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op thanks for this....i was delivered on 5th Dec 2013. They(demons) were actually talking to me. After ten years of bondage Jesus pulled me out! Thank you Jesus. Porn was my food but now i abhor anything that looks like porn. God is real. Guys pray to God and he will deliver you like me. Thank you Jesus.

emeify:
The kids are not in danger. It was just me being abused and he has sworn tobfightbme tooth and nail if I try to take d kids.

I don't have a house now so cant even taken them. I don't mind paying their fees and have asked for the right to have them with me at certain days.

He is brandishing a cane and using tr kids as bargain. I also asked that he contribute to their upkeep when I have them over since I Wil be doing same for him. That passed him and I wonder y

Yes I Wil get legal advice since my attempts are hitting a wall. I am a responsible mother and have contributed all their life not only to their education but to everything in d house including rent. I don't tjink my husband is willing to let go those contributions. I don't blame him but he too needs to budge

Hey ma, how long have u been married? Are u a christain? Please, Go BACK to your family. Use your energy to get back than using your energy to get a lawyer. Invite JESUS to your home.....he is knocking. God bless u.

cococandy:
so what do you propose?

If she felt abused, then she's right to leave.
Anyone has the right to leave a situation that feels threatening to them.
Whether it fits our definition or not.
The important factor is that it didn't feel safe for them.

I'm not saying jail the man or hang him or anything like that. I didn't even call him names. so I don't see how I'm judging him.

All I think he needs to do is let her have equal access to the kids as he does and both of them can forge their lives separately.

You are being defiant on this issue...Are u married? If u are, pray this does not happen to you...if u are not start praying for endurance before u get married because u might leave your husband on slightest provocation. Then again, seek Almighty God, he ordained Marriage and divorce is not from him.

cococandy:
she said he was abusing her.

How will they settle that one?
They can't get back together. It will be suicidal of her to do that.

I agree it is expensive but he's being unreasonable. He's leaving her with no choice.

Pray this does not happen to you....she can settle it if she is determined....so please don't support divorce. God settles disagreements more than lawyers.

emeify:
Thanks. This only happened revently so no court involved yet. Still trying to get a lawyer and planning to rent a place.

how long have u been separated? Allow time to heal the misunderstanding....Are u a christain? Seek God if u are than seeking a mere lawyer. God bless ur reunion in advance.

frank317:
Nice u felt insulted because ur question made me feel worst.

OK...the reason why you think sexual thought and selfe service is bad is because Jesus said so in the bible.

Well I have read the bible too... But have u ever considered the issue? I mean have u sat down and give it some serious thiking.? I did.

See what happens to me. If I am with a friend and I look at a girl, say I admire her beauty (her shape and facial structure) most times my friends would say I am a womanizer because of this.

But I found out they are just projecting what they are to me. Projection is a self defense mechanism that enable one see what they really are in others. Just give them reason to see what they are in u and they quickly take the bait.

This makes me wonder why Jesus thought looking at a woman lustfully is bad... Could it be that he knew he actually liked it?

What is looking at a woman lustfully really? If I see a very fine car and look at it admiringly, wishing it was mine and I could ride it, is that also a sin? Why should looking and feeling that way for a pretty girl bad? Isn't it natural that if I see a well shaped girl, I should admire her and wish she was mine? Heck, I would even imagine all sorts of sex style with the damsel. Why is that sin? Did I rrappe her? Why is having sexual desire bad to God? Didn't he create us to have them? Isn't it natural instinct? Is just like saying feeling hungry is bad.

Now back to self service... I think it too much indulgence in anything is bad... Be it eating rice, running, taking alcohol, drinking water and self service is bad. So when is over indulgence in self service bad? When u do do it in public places or more than ten times a day. But guy... Occasional self service and lusting after pretty women is not bad. If u think so pls prove me wrong.

May God Save your soul... Amen

classicB:
Don't get me wrong abeg, am not a baby anymore and I know the difference between a guy that has a good intention and the one that basically needs only sex from me just to boost his ego among his peers.
These are guys that have slept with countless of girls in the church choir and other workers, what is the difference between me and these girls that will make this same guys have good intention towards me?
This isn't asking out, it is simply boosting their ego so they can go about and say 'i have slept with the new worker too'
I do have a boyfriend and theere is nothing hypocritical about that.

its hypocritical if u engage in sexual acts with your boyfriend and claim u serve God....Flee fornication...thats the real service u have to render to God. God's grace to u.

why tell u after the introduction? Why not before? Insincere sincerity.....smh

FriedPlantain:
Rubbish! Nothing will make me dispose off my wonderful vaseline!

With this vaseline, i can have the best 3some ever with Kim K, Angelina Jolie and Genevieve together on my bed anytime anyday. There ain't no way I'm leaving that shii mehn

Friedplantain

Please you need Jesus to break That Demonic Power...Please accept Jesus... I was an addict before....I am as free as Air Since that power of Jesus came in. My testimony

we have to be dead to sin so as not to live by grace alone Romans 8....Sanctification is what we xtains need....be ye sanctified and satan cant try you again. I love this write up. God bless u OP

missbronze:
No, is not matter of that.

The tot of that i'm mandated to be doing it as a wife., is scaring me.

Tell God to guve u the strength to always be ready....He ordained marriage and he approved sex for married couples. So pray for strength and willingness, he will grant u that.

KelvinC1:
I fvcked female corpers in JOS-PLATEAU CAMP until i became fed up of pvssy.. THE COLD CONTRIBUTED TOO.. This is a confession and i pray GOD forGIVE me.. They never took my money.. They rather give me their's.. #ADOYII..
But now i am a born AGAIN soul-winning dude..

thank God for your life...keep it up. Win souls for God and he will bless u....Amen!

you need JESUS! He will undo the works of the devil in your life....The option are passport to hell. Please accept Jesus, he is knocking at the door of your heart. Please....

My dear its foul spirit running inside you....Accept Jesus the spirit Disappears. You cant fight it on your own....God bless u

Edusouls:
see you,see your dug grave, this man are you crazy? You are just dancing with the devil and when you dance with the devil, the devil always wins, i mean always...

i love this! If u dine with him he always wins! But with Jesus, he is a specialist in Failure! Halleluya!

carefreewannabe:
I don't even want to get married.

Be careful with what you say....there are idle demons waiting to attack your words....God bless

carefreewannabe:
I don't even want to get married.

Be careful what you say....ther are idle demons waiting to attack your words....God bless

the girl might be too bored with these if she doesn't fear God....do these with a God fearing girl.... If not, a huge blunder waiting to happen. My take

chichriso:
Tinubu will be regretting picking Buhari by now

Exactly....well packaged container but an expired content.

ACCEPT JESUS AS YOUR LORD AND PERSONAL SAVIOR. FOLLOW THIS MINISTRATION
ASK GOD SINCERELY FOR FORGIVENESS OF YOUR SIN(SPECIFIC)
TURN TO THE OTHER SIDE AND TELL THE DEMONS THAT YOU HAVE BEEN FORGIVEN AND THAT YOU DIDN"T SIN AGAINST THEM
THEN COMMAND THEM TO GET OUT! YOU ARE FREE IN JESUS NAME! AMEN
I WAS FREED FROM AN ADDICTION FOR A YEAR NOW.....GOD IS REAL.
GOD BLESS YOU
I AM A WATCHMAN. GOD IS THERE.