donikky:
Ladies,I want us to learn from this book..At first,when I read the book I blamed Maje buh after sitting for a while I concluded that Maje isn't the only one to be blamed... From what she wrote,she was a nagging girlfriend and wife always wanting to know her man's step,she didn't do things that'd make d guy love her(apart from the bleaching),all she cared about was d girl he was involved with...Though, its normal to feel bad when your guy cheats on yhu buh I think instead of flaring up at everything,she should try to study the guy and know what he really wants in ladies,From that book, Maje never loved Toke,He married her outta pity,Why won't Maje love Anita when he broke her virginity(the best gift) and she was always there for him to the extent of doing his project for him..abeg which guy no go like DAT kind lady.
Every guy wants a Lady that would understand him,there are some things you'll know buh you jez have to pretend you don't. Maje didn't love her,she saw DAT buh because she was blinded by love she still went on with the guy thinking he would come to love her. Ladies please be careful when choosing your life partner,marriage is a mistake that can cause a stigma in one's life forever,A school one never graduate from,choose wisely!

Someone I know gave her hubby her virginity, cooked and washed for him and he still stepped out on her a million and one times. Is still stepping out on her till present day. There is no excuse for cheating. And no matter what you do, a cheat will be a cheat. Let's stop blaming the victims here especially when they are women. Some men just want to eat their cake and have it. If he was so into virginity and project helping, he would have put a ring on Anita's finger and not Toke's. But he was just being selfish. Toke admitted her faults too. Maje wasn't a responsible husband and Anita shouldn'ta have come between a solemn Communion.