₦airaland Forum

whiteshark you haven't failed to amuse me so far. A sense of humour is definitely a nice quality in a man but claiming me for you brother, that i'm not so sure of.

whiteshark you are very funny. since when did me and your brother decide to get married. i don't see a rock on my finger yet.

i totally agree with the people who still have hope for African men. i try to not to generalize and say that a group of people are the same way but it's like when you have been rubbed the wrong way by the same type of people it kinda makes you believe that they are all the same. so i hope you guys understand what i'm saying. i don't think all African men are bad but i've run into a whole lot of those bad ones. all i need is one to show me that they're not all jerks.

He's in the Uk and i'm in the US, hence the distance will be a problem. thanks for trying to be matchmaker ocho.

hmm.. this is kind of a tough one being that i haven't been exposed to that many Nigerians. i never used to find yoruba guys attractive but i met one that was quite handsome but turned out to be complete jerk like most Nigerian men i have met have been to me. as for the igbo guys, they are handsome but they are lacking in height to me. i don't know about the other ethnic groups because as i said i haven't met that many.

why do i seem to be running into some African men who have been complete assholes. i am a Nigerian myself but it's so sad that i have never dated or had a serious relationship with a Nigerian because of their aggressiveness toward women. i always try to give the benefit of the doubt to the ones i meet but they can't seem to be gentlemen to me. they always want to rush to have sex without even getting to know me. i just don't know what is wrong. i don't want to be one of those Nigerian girls who doesn't give Nigerian men a chance. so far all my bad encounters with men have been with Nigerians or other African men. is there anyone else who has gone through what I've gone through and have you met any good ones out there. sorry to all men on this board, don't take this personal. I'm just saying what I've been through.

this is really amazing to me because i know Oge Okoye personally. she went to high school with my sister and she lived down the street from us. i remember her telling me and my sis that she was going into acting in Naija but we never got to see any of her movies. i'm really glad the girl is doing good for herself. i really hope i can see her soon to say congrats in person.