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Chinda: my bad, guess I was taking the stupid Osu thing out on you! I'm sorry!

@prince

no,its no problem,i understand u perfectly well

I didn't want to or mean to be rude Chinda3 but I have seen families that this so called OSU thing ruined and you really sound like you don't know what its (OSU) all about. Well, you're right and entitle to your opinion but trust me runing away won't solve OSU problem in the eastern Nigeria! peace.

@prince
yep i get u,but dont blame me for my replies,dis osu thing is begining to get on my nerves,u know families that it happened to me,but in my case it happened to my cousin,she could not marry d guy cos he 's an osu,and if u have read my other replies u will read where i said,both parties should get married if they really love each other,and if possible relocate,cos staying in d village will make them go thru so many things,yos they cant interact wt others and so on,so its better they just work hard and leave there,start a new life,cos they will always be called osu

@prince

listen we are only stating our opinions here,i was never rude to u at d begining and i see no reason y u should be rude to me by telling to go to someother thread,and mind u d poster was enjoying my replies before u came in,and everybody is entitled to his/her opinions,whoever that wants to take my advise should take it and whoever that does not want to should let it be, if u do not agree wt it,then u give d reason y,instead of telling me to go to another thread or watever,im entitled to my opinion here prince

It is time for the youth not to be deceived by preconceived lies from so called elders that ought to know better.

@still water
thats right

the innocent people should find their way and leave d village,cos staying there would make them go thru so much pains,im not an osu like i said,but let them form an organization or sthg,and take themselves out of dvillage and enjoy life,i live in d europe so?look if i was in nigeria and i happen to be an osu,all i have to do is work my way out from the village to d city,so dat i can have my peace

my kids mind u ,wont go to school in d easts,my kids wont live in d east,and wat will my child be doing in d hospital in d village,now its only wen they stay in d village that they can be intimidated,osu's as far as im concerned are not banned from the normal live that people in lagos for example live,as far as im concerned,its only wen they get to their home town then they will be receiving dis kinda treatment from d villagers

yea yea,i know a man has his roots more on his fathers compound,but like i said ,if he is told to stop buying things in the market or join in d village meeting ,no big deal,but let me ask u dis questions: WAT IS UR FATHER'S COMPOUND COMPARED TO YOUR LIFE HAPPINESS,WHAT GROUND DO U HAVE IN UR FATHERS COMPOUND WTOUT D RIGHT WOMAN BY YOUR SIDE(WHEN I MEAN THE RIGHT WOMAN,I MEAN D ONE U TRULY LOVE;EVEN IF D PERSON IS AN OSU),OR WOULD U RATHER STAY AND MARRY UR FATHERS COMPOUND AND THEN LET GO OF THE ONLY PERSON THAT GIVES U JOY? i dont care wat people say about me,i only care about wat God says about me,come to think of it do u know dat d OSU'S are more successful than d non osu's, if their people have forsaken them,one thing i know is dat God will not forsake them,

Yes, i will explain to the best of knowledge. YOUR FAMILY DOES NOT SUPPORT YOU AND YOU WNAT THEM TO BE ON YOUR SIDE. THEY COULD BE BANNED FROM THE ACTIVITIES OF THE ENTIRE VILLAGE IF THEY STAND BEHIND YOU. What do you think we can do about that?
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@sam

ok now i get u,well personally,i know how much my family love me,all i have to do is blackmail their emotions,by running away from d house,i might not really run to d guys place,i might be at a female friends place and believe me by d time they look for me for 6 months they will be d one dat will fix a wedding date for me,but like i said personally,cos i dont know if it will work for others,but it will definitely work for me,i dont pray to find my self in such situation,but one thing i know is if we r banned from buying things in d market,then no problem ,all we have to do is buy all dat we need from d city and then travel wt it,for christ sake wat is my business if they ban me from the umu-agbo association,afterall how long will we be staying in d east?not even up to a month,look sam too hell wt dis OSU thing,and if im lucky to get married to a guy based here in EUROPE,then wat im i going to do in d east very year,i'd be going but its going to be a once in ablue moon thing,cos going to the east is going to make my husband feel bad,cos the villagers will always remind him of his status,going to d east once in a while is going to be d best option, so sam have i answered ur question ,or is there another?

What i want to hear from you now is what we could do to change the fact that, our families will not be standing behind us

@sam
i dont really understand dat sentence,could u be more explanatory?

Now i am going to throw some light on this OSU of a topic, Imagine a situation whereby the entire village BANNED your mother or father from buying or selling in the village market or attending village meetings. i know some people will ask if this actually happens but the obvious answer is yes, it happens, I know this sounds strange but its one of the punishments to a family for marrying from OSU family. This has become a very big disturbing issue for me personaly because a very good friend of mine is involved now. But i can't easily or forcefully change the way of life of an entire village of over 30, 000 people. I know how easy it is for some people to jump into conclusions in this matter but remember that there is always one or two things you can't just change because you are rich or famous.

ok i think i understand u,dis osu of a thing is a big deal in d igbo land,but i wonder y people should be suffering from wat they know nothing of,like i said earlier im not marrying d whole village,and even if i get married i wont be satying in d village so wats their stress,if i fall inlove wt an OSU and if he should ask me to marry him,i will oooo,except my family is against it then i will withdraw,but as for d villagers they will get it hot wt me.

i know of a girl dat lost her virginity to a guy,and d guy knowing d girl was a virgin wantd to marry her ASAP,d girl herself was happy because she wantd whoever dat would disvirgin her to marry her,so it was a dream come true,to cut the long story short,she could not marry d guy cos d guy is an OSU,they had to part way,and till date none is married,even though they both have their different lovers,they still meet secretly,but is it life?both of them cannot marry any body cos they are madly in love wt each other,tell me is dis not a big punishment,the two lovers are madly inlove but cant marry cos of dis OSU thing,i think it should be banished for people to have their peace

@poster

run away from dat girl,before u end up relocating to d village wt ur ghana must go bag(i mean by d time she finish draining u,u will have enough money to buy a tooth brush,so u might end up spending ur last days in d village)dont say i did not warn u

no be lie u talk my sista,the penetration of the d*****k of a man is d root of all evil

lol no be lie u talk,dat thing na d root of woman downfall

ME

@tommy
are u sure?i hope say u be d real man as u talk and i hope say u no chewing gum man

infact dis osu of a thing is becoming too much,depriving people of their love

@poster
the villagers should not be included in dis matter,cos im not marrying d villagers or d entire village,so its just the immediate family dat should be concerned about dis,so to hell to all this hungy people dat call themselves villagers

football team.

i gast to keep up with my fore fathers

@OMO IBO
LOL,U NO WELL;DID YOUR FORE FATHERS TELL U TO KEEP UP WITH THEM

@POSTER

I WANT FOUR,AND I WILL NOT MIND IF THEY ARE TWINS

@poster
it is not my portion,my husband will not die early, i jesus name AMEN

@poster if women can be truthful to themselves sometimes d infidelity of d man is caused by women,especially if she likes nagging and doesnt give her husband sex wen he needs it,dont blame him if he goes out,as for those dat said they will leave theior husbands house,welldone ,go now and see if d girl he has outside wont come in,as for u dat will move to a seperate room,do it and continue encouraging infidelity,at d end of d day shame will belong to u,cos another woman like u,wt two breasts and legs ,took ur husband away from u,my God its a disgrace to womanhood,if u find out ur husband is cheating on u,sit down and ask urself questions,find out if the fault is from u and if it is make amends

@poster

i think u dont know wat d word illiteracy means:illiteracy as far as i am concerned means wen one can not read or write.then u can call dat kind of person an illiterate,but hence one can read or write,that person is not an illiterate,so poster:do u mean someone dat can not read or write or do u mean someone dat does not have a B.s.c?

nice question chinda, she doesnt use phones at the moment. she gave me that number to reach her. she said the school prohibits phones and i also wonder why her roommate has a phone.

if d room mate uses a phone,then y is she not having one?i must say my brother it is really suspicious u know,my advise to u is dat u take things easy ok?just be very careful wt ur heart,because its a battle u might win or loose,like i said she might be innocent ,and she might have also found someone else,so its a 50-50 thing.

@poster

im not disputing d fact dat she might have someone else,but i ask u,why did u call her room mate?y not d girl,some of room mates can be very jealous,since u provide ur girl wt everything and maybe nobody is providing for d room mate,so jealousy comes in,i think u should settle scores wt d girl and not d room mate

@poster
im an igbo girl and d name they call the outcasts is "OSU", but i dont know why people should suffer from wat they dont know of,if d guy loves d girl,let him go for her,if it is a curse let him break it wt prayers,afterall wt prayers nothing is impossible

I feel very bad. Infact i de go mess for one corner to drown my sorrows! Undecided

if they send u,tell them say u no see me(i dont know of other nairaland members),person dey try find out how life go move well,na mess they send u to come talk,mess dey put food for table?mess dey give money?i beg no come inflict the spirit of poverty for our body oooo

Must there be conflict over such things?

me i dont know ooooooooooooooooo

Question 1: What is your pocket rate

nice question,answer it

Stillwater, please you don't have to apologize oh jare. What you want is what you want. . .no offense there.

yah ,y r u apologising,no be wetin u want u talk,abi u owe anybody explanation?

@poster
just out of curiosity,are u one?

on phone ke??
if a guy proposes marriage to me on the phone,
ma response would be - tunda fire u!.
can't he walk?? what happened to his legs??
plus how would i get the ring! ( i believe the ring should come with the proposal).

if he proposes to me on the phone,
the marriage might as well be performed oer the phone.
And we might as well have the kids over the phone- NONSENSE!

@yong babe

i beg no make me laf,u funny oooo

@still water

same here too,any guy dat ignores me after d first approach,ends up catching my attention,but all those stubborn guys dat never want to hear no,keeps irritating and pissin me off

where is d pics

@poster
why will ur family say no?u guys are not related by blood,it will even bring both family closer,my dear follow ur heart if u love d girl ,go for her,u guys are just inlaws not relations.