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Mr Failure

Good news

Lord have mercy

Enemies of Nigerian progress .

Very sad indeed

Biglittlelois:
A recent trend of this generation is that, we have more dependent and lazy males than females, sad and funny.

You are � correct just like my 27 years old brother he doesn't have a job he is not doing any effort to get a job but all he knows is how to give belle.

eyinjuege:
Please let them sort themselves out.
You can help the 19 and 21 year old with foodstuff WHEN you can.
They're probably giving money to their girlfriends anyway.
It's sad the way the country is at the moment, but that's not your fault and you shouldn't be made to bear the brunt.

The problem with them is they are jealous of each other, if I help A and B will be jealous he will also call demanding for his own part. I wanted to help our last born to complete ss3 and my other brother 21 also want me to help him with his studies. I have told him he is old enough he should look for work to further his studies he wasn't happy saying I love our younger brother more than him. How can I help them when there is no love between them.

toobusy:
While it's enjoyable to help family members,men of 27,21 and 19 should be encouraged to be independent,one negative effect of having people that always help you whenever you are in need is that it will indeliberately make you lazy,your brothers are old enough to take care of themselves .

Thank you

Vyzz:




Women

SMH.

Because it's not the same father you don't want to help them?.

I know if it was the other way around and you were in their shoes you would also come here and tell us how the are wicked for refusing to help you simply because it's not the same family.


Go and help your family, because when everything falls apart, they are your Safe heaven.

I have ruled.

It is not because we are not the same father I just feel like they are men and they should go and work, I don't owe them anything it is not my fault that my dad is responsible he is taking good care of me and there dad's are not. I can help them if I want to but I hate it when they want to depend on me for everything they are stressing me. And tommorow when they will start making it in life they will not even remember me it is their wives who will reap where they didn't sow. I will not help them again I think I should listen to my dad I will change my number and move on.

eyinjuege:
How old are they and what of their dad?
Don't do more than yourself, please.
If you can't afford to help them, then don't
Have a set amount to help every month ( something that wont hurt your pocket in anyway) and once you're past that, lock-up no matter what.

My older brother is 27 jobless he has a child ,my younger brothers are 21 and 19

Bluntguy:
Help them while you can, remember that those you meet on your way up you are likely to meet on your way down. Except they have opportunity to hustle but refuse to do so.

I have helped them a lot I think is enough they should go and hustle. I am thinking about changing my number soon so I will have no contact with them again

My mum is late. I am the only girl among 3 boys. We have different dads.

How do I tell my brothers that I don't want to help them. They should go and hustle. I am tired of them begging me for everything. I don't want to carry their burdens cos I have my own life to live. I want to focus on my life first and they should also focus on theirs. I am sick and tired of them.

Chisomann:
It is not because we are not the same father I just feel like they are men and they should go and work, I don't owe them anything it is not my fault that my dad is responsible he is taking good care of me and there dad's are not. I can help them if I want to but I hate it when they want to depend on me for everything they are stressing me. And tommorow when they will start making it in life they will not even remember me it is their wives who will reap where they didn't sow. I will not help them again I think I should listen to my dad I will change my number and move on.