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OP, sorry to hear about what you are currently going through in your marriage.
I would advise you to talk to your wife and let her understand the implication of what she's doing to your marriage. Secondly I would advise you to get
LUBRICANT(you will find them in pharmacys) when having sex and also remember to go easy on her.
Finally talk to her about using the lubricant and promise her that you would try and go easy on her alongside using the lub.

Remember that lack of sex in marriage can lead to couples growing apart and if care is not taken they may eventually become estranged.

You can resume activities when your wife feels healed,this healing period depends largely on whether or not she had an episiotomy (tear). However,you should be good to go after 6 weeks of delivery and you have done 5weeks so goodluck.

Congratulation on your baby's arrival.

Oga,being a real man entails self control, all women are the same o they have power in the mouth and most times don't mean what they say,you should never have raised your hand on a woman,wife or not. That said, please apologize to your wife and have a talk with her,fighting gets you no where and don't be deceived that a another wife will do better.
Please don't lay your hands on. Any woman ever again