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FamilyRe: At What Age Did You Leave Your Parents House And Why? by Chiden(f): 10:25am On May 02, 2022
I would want to leave mine cry
FamilyRe: I Need To Talk To Someone by Chiden(op): 9:03pm On Apr 26, 2022
baby124:
You better realize and understand that only you can make yourself happy. Get to the point that no one in this world can be responsible for your happiness and you will surprise yourself.

Leave your mum with her issues. Not everyone was made to have children but Nigerian society forces everyone to give birth to kids they don’t have the emotional capacity to care for.


Thanks a lot

Don’t blame yourself that you cannot satisfy her, it’s not you that is the problem, it’s her! That is just who she is and if you keep trying, you will harm yourself. Some people are born defective in that way. Emotionally they are vacant. It’s a form of a mental issue to a certain extent, sorry to say. They simply cannot love anybody! So when you see someone just not being capable of love, just excuse yourself from their life or you end up hurting yourself.

In this case, it’s your mother. So you have to live with it. Just have an understanding of who she is, accept it and live to make yourself happy. I wish you the best. Sorry dear.
FamilyRe: I Need To Talk To Someone by Chiden(op): 9:03pm On Apr 26, 2022
pozehnani:
you better si
Yes sis.. I'm better, Thanks. I had to stay offline for a while
FamilyRe: I Need To Talk To Someone by Chiden(op): 10:16am On Apr 26, 2022
Thank you very much for the calls and encouragements fam. .. I'm encouraged, I feel much better than before.
FamilyRe: I Need To Talk To Someone by Chiden(op): 8:51am On Apr 26, 2022
donaldchidi:
It seems you are her accomplish, her bf and maybe undergraduates at school trying dia luck on scamming.
Let her snap as I said, by the way she have shown me one of her picture. Then wat will stop her snapping fresh one now as I directed?
It's in your mail Sir
FamilyRe: I Need To Talk To Someone by Chiden(op): 8:50am On Apr 26, 2022
donaldchidi:
Very true, she should be careful if she is real but something is telling me she is not real...
Am waiting for her to do wat I said, that will confirm to me if she is real or not.
I'm not real? It's fine.. I only wanted someone to talk to
FamilyRe: I Need To Talk To Someone by Chiden(op): 8:41am On Apr 26, 2022
NATIONALPASTOR:
Be very careful before these small boys use you for money rituals.


They are many here don't say you were not warned by NATIONAL PASTOR.
It'd be better they use me for rituals, and give part of the money to my mum. What am I living for?
FamilyRe: I Need To Talk To Someone by Chiden(op): 8:22am On Apr 26, 2022
donaldchidi:
Pls where do you stay, as in the state and city...huh
How old are you...huh
If possible let me see ur picture...
If your story is real, you need to go out from your mum, get a job and grow from dia.
Can I send a mail Sir? I ran out of Airtime, I would've called you back

I'll be 25 in July
I'm in Abuja currently
FamilyRe: I Need To Talk To Someone by Chiden(op): 8:01am On Apr 26, 2022
Mindlog:
Do you think your dad' not living with your mum is in any way affecting her relationship with you?
I don't think that's the reason. My mum's younger sister gave out her daughters in marriage to men living outside Nigeria. Both of them are 22 and 23 yrs of age. One if their husbands bought the girl a car and rented an apartment for them. They're currently preparing to leave Nigeria and join their husbands.

I think this is the reason. She considers me a no do good cry
FamilyRe: I Need To Talk To Someone by Chiden(op): 7:50am On Apr 26, 2022
Mindlog:
What about your dad?
He doesn't live with us
FamilyI Need To Talk To Someone by Chiden(op):
cry I've made so many mistakes in life. Everyday I strive to correct them, my mum hates me..even tho sometimes she says she doesn't. I disgust her (I'm not a bad girl, I've never even had fun all my life) when she looks at me sometimes she just gets upset for no reason.

I push myself every because I want to make her smile, just like every first child would. My heart is heavy, I've been suicidal for a while now. There's just one reason why I haven't given into depression..

I want to leave home, for a long time. Maybe only then will she value me just a little.

I'll like to talk to someone, Anyone
Music/RadioRe: Name Your Favorite Radio And Your Most Favorites Show by Chiden(f): 5:28pm On Apr 25, 2022
I'll like to be an OAP someday.. soundcity is my fav. I love EDK and a host of many others
Business To BusinessRe: What Business Can I Start With 50,000 by Chiden(op): 7:37am On Apr 25, 2022
DonNikoson:
I think clothing business will move very well if you know how to get good first grade okrika stuffs. You might not need up to 50k to start but if you use 50k to go to market and select nice first grade stock from people that open bales then I believe you will make good sales and once people get to know that in your shop they can always get nice stuffs and good price then the sky is your starting point.
God bless.
Thank you sir
InvestmentRe: What Business Can I Start With 50,000 by Chiden(op): 7:36am On Apr 25, 2022
ugnoble:
Sorry I'm replying late, I have been away.

Yes, selling just water can give you profits if people around get to know you're a major dealer and if yours is a bit lower in price.

And just like someone suggested up there, consider Akara and Bread Business too since you're a lady. Just don't frown on it as it also generates good income.
Alright Sir
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Did You Receive This Message From Nigerian Youth Investment Fund? by Chiden(f): 12:50pm On Apr 24, 2022
Beware of scammers!

WebmastersHow Can I Track Someone's Phone by Chiden(op): 12:48pm On Apr 24, 2022
Someone close to me has been missing since yesterday. How can I track his phone to know where he was found last please
ProgrammingRe: How Can I Track Someone's Phone by Chiden(op): 12:46pm On Apr 24, 2022
Igwend:
Do you have email and password she uses on her phone?
Just the email. I don't know the password
ProgrammingHow Can I Track Someone's Phone by Chiden(op): 12:42pm On Apr 24, 2022
Someone close to me has been missing since yesterday. How do I track his phone to know where he is or was found last please
InvestmentRe: What Business Can I Start With 50,000 by Chiden(op): 9:52pm On Apr 23, 2022
buttlover:
nigger, pack up and rent out your shop. use the 50k to eat good food. no business with below 500 k survives in abuja unless you sell like market woman
I'm a lady Sir
InvestmentRe: What Business Can I Start With 50,000 by Chiden(op): 9:11pm On Apr 23, 2022
[quote author=completey post=112216996][/quote]Thanks a Lot
InvestmentRe: What Business Can I Start With 50,000 by Chiden(op): 7:24pm On Apr 23, 2022
ugnoble:
Your best bet would have been Foodstuffs, as it's what people readily needs.
However, the issue is with the funds you have.

Modified:
You can also see if selling bags of pure water is profitable, if so, you buy and resale on a slightly higher price than wholesale price.
The 50k can go a long way since you already have a shop.
Just water? Would it really sell? Although I'm surrounded by people who sell drinks and water too
InvestmentWhat Business Can I Start With 50,000 by Chiden(op): 5:22pm On Apr 23, 2022
I have a shop somewhere in Jikwoyi, Abuja. I started with selling Attachments and i didn't succeed with it. I had to sell off the attachments to a neighbor at wholesale prices (even lower) on credit too. Shop rent's counting and there's nothing in the shop cry I would want to borrow from Fairmoney or carbon and start up another Business. But this time I would want something that will sell, I'm thinking raw foodstuff but I don't have enough capital for it.


(Moreover, Business in that environment is really slow)

I'll like to know what possible Businesses one can start with 50k or less please
Business To BusinessWhat Business Can I Start With 50,000 by Chiden(op): 2:42pm On Apr 23, 2022
I have a shop somewhere in Jikwoyi, Abuja. I started with selling Attachments and i didn't succeed with it. I had to sell off the attachments to a neighbor at wholesale prices (even lower) on credit too. Shop rent's counting and there's nothing in the shop cry I would want to borrow from Fairmoney or carbon and start up another Business. But this time I would want something that will sell, I'm thinking raw foodstuff but I don't have enough capital for it.


(Moreover, Business in that environment is really slow)

I'll like to know what possible Businesses one can start with 50k or less please
InvestmentRe: Mutual Funds by Chiden(f):
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FamilyRe: Nairaland Easter Giveaway 2022 by Chiden(f): 1:07pm On Apr 17, 2022
QuinModah:
Nice one, you mind learning crypto join m y c r y p t o n g academy on telegram.
Thanks a lot Sis, I really don't mind. Is there a link?
FamilyRe: Nairaland Easter Giveaway 2022 by Chiden(f): 9:09am On Apr 17, 2022
I would want to learn a skill sad (Modified: I wouldn't mind graphic designing, I'm passionate about it Sha)

Everything I think I ever attempted has failed me. My house rent expired this month and I have my family living with me.. I don't know what I need. A hug, words of encouragement, or just financial assistance/ empowerment. Or maybe if someone can help me run a sponsored advert for my IG Business I'll be most grateful.

I'm searching my house for something I can give out too. If I find anything that could still be of use I'll post it too

Modified: In the absence of anything. I'm willing to Design business fliers for 2 people or more.
BusinessRe: NYIF Loan Discussion Thread by Chiden(f): 11:41am On Apr 13, 2022
cry
BusinessRe: NYIF Loan Discussion Thread by Chiden(f): 4:17pm On Apr 12, 2022
I would've liked to go through this process too (I didn't receive my mail) but something tells me to be PATIENT

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