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Religion / Re: Prophet TB Joshua Ministries Confirms His Death by chillybrandy(f): 7:30am On Jun 06, 2021
This is so sad..
Rest in peace sir���
Romance / Re: When A Couple Truly Love Each Other by chillybrandy(f): 11:11am On May 14, 2021
Hmmmmmmmm in Israel DMW's voice.
Career / Re: After Apprenticeship, What Next? by chillybrandy(f): 9:25am On May 01, 2021
I think you should try to be have a relationship with engineers and fellow welders for connection because no man is an island.

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: How Do You Respond To This Kind Of Question? by chillybrandy(f): 9:21am On May 01, 2021
For close pals or family tell the truth that you're no longer working, respond with fine for acquaintances.

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Travel / Re: What Is The Cost Of Living In Abuja? by chillybrandy(f): 3:24pm On Mar 31, 2021
The cost of living in Abuja is high especially If you don't own a house. The rent are mostly exorbitant except you want to stay in the remote areas which are usually characterized by bad roads and poor electricity supply.

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Culture / Re: What Is It That People Easily Do But You Can't Do? by chillybrandy(f): 10:00pm On Mar 24, 2021
I find it very difficult to stay mad at anyone for more than a day. I can't speak in tongues like most people do these days.

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NYSC / Re: Fashion Designing Vs Hair Dressing Which Is More Profitable? by chillybrandy(f): 4:44pm On Dec 14, 2020
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Politics / Re: CACOVID Yet To Flag-off Its Palliatives In Osun - Relief C'ttee Secretary by chillybrandy(f): 7:17pm On Oct 28, 2020
The residents decided to fast track the flag off ; grin

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Celebrities / Re: “Surgery For What?” – Regina Daniels Shows Off Hot Body After Childbirth (Video) by chillybrandy(f): 2:14pm On Jul 26, 2020
Looking snatched. smiley

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Celebrities / Re: A Fans Reveals How Zlatan Ibile Brutally Assault Him Today In Lagos (screenshot) by chillybrandy(f): 3:05am On May 26, 2020
The guy is wrong now,why take pictures of them in their home.

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Family / Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by chillybrandy(f): 8:40am On May 23, 2020
[I wish I can give you 1000 likes
You just hit the nail on the head sr.

As a man, a father and a grandfather. I have lived life to an extent and this is my view on this subject.

The previous thread was simple and concise, "Never marry a woman who has no means of income".

But that is the truth!

Gone are the days when people marry "Obiageri's" according to the Igbos.
Back then, things weren't this bad. Considering the family setting in those days, women had no other role than to cook, birth, raise children and clean the house.

So their parents prepare them for marriage, teach them how to cook, satisfy a man and raise children. They also spend alot of time grooming their hairs, taking care of their skin (Some parents send their children to fattening rooms) and waiting to get married.

When we got married, we married to keep them at home and show off to our friends. Only a few of us married because of love. Some of our partners were not our choice but our parents.

So when you marry, your wife and children should always reflect your wealth and networth. Most especially, YOUR WIFE.

I repeat, back then things were not this bad and everyone knew their roles.

But in today's world, so many things have changed.

Women should bring to the table as much as they expect from the man.

Raising children costs alot of money and shouldn't be the responsibility of the man alone.

So many marriages have crashed on the alter of poverty or "One stream of income".

We must learn to tell ourselves the truth always.

Back then, you don't spend so much to raise a child. If he or she wants to go to the community school or follow the white man's way of life, you send them as a punishment. But those humble and loyal sons, follow you to the farm and when they come of age, you give them farmlands and wives if possible. But that's not the case anymore.

Apart from formal education abroad, I also encouraged my children to learn sellable skills. One of my son is a fashion designer and that is what puts food on his table in the UK. His college degree only reflects on his call cards.

I told this to my children (Daughters inclusive) never to marry a man or woman who has no verifiable means of income.

Money is needed to run a home in the 21st century. Alot of money!

We no longer live in mud houses or drink from pots.

As for "Entitlement", I think every couple should have that mentality depending on the context.

The man is entitled to his wife's emotional commitment. She is his wife and this also applies to the man.

I am tired of typing.

To be truthful, i warned my son's against mingling with an average African woman. They simply don't want to know the truth. They hate the truth with Passion and that is why true feminism failed woefully here.

In the Diaspora, most men who want peace of mind avoid African women because of their "Entitlement Mentality" and how exploitative they are.

Many of these women don't work but enjoy proceeds of child support from numerous partners. You think it's a coincidence? No it not. It was deliberate.

They just want to seat at home, get fat, enlarge their butts and walk up and down the street like a pussy cat that resides in Buckingham Palace.

Should I talk about Nigeria, where you meet an average Nigerian lady and realise that;

1. She is a college graduate because a "Man" sponsored her in school (Both of them are no longer together as a couple).

2. She has a roof over her head because a "Man" made that available (She has no intention of marrying him).

3. She uses the best smartphone because a "Man" bought it for her (Just another random man).

4. She has clothes on her body because a "Man" gave her money for shopping (Obviously he is "One of those mugus"wink.

5. She has food on her table because so many men send her money.

This same woman has no other skill but sexual skills. The only thing she can offer is "Sexual Intercourse", "Birthing Children" and "Companionship" but she expects the man to "Mark her birthdays with a brand new Escalade", "Buy her parents a new house and train her younger ones in school". Is that not exploitation?

This same woman hates her mother inlaw because she sees her as her rival. Anyway, women have always hated themselves from time immemorial, don't get moved when you see them shout in solidarity, it's just for a few seconds.

When asked about their contribution in the relationship or Marriage, some will say "I birthed children for him". But that's your natural default woman!

Even if you sleep with a sexually active mad man, you will get pregnant and birth for him.

Some will even say, "I satisfy him sexually. I gave him my body and soul". But that is same thing you did with your numerous ex lovers.

According to Pastor Sam Adeyemi, he said "If a woman does not help her husband financially, then how else does she want to help him".

In this age and time, it takes two adults who have a verifiable means of income to build a healthy family.


Cheers![/quote]
Politics / SDP Secretariat Burnt Down In Lokoja Kogi State. by chillybrandy(f): 1:55pm On Nov 11, 2019
The state secretariat of the social democratic party SDP was burnt down at midnight.The gubernatorial candidate Natasha Apoti was live on Facebook and showed the damages done. She alleged that Yahaya Bello's thugs were behind the attack.


https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=10157206263331758&id=675006757

Celebrities / Laura Ikeji Undergoes Cosmetic Surgery by chillybrandy(f): 7:44am On Sep 06, 2018
Laura ikeji undergoes cosmetic surgery to get a perfect nose. Here is the link to the video she shared on online. https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=247320962634816&id=163781703715266
Celebrities / Re: Mercy Johnson Steps Out With Her Children (Photos) by chillybrandy(f): 7:42pm On Apr 08, 2018
Nice one from the okogies.

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Car Talk / Re: With This Toyota Camatte Petta, Little Kids Can Now Learn To Drive by chillybrandy(f): 1:54pm On Jun 30, 2017
Nice 1. But I don't think Nigerian parent will let their kids drive this except in the confine of their homes.

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Crime / Re: Army Invades Little Palace Hotel, Lagos, Turns It Into Operational Base by chillybrandy(f): 9:07am On Jun 28, 2017
This is the peak of lawlessness.It's my birthday family

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Phones / Re: If you could only have six apps, which ones would they be? by chillybrandy(f): 6:19pm On May 04, 2016
Really? Hw dies it work?
Health / Re: Opinion: Should Euthanasia Be Legal Or Illegal? by chillybrandy(f): 4:11pm On Jan 02, 2016
In my opinion it shouldn't be legalised. Everyone has the right to life even in critical conditions. Besides that miracle still happens.
Celebrities / Re: Agbani Darego Still Showing Bikini Body In China (Photos) by chillybrandy(f): 8:43pm On Dec 18, 2015
She's Ok. She must have put in much effort to maintain this stature.

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Celebrities / Re: Peter Okoye And His Son Doing Press Up by chillybrandy(f): 4:28pm On Aug 07, 2015
That's what you get when six pack is now the order of the day.

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Celebrities / Happy New Month. by chillybrandy(f): 5:48am On Jun 01, 2015
Happy new month nairalanders
Welcome to my month and a month of total change.
Celebrities / Re: Yipee!! Uche Jombo Welcomes Baby Boy by chillybrandy(f): 4:50am On May 29, 2015
A big congratulations to her.
Celebrities / Re: Pregnant Mary Remmy Njoku Shares Vacation Photos by chillybrandy(f): 4:11pm On May 24, 2015
Adorable family
Culture / Re: Why Are Most People Guilty Of This? by chillybrandy(f): 5:51pm On May 22, 2015
With this complextion. Na editing sure pass. See hand.
Crime / Re: How A Female Boss Was Kidnapped By Her Own Driver In Lagos [photo] by chillybrandy(f): 8:18pm On May 21, 2015
Wonders shall never end. That's why is very important to work with trustworthy people.
Celebrities / Re: Omotola Jalade Ekeinde Reveals Secrets Behind Her Glowing Skin by chillybrandy(f): 5:15pm On May 21, 2015
I believe all she said is true. Because I also use baby lotion.

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Celebrities / Re: 9ice Performs No Be Mistake In Church !! ( Video ) by chillybrandy(f): 2:40pm On May 20, 2015
The end is near

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Politics / Re: Stop Trekking, Pray Instead – Buhari’s Aide Tells Youth by chillybrandy(f): 9:57am On May 19, 2015
On point. It's high time all this madness stopped already.
Politics / Re: Buhari Government To Merge All These Agencies!!!- Iiedgenews.com by chillybrandy(f): 10:38am On May 18, 2015
Nigerians will really feel the 'change'.

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Health / Re: Hospital Suspends Male Nurse For Injecting Gej’s Supporter Un-prescribed Drugs by chillybrandy(f): 5:40pm On May 17, 2015
He must be a real fan of GMB
Celebrities / Re: D'banj Rock Agbada Dress For Birthday Celebration Of Shina Peller by chillybrandy(f): 8:03pm On May 16, 2015
Bangaleee

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