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Politics / Re: Senator Nwaoboshi, Disowns 11 Houses, Bank Accounts Seized By Court by Chiwendi: 7:31am On Jul 08, 2019
Pls these are lies,he is not the owner of ceedeez school hall Asana,even if I don't know of the rest at least I know of that one.
Family / Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by Chiwendi: 10:10am On Feb 19, 2019
Is ur wife on any family planning?like implanon,sometimes it does that too,either she looses interest or the opposite.Also can be as a result to tiredness from the house chores and the stress of the children.let her take Kunu,dates and coconut mil mixed together it works wonders.
Romance / Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Chiwendi: 2:05pm On Jan 11, 2019
Is ur � a doctor?if yes pm me
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Is Secretly Dating Married Men by Chiwendi: 8:33pm On Nov 18, 2018
If you are a wife to this married man how would you feel?if your husband blames you for cheating on you,how would you feel?Instead of accepting his fault.if this girl is married and the husband has financial problems is this how she would blame him?abeg she no get excuse.uote author=CookieLaVee post=73081984]
I almost didn't wan to reply but after seeing some immature replies I think I should reply you.
First of all, if she is actually dating a married man, then she is so wrong on every level. Then again, who is perfect? I myself do not condone cheating for anything but hey! Everybody is different and to some extent has a level of wrongs he/she can condone. Besides, who said there is a manual for relationship?
I noticed you said you were squatting somewhere before you moved yo your own apartment. I want to believe that you were having some problems with finance and as such, you were not helping her with some finance. A man must not carry all the responsibilities of his woman but to some extent, you should be able to help. Seeing that you were/are still lacking in that department, some things has got to give. I am a woman, a hard working woman at that but to be honest, every woman needs some sort of financial assistant especially from her man. It might not necessarily be for materialistic things, I for one isn't a fan of those but one has responsibilities especially if you are the first child and have lots of siblings looking up to you. Again, that is not an excuse to cheat...
Someone once said that if all married men should be faithful then most single ladies will have to starve. That is unfortunately, the sad reality. Please notice the word "most", this doesn't apply to all single ladies though...

Again, during my service year, I was opportune to meet a big politician who gave me my first #100k at his office after telling me he found me interesting. I knew he could have wanted to go to the next level with me if I wanted but alas, my future is too valuable to play into the hands of these diabolical politicians. I ran home with the money and never looked back. Even though there wasnt any need to share this with my bf, I told him out of trust and joy of getting some big money I never worked for or imagined to get at that time, but until after two years, I didn't know he never believed me. He told everybody that cared to know that I slept with a politician and he gave me money....
What am I driving at? Where there is love, there must be trust. If you do love her, trust her to tell you what is actually going on. Don't just deduce your conclusion from what you aren't sure about. I heard you say she has been going to hotels with the married man, confront her and trust her to tell you the real truth. I know the world has stereotyped most women as whores and what not but you have to find out the real truth.
From the truth, you can make your decisions as it fits you. [/quote]

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Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Is Secretly Dating Married Men by Chiwendi: 7:16pm On Nov 18, 2018
What kind of work does she do to have that kind of phone?have u also confronted her?what was her reply?for now I would say have all the facts and even chat evidence and the man's number to yourself so that when it blows open,she will know it is not just mouth.[sub][/sub]

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