₦airaland Forum

I have been dating a guy over 3 years, thou he is far from home he stays in Lagos then while i stay in Benue, i saw him once with the girl right in Benue State i suspected their move and asked him who the girl was but he first lied to me that the girl was his cousine barely one yr later he came down to B/S (then he has moved to P/H) and invited me over that we needed to talk; ( to put the story short) it was so suprising to hear that she has put to bed (the so called cousine is a Warri girl). What i did at first was to congratulate him, then i said no problem u can go ahead with your r\shp while i seek for my own, but he refuse and was on his knees sheding real tears to plead for forgiveness and promised nevr to hurt my feelings again (saying the girl's intention was to hook him for marriage and promised to add up her own money if it demands that;because the mum was in full support) though after that i am not myself and somehow run from him but we communicate and nothing more than that, but the supprising thing is this when ever he calls i first asked of his health, his baby boy & the mother of his child, he responds well but for the third he always say i don't want you to talk about her please. I never want to hurt u baby i am sorry it was a mistake that won't repeat itself agian i promise. Some how dedicated to me as in calling twice every day, money to my account, precious gift at birthday and so on.

So my fellow landers what do you advice i do for the btter of my life and future. I asked this because his siblings like me very much and call me their wifee especially his first two eldest sisters and their last born hmmm he won't let me be, he addresses me as one of the family members (changing my surname to theirs when calling me on phone/text msg)

WHAT DO I DO
WORRIED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

, koni raba fun love oshi,

No, come to think of it,why do some men beat up their wives

What about the other tribes? The Urhobos, Ijaw, Itsekiri, Calabar/Efik, Tiv, Ndokwa, Isoko, edo/Benin. Are those ones not Nigerians? Are we doing just WAZOBIA Here?

ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

Why do some men find it very difficult to admit their faults whenever they offended their girlfriends? Instead of them to feel sorry for what they did, they will be finding a way to shift the blames to their girls who may later be the begging ones just for peace to reign.
Why is the word "am sorry" too difficult for some men?

This is for guys alone(and me alone as the thread moderator of course):

Which one of these group of Nigerian women are generally very beautiful:
Ibo girls , yoruba girls or Hausa girls?.

Which ones are generally more sexy?(No tribalism please, it's just a fun thread).

Say who?

My ss cousin spent more time in the hospital than at home for the whole of her 19yrs before she died this past January.

My ss cousin spent more time in the hospital than at home for the whole of her 19yrs before she died this past January.

But by the way, do people still date for that long before marriage? 6yrs is way too long!

una no say Love is very blind.

Na jealousy dey worry you.

Do u know the world wide stars my village has produced?

Michael Jackson, Idi-amin, Sani abacha and Bill Clinton

Shld i say more?

i think this is Ini Edo

To be frank i do not think there is any one romantic

Dude what's your problem?

.and good at bed