not sure if he’ll do a good job, worried he’ll fail.

I can tell him this: being a father is the scariest thing I’ve known in my life. All of a sudden, I was 19 and in charge of a fragile human life, so precious and dear but so flickering and easily put out. And I was completely unprepared — no class in school taught me what to do, and I had very few life lessons by that time.
It was the most terrifying experience ever. And it’s been the most rewarding thing I’ve ever done.
More rewarding than getting married, than running an ultramarathon, than starting a successful business, than helping thousands of people change their lives through my example.
But to be honest, I sucked at it at first.
My biggest problem, apart from a dreadful lack of knowing what the hell I was doing, was a sense of entitlement. My child should do what I say, behave a certain way, grow into the person I want her to be. That’s ridiculous, I now know, but it caused me all kinds of conflict in the beginning.
I now see a father not as a shaper of clay, but a herder of cats. A father isn’t molding a child into the perfect ideal of a human being he’d like her to be … he’s trying to keep her alive, and feel loved, as she grows into whatever she already is.
So for young men who are becoming fathers, and young women becoming mothers as well (because there’s not much difference other than anatomy) … here are my thoughts on herding cats. Just know that I’ve violated all of these ideas repeatedly, and learned these lessons the hard way. Read more @http://blackasset..com/2015/08/the-essence-of-fatherhood-6-simple.html
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