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komek: Who was ur hostel mate. The bride or the groom.
i discover u just come here to talk rubbish in order to create attention. this was how u said what u dont now about one of the nollywood actor the other day. u should grow up na. Abi the unemployment dey affect u too?[color=#990000][/color]

komek: Who was ur hostel mate. The bride or the groom.
i discover u just come here to talk rubbish in order to create attention. this was how u said what u dont now about one of the nollywood actor the other day. u should grow up na. Abi the unemployment dey affect u too?[color=#990000][/color]

Martowskin: NNeZi was my hostel mate in skul(FUTO) finaly money speaks....out of all of dem she finally picked JM......abuja base banker..hmmmmmmmm dats crious...d nnezi I knw very well... media can paint sha

Joeblis: ..i wonder why catholic churches are keeping young girls under the guise of serving God,

DailyNews: 190, Withdraw those swear words against chichi, pls do so...tell her sorry and dnt use such again.

nbright: @chichi... Must he attend the same church with you?... What is it that girls see in this same church of a thing that I haven't seen sef?, or is it like the proverbial saying that what an elder sees while sitting down a youth couldn't see even if he climbs a tall tree?... Isn't it the same GOD we are serving?, don't we all believe in the same JESUS CHRIST?. Or are u a Jehovah's Witness?... I have said it before and I will keep saying it... I detest fanatism... I'll rather remain single than to marry a fanatic..

DailyNews: See, don't be shy, be straight, be open. Tell us his physical qualities, academic background, likely financial background, age, vital statistics (height, body structure), tribe or nationality (if applicable), likely location and everything you desire and wish.

nbright: I don't believe in love at 1st sight.... Love should be a gradual process and and u shouldn't wait for any "spark" or "shock" or "blast" or whatever it is that u do read on mills & boons... Love is like a plant, if u nuture it, it will grow and produce fruits... That's my own take on it... @maya, just because I put "spark" it doesn't mean I'm mocking you..

DailyNews: Now you have defined what I call male-stupidity! Chasing a girl who made it known to you that she doesn't care, gosh! Some guys lack integrity and masculine ego. For what Come on, sorry to sound this way @chichi, are you The Queen of Sheba for him to be drolling like that? Is he enchanted or bewitched He should have moved on, if chichi says NO, there are thousand and one more prettier, trendier, more intelligent and more exposed girls than chichi out there waiting to welcome and celebrate him like King Solomon, so why chase a girl who showed no interest in you Now, I see why Nigerian ladies lack respect for the guys, gosh! This has to stop!!! Any guy thats reading this and he does this, pls for the sake of the entire male integrity, stop that useless attitude from NOW!! When one girl turns you down or says NO to you, there are thousands if not millions of better girls out there ready to embrace and celebrate you, majority of Nigerian guys don't know this or maybe they know but are just on a bad mission to hit and run like I hear them call it.

So angry

DailyNews: I want to start with your comment chichi...your name sound so kinky, like it though..lol...thats by the way. You see, like I pointed out earlier, majority of men of today believe 100% that ladies don't need men if not for when they need a financial favour or any other form of favour, thats the truth. Like myself, I always tell my friends- guy, that girl doesn't care about you o, she no send whether you exist or not, if you doubt me, don't call her again and she will never dare call you until she needs a favour, and most times when they try what I tell them, it works like that.

Because of this, we guys believe that Nigerian ladies don't enter into a relationship or marriage for true companionship, they only agree to date a guy just to date, to have a financial provider or a problem solver or a solution provider whether in the form of academic solution provider as a student, or financial provider when she is in need, and thats why most guys don't take relationships or marriage serious because they believe women don't care. Internet has helped to open our eyes a bit though, just like mine got opened to an extent today, courtesy of carmelion's post today.

So, that guy may have been believing this- that Nigerian girls don't really care, they don't give a damn about relationship or companionship, they want this and that, so he may have decided to try you and you proved him right and he moved on. Most men have learnt not to take relationship and sometimes marriage serious because of how ladies treat relationships and marriages.

So when u meet a guy you really like, make him understand that you value the friendship u have with him, the companionship and that u really care about him. guys are insecure too but u ladies dont know.

achina boy: duno why u can`t leave me alone,being a virgin cannot take u to heaven,,,by the way all the curses i reverse it to your family, u don`t know,this is a place for ideas and experiences,,check my post,i said most guys i know most guys i know,,,they told me what they were passing through,that why i shaered my experience,,i guess ur dad disvirgined u,and these will continue to run in your family from now on,,,by the way i said most guys i know,if u need phone numbers i give now,,just leave me alone to live my life,,,my opinion is my opinion,not gonna change,,,,again never corse a faceless individual because if the face appears u might cry

achina boy: U are not God,and will never be,,i already got three kids all girls,and i will not let them get married as virgins,this is my life and my opinion,so choose yours,i have my reasons,i have my experiences,i wonder what u call the truth?so getting married as a virgin is the truth?abi,in 5 to 10 years time i hope to hear a different testimony from you because i would love to,,,,,,i have never disvirgined any girl ,and i dont hope to because am married,,,,,,finally,make sure u are not those so called christians,because i was once one.

achina boy: i guess u are not married yet,because most guys that married so called virgins will tell u that it was a mistake,because s,,e,,x,is something that is so enjoyable when u are with an experienced partner,and thats why most guys i know,,i said most guys i know that are married to virgins,ends up going back to their experienced ex,so my point is don`t advice anybody u know to save their virginity for their husband,i would`t advice my kids to do so even,,,,,,,,personal opinion

Ivynwa: Don't believe that friend, don't believe that. Somethings you believe in somehow unfolds out the way you have it in your mind so make away with that. You will meet somebody you like and who really likes you. Keep your mind open.

ralfo85: If I may ask, how old are you? If all the guys who show genuine interest in you turn you off, are these usually total strangers? I guess a girl in her teens may be scared of commitment, but if you are a University graduate already you should be past that. Have you been in a relationship before? If not, what could be the reason, since according to you there have not been a shortage of suitors?

ralfo85: How in the first place did you get in a relationship with a person you don't like? Talk less accepting a proposal for marriage? You marrying this person will be proof of low self esteem and selfishness on your part. Please put your affairs together and deal with the situation. You are not doing the other party any good too.

My question to you is; have you been honest enough to tell this person intending to marry you you don't love him? Or have you been decieving him out to seeming pity?

ralfo85: How in the first place did you get in a relationship with a person you don't like? Talk less accepting a proposal for marriage? You marrying this person will be proof of low self esteem and selfishness on your part. Please put your affairs together and deal with the situation. You are not doing the other party any good too.

My question to you is; have you been honest enough to tell this person intending to marry you you don't love him? Or have you been decieving him out to seeming pity?