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Really gluing me to this page

Nice one

I'm just a Baby Writer

Still learning but my readers may not see it that way

Any ways, I'm interested in such forums so my whatsapp no is 09020407583

Awwwwwn.. This one really caught me

Jesus!! Can someone be this good

Ghostwriter I swear You know how to handle the pen

I so much love this work

In fact Kudos to you will [color=#006600][/color]

This work is opened to critic and suggestion from readers.
I'll be more edified if it's placed under a Moral criticism.

Thanks to all

You've got the permission to give this work of mine any title of your Choice regarding it's related to Life... It's highly Acceptable

I've really gone down to even as deep as the sea to have a full knowledge about Life both in its concept, theory, background and other parameters that can be used to explain it and it's quite disheartening that I'm yet to be satisfied by my Findings.

I could vividly remember when someone told me that in no certain condition, the known Life has its root from the unknown Life. I was confused about this saying if truth is to be told and it made me embarked on a project about life though I'm yet to complete it.

Sorry to interrupt this concise work of mine with some traditional rhetorical questions below..

When life and death is placed on the line, what do the winners do that the losers don’t?

Who are those that survives life threatening situations?

Is life playing the unfair role to some persons?

Life which covers both the good and the bad part is as old as history itself and mistakes are part and parcel of Life. Mistakes in my own view shares one characteristic with death and that is it's inevitability.

We all make mistakes but It’s still in us to want to blast a person over a mistake and lifting ourselves of the guilt of our own mistakes. We've got what is called an ignored mistake, that is you being aware you're wrong somewhere but instead of taking corrections, you prefer to act like nothing happened. Ignorance as they say is a deadly disease. And this strategy doesn't work for learning how to continue after making certain mistakes.

Someone once asked me if mistakes were natural in life during my findings for a particular Course. If I must be honest, I was gripped with fear to answer that question, because if I were to say what was in my mind, I may have gotten criticized in a harsh manner so I tried to answer him by saying "No one is perfect that in fact life would be unbearable if everyone was perfect". So I left him with an opportunity to choice for himself.

In this work, I think I'll be very free to say that mistake are natural in Life without dodging any critics from my readers. Mistakes are naturally part of life and until this knowledge is imbibed in us, we will spend so much time on denying their existence, covering them up and pretending they are not a part of our lives instead of looking for corrective measures to take. Making a mistake is not the worst thing you can do in your life, to the contrary the worst thing you can do is to deny, mask or attempt to bury that mistake.

Life can be a constant struggle and to cope with, preparedness of self is more valuable. When I'm always expecting the best and life is just being totally screwed up to me brings me into some definitive decisions like giving up, being sad etc.
In fact, life has random events that pound us down like Death, family tragedy, natural disaster, etc. And trust me these events are out of our control and can cause tremendous struggle and heartache for a period of time.

Don't wanna get this work too length because I myself kinda get tired with reading lines that are lengthy more so if it bores me. I'm just gonna drop few more points and I'm out. Over the past few month I have worked through something that has, and still is, changing my life and that is the power and the pain of weakness. And trust me, I came out with few findings which I wanna share below.

Do you know that life kinda challenges this old saying - As you make your Bed so you lie on it. The saying in a simple interpretation connotes planning but Life sometimes don't just go as you've planned. What then do you do when faced with this kinda scenario? Life was never meant to be easy but a life worth living is a life full of taking risks, stepping out into the unknown and trusting and hoping beyond our human understanding. It won’t always be a comfortable experience whether we plan effectively for it.

Life can be good and can also be bad according to your perceived consideration but then you should also remember that good and bad things are complimentary to each other. If there are no bad things, you won't appreciate the good things. The absence of one makes you appreciate the other. Consider if you get all good things in your life- the things which always keep you happy- you'll sooner get bored. If there is no change in life, there also will be no excitement or motive to live. Therefore, in order to leave a balanced life you need to taste both good and bad things, and also respect both.

I'm no victim in life and so are you and once you embrace this, life becomes your delicate morsel.

I'm Akahara Rejoice Chizoba
A UNN student of the department of Adult Education.
I'm also a baby writer as you can attest from my work.

Thanks for Reading.

I'm a UNN student my dear

Do you think Self Confidence can be learnt?

Suggestions pls.....

Words Of Encouragement

Always Be Self Motivated

I may not utterly tell what you see when you look at the mirror especially when the world has made you feel you ain't good looking, important and so on.....

You may be seeing yourself as a nobody just managing Life because you're probably afraid of death..

You may instead of admiring yourself, bringing up words like if only God has made me as beautiful as my mum, if only He has made me a little taller or fairer, I would have been better off than this. Let me tell you, you're unknowingly hating yourself which is not the best for you....

You may be seeing yourself as a failure, Someone who's not just good in doing things no matter the circumstance..

You may be seeing one unknown person who you feel is better than you in almost everything life has got, indirectly you're placing that person on perfection and belittling your own self...

You may be seeing yourself as someone without a future because your parents are poor or because you ain't even good at anything you try to do....

BUT The God that created you is seeing you beyond all these, He can't reject you even if you've got this feeling that the world has rejected you....

He is seeing potentials in you which you may be hoodwinked to see because you already given yourself the last position In life's result...

He is seeing someone with a great future because He has bestowed them on you..

He created you and kept you because there is a purpose He has for you to fulfill which you may not be aware of...

You are a somebody here on Earth and not a nobody. In fact, Human race here on Earth may seem impossible to consummate all her goals without you existing...

Don't allow the fire within you to quench because of what people are saying....

Complaining about everything in life does not work as a strategy to overcoming them.

The bottom line is that you will never get to where you are meant to be by complaining or making what people say about you prolific....

I'm aware that we can't cheat our human nature which means we do falter, we do doubt some truths, and we feel pain sometimes, but we can control these qualities to avoid being stagnated...

Each step in your life is preparing you for the one that comes after it because each step is passing...

One uncovered truth that is inevitable in life is that people will always say... come good and bad..

When you stop giving them a good listening ear and acting upon what they say which makes you see yourself as a helpless victim,  you'll find out that you're more powerful than you even realized, but only if you choose to accept this reality and work on it...

Be self-confident, if you're not then learn to build it. Always get self motivated because you can do it even when the possibilities are not seen my many....

If I don't Give Up..

Then Whatever I decide to be.. I will be

Whatever I set my mind on having..I will have.

All I need it just Motivation since it can turn my disinterest into determination

The power of what I need has brought me precisely to where I am right now

I have made the choices even tho it's stressful

I have held the Thought even tho it's taking my happiness

I have chosen to be a Woman confidence of every step she takes in life

I have taken the actions to create my current reality

And I have the power with God by my side to change it into whatever I want it to be

With the choices I make.. I am constantly fulfilling the vision I have for my life

If that does not seem to be the case

Then I am deceiving myself about what I really want

Because what I truly want..I will get by pursuing it

What I truly wanted in the past, I already have but for the unseen tomorrow... I can't tell

I won't be disappointed in my results

They're just the outward manifestation of my priorities

I will be sure of what I truly want, because I am sure to get it

I Won't Even Think of Giving Up

Until the Very End

WHAT A NEW DAY ??

A strange thing so Unknown to me

Brought me back to Consciousness

And then I realized that I've been so far in darkness

Far away from my consciousness

My eyes were opened in a strange way with so much doubts in me

In doubt I saw most things that one wouldn't see

Things so far from my sight.. The invisible

Those I could see in my dim sight
The visible

I could feel the smiles on the face

The worn out smile she gave to stand up in the race

I had to win the race of getting up

And I started with letting go of the night

And then Standing up in my full might

Made me feel it's a reality

And also made me hoped for the best till eternity

I had to struggle for the new day

By preparing to face all falls

And never to give up

No matter what!!!!

My imaginary Memorial memories are my motivations in life

I'm Loyal...

Good Evening

No comment tho

Was just pushed to throw it out

Even in My Regrets

I Just Won't Let Go

I never thought that my life
would want to be over at such an early age

I never thought that
I would experience so much pains In life like this

And just a moment ago I saw my life
Flashed in my very own eyes

Everything was so perfect that
I forgot it doesn't just last long

I never thought I would
See the worst life has for me even if it's merely a seeing

I'm wounded in anger because I feel
I've misplaced my trust in life

Why didn't She tell me then
The things I'm realizing now

Why didn't She tell me
She wasn't perfect

I feel very depressed Because
I gave Her almost everything inside of me

And now that I've got just few things left
I don't know how to live

My dependence in her has finally
Made me a fool in my happiness then

The Pains in me keeps Growing stronger
Since I've refused to let her know she's done me wrong

I'm flashing back to some Memorial memories
She gave me

Happiness returns just in my imaginations

My imagination has become my motivation

I rather live in those imaginations which will motivate me than Give Up

Even though she has betrayed me

I wrote this poem because I was feeling a little down one day, and sometimes I just need to boost my confidence, so I wrote a poem about it, hoping it could help other people as well. I hope you like it, and I hope it gives you a bit of a confidence boost.

Just started writing to inspire people

Never knew I could until I saw the other side of life

Nowadays I write to boost my confidence and also write for others to get motivated

Even In My Greatest Fear

The Thought To Give Up Doesn't Seem To Be Near

I Was So Silenced To The Dumb

That I Could Only Hear.. Give Up!!! Give Up!!!

I Thought Of It As A Nightmare

Only To Realize That My Brain Doesn't Care

In A Lonely Part.. I Crawl In Fear

Wishing I Could See My Momma Draw Near

Oh!! Darkness Came So Dark

That I Couldn't See the enemy's attack

I asked.. What Is About To Happen??

Why Are All These Coming So Sudden??

And It Was Too High For Me That I Couldn't Jump

The Only Thing Left In My Cup

Was Give Up!! Give Up!!

Was This My Only Option??

Why All These Questions??

All These I Saw In My Greatest Fear

But The Thought To Give Up Was Not There