₦airaland Forum

Wcom to Nigeria, where a Woman's ability to adapt to poverty determines if she's a wife Material or not... Yes, the woman is supposed to be able to support no matter how small..

Buh most men now use this as an excuse for shying away from their responsibilities...

And remember if those men weren't doing well for themselves, m sure those women won't have given them a chance... No matter how much a lady earns, she needs her man to Spoil her, the take care of some of her needs, iit's not greed, it's natural, it just shows that u are responsible, man enough

M sure it's cux u haven't had sex for a long while now... Just look for a way to get rid of the excess ....

It's a two way street guy, don't make it look one sided What about guys who hide under the guise of relationship just to have fun with u... And after they get what they want, they zoom off. Ladies fall for this on a daily basis.

My thoughts are why not come out plain and bold... Why go through all that stress?
At first, they are all over u,
Makes u feel special, 8
Makes u feel u deserve better
U decide to commit, thinking u ve found the one
All of a sudden, they start giving u attitude, making u feel u ain't good enough.

Bros Jor... Just be calming down and pray u don't meet the wrong one

What the bloody hell don't u have a little self esteem for once kinda girl is that? These are the reasons guys don't take Ladies serious anymore. U guys haven't gone on a date yet, u are already asking for recharge. Smh

I know it ain't easy... I understand perfectly how u feel cuz I have been dere... Buh u have to move on. Find a distraction, anything at all, start learning a new skill, read a book, watch a movie, do house chores.. visit a Friend, something to keep ur mind off her, not going into another relationship to forget her... Cuz u ain't treating the other person fairly. Time they say, heals all wounds.

And before u know... U would have totally forgotten her, like she didn't even exist in the ist place.

It worked for me, might work for u too...
U deserve better, Don't let anyone make u think or feel less!

Tribalism & Religion are one of the major problems Nigeria is facing today, aside Bad governance. What happened to Character, Personality, Charm, and above all, Love. It shouldn't be about, the tribe or religion, it should be about the person... Does he/she makes u happy? Do u feel comfortable when u re around him/her?

To me... It's how u treat me that matters, I don't care about religion or tribe!