Lordbellish:



yeah Bro but I know u go bash me like that others calling me weakling and Sissy

AngelJennifer:



Please don't allow Nairaland destroy your relationship it might mean nothing to her. Just call her to order. The devil you know is better than the angel you don't know. Just be sure she is not cheating and continue with your marriage.

Lordbellish:
Hello Nairalanders, please I'm in serious Situation right now... There's this girl (my girl friend) that I proposed to, she accepted that we will spend the rest of our lives together..

But there's this thing I noticed about her, strange numbers (men) do call her and they call in odd times (late nights and early morning)...

I have asked her, why will she give out her number to any random man that demands for her number and she will boldly answer the call... I'm just so tired of this calling of a thing.

what should I do

I love her and I want to marry her. we have even fixed date for wine carrying

I have sat her down countless time telling her that I'm not comfortable with that call stuff but she just won't stop.

Lordbellish:



I felt like smashing her phone on the wall Buh I couldn't.... I just lost my appetite and left the house for her before I will do something silly...


when I came back she already ate hers and left my in the freezer.... from what I gathered from this post, my mind is made. i have called her elder sister this morning and told her everything and that if she doesn't stop, I will cancel every marriage plans.. she said her and the husband will invite me and he sister over to talk to us.. on how to get along, she really begged me shaaa

DanDeeBoss:
Lol... where do I belong??

Lordbellish:



the one that got me mad was that she came over for the weekend and her phone rang when we wanted to eat, she was answering call and the food was getting cold, I called her baby this food with get cold Oooo... let's eat na. she said I should be eating that she will join Later....

Now she reply the person on phone that it was nothing, just a minor distraction

Lordbellish:
Hello Nairalanders, please I'm in serious Situation right now... There's this girl (my girl friend) that I proposed to, she accepted that we will spend the rest of our lives together..

But there's this thing I noticed about her, strange numbers (men) do call her and they call in odd times (late nights and early morning)...

I have asked her, why will she give out her number to any random man that demands for her number and she will boldly answer the call... I'm just so tired of this calling of a thing.

what should I do

I love her and I want to marry her. we have even fixed date for wine carrying

I have sat her down countless time telling her that I'm not comfortable with that call stuff but she just won't stop.

MariaLavina:
Thank you for this!

See people exaggerating the issue, All foaming 'break up ' 'bounce out' as if they are in the relationship with op as if they got engaged barely two days after meeting. Waiting patiently to read how nairalanders ruined my relationship. Op will know better not to seek advice from frustrated people who see nothing but negatively.

Anyways it's none of my business sha.

Paxie55:

I pity your mentions today.

Lordbellish:



the one that got me mad was that she came over for the weekend and her phone rang when we wanted to eat, she was answering call and the food was getting cold, I called her baby this food with get cold Oooo... let's eat na. she said I should be eating that she will join Later....

Now she reply the person on phone that it was nothing, just a minor distraction

MariaLavina:
Me, I don't know for you o.

Alright oooo.... Dat slap was just for fun

MariaLavina:
Lol.... the thing tire me . But you know my mention is expensive nah, I only reply people I consider sensible. If them like make them off clothes, scroll through all my posts to quote me, nah them sabi .



How was your day jare, better person?

zinaunreal:
Someone that described you as a minor distraction
If im you, ill will man up and give her a stern no shinning teeth warning. If she disobeys next time shes out. No time for rubbish before you start anhaving issues in a marriage that should be about peace of mind.

What kind of rubbish behaviour is that
And the stupid female nairalanders are blindly sentimental they would support anything bad so far it involves their fellow b*tch in skirt. If you see them in real life, they are single and desperate.

DanDeeBoss:
Alright oooo.... Dat slap was just for fun

Mujtahida:

A woman's heart is connected to her pvssy. Her body answers to how she feels. This dryness likely means her heart is dry towards you. But then I'm just postulating from what you wrote. Look at the entire context of your relationship and come to a position as to how she feels towards you.

AngelJennifer:



Please don't allow Nairaland destroy your relationship it might mean nothing to her. Just call her to order. The devil you know is better than the angel you don't know. Just be sure she is not cheating and continue with your marriage.

MariaLavina:
We disagree to agree

uniqueflash:
"minor distraction "that is you she refers to as minor?bro,use your head

MariaLavina:
Lol.... the thing tire me . But you know my mention is expensive nah, I only reply people I consider sensible. If them like make them off clothes, scroll through all my posts to quote me, nah them sabi .



How was your day jare, better person?

MariaLavina:
Lol.... the thing tire me . But you know my mention is expensive nah, I only reply people I consider sensible. If them like make them off clothes, scroll through all my posts to quote me, nah them sabi .



How was your day jare, better person?

delugajackson:
You need to establish some rules in your relationship. I see she's the type that disrespects you and I wonder how you both will cope during marriage, cause what you allow is what will continue. But it's up to you, if you keep acting like a sissy, you will get treated like one. Respect is earned.

You need to make her understand that she's no longer available to other men by virtue of the engagement ring. If she finds that too difficult to understand then she's free to walk away. Life is too short to make mistakes. And stop with the "I love her" crap line. You can't sacrifice your sanity and peace of mind on the alter of love.

Lordbellish:



I felt like smashing her phone on the wall Buh I couldn't.... I just lost my appetite and left the house for her before I will do something silly...


when I came back she already ate hers and left my in the freezer.... from what I gathered from this post, my mind is made. i have called her elder sister this morning and told her everything and that if she doesn't stop, I will cancel every marriage plans.. she said her and the husband will invite me and he sister over to talk to us.. on how to get along, she really begged me shaaa

Belafonte:


Your fiance is a hoe. I would advise you to not marry her. If she can do this confidently and defiantly when you're about to wed, a period she should be pretending, what do you think she'll do when you guys are official?

Do not rush into marriage. In this same Nigeria marriages break up within six months. If you think I'm exaggerating, go to any courts around your location and see for yourself. You cannot marry a prostitute and expect virtuous behaviours from her. Don't let anyone pressure you, not her, not her family, not your family. No-one.

Don't let anyone go and bring a basterd for you to train. A word is enough for the wise. If you like, marry the neighbourhood pússy, na you go carry your cross by yourself

yomisley:
i have followed this thread from page one, very interesting. as much as I don't want to comment on this. some nonsense ladies forced me to.

Height if disrespect, How can my so-called fiancee be talking to other guys in my house, That I find to be very disrespectful. "women don't have heart of there own, that's to say they don't think with there head, when situations arose, I use to date a gurl back then and she is always talking to different guys and claiming they are just friends, one of those people she calls her friends got her raped, which I know no one rape her,she just foolishly didn't know how to resist and say no and just open her p-ssy and the guy have her f-cked to cut the long story short.

this lady in question didn't love you and just move on with your life, cool-headed ladies are out there to settle down with, I'm not talking about women/ladies like marialavina or whatever her name is.. i don't care. it's this type of woman that f-ck around and won't see anything wrong with it.

Just a minor distraction, before she leave my house that night, i go first word her first and hate herself. nonsense...

Lordbellish:



she always telling me she dry, baby can't u see am dry and me being dry means I'm not in the mood...

or if she concepts to making love, once she cums, she pushes me away... and now do a hand job on me b4 I cum... (sorry I'm spelling everything out like this) I'm seriously hurting