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Hello guys, I'm also facing the same problem. I'm travelling out to Nigeria next month and my Nigerian passport expires in July. whilst it's been confirmed that travelling out shouldn't be a problem.....how about travelling back to the UK? Is the 6 months validity rule on passport going to be a problem entering back? Thanks in advance.

my bf posted this pic on his insta and tagged me saying bae next to it. is he tryna call me shit or is he just being funny? dnt know how to react to this cos all his friends will see that post

'Our Song' by Ellie Goulding - My ex and I loved this song, was truly our song
'All Of Me' by John Legend - My bf and I love this song so much, it means a lot to us.

Ceasar1: As funny as it sounds, Do you plan on getting married someday?

yessssssssssss

runnazz: from ur topic i see u are a girl right ...so lets go str8 to it...

have u ever had a real bf?
sex with the opposite sex?
do u even feel any sexual attraction for the opposite sex?

just give a honest YES or NO to these 3 Q's first

YES, YES AND YES

TrollMan: I never knew Lie-bility truly had a Boyfriend.



TMan.

lol that chic can lie sha

hertz9te: if you ever feel you are the problem then you are

but i dont understand why. i have a bf and know not to mess with other pples men cz i know how i'd feel if someone was doing the same to me. i respect other peoples relationships, so im confused as to why they'd have a problem with me

Girls tend to hate me!!! I knew this a longtime ago and couldnt give 2fcks about it, but now i'm starting to get bothered. Almost all my friends are guys. Im cool with guys because they're easy to hang with, straightforward and they always have your back, but with girls they're just too much drama, too bitchy, carry so much negativity and hate on other girls for absolutely no reason. I do have a couple of female friends and thats just about it. Girls hating on me because their bf's are cool with me. One just broke up with her bf because he said i was his best friend, one had a massive fight with her bf because he said he wanted to attend my birthday party, one quarelled with her bf because we were chilling together, one called me recently saying him and his girlfriend argued because i gave him a shout out on his bday using his pic on my whatsapp dp and one of my "friends" who is his gf's cousin told her about it and since then she has hated my guts, and this other girl hates me cos the guy shes in love with likes me. all this drama around me because these guys are my friends and do not see them in any other way, like they need to calm the fck dwn, if i wanted their men i would have had them, but thats not me. i cnt hang with girls cz its too much drama, im hanging with guys and i still get this same drama from girls, so its got me thinking...am i the one with the problem or what? and please note... I DO NOT FLIRT with these guys

this liability chic seem to write diff stories everyday. and this particular one is absolutely BOGUS! makes no sense. tiny drop of sperm LMAO

mako007: I was gonna say what attracted the dude to the girl if they have so many differences then you said she has attitude and anger issues, to my best knowledge doe I stand to be corrected no guy likes hot tempered girl for a gf talkless wife. It's to her best interest she changes for the very good. I also think the manner in which the dude is trying to change her counts, changing a habit of many years cant end over night, he also has to be tolerant and let her understand reasons why she needs to change.

she told me that her ex warned her that if she doesnt change, she wnt find a man to marry, and also no man will tolerate 0.1% of the shiiit he tolerated from her.

Hello guys, matured answers only please...cheers
ok so theres this friend of mine who has been dating this guy for a while now. she constantly calls me to complain and cry on the phone because of her man. she claims they both like each other but the guy is trying to to make her change in ways to suit him. he constantly talks about how he wants to be treated and spoken to etc, even tho they like each other, their personality clashes a lot. they have a few things in common and have quite different views and opinions about certain things. now, my friend says that she tries all her best to do things to make this guy happy but it isnt enough, he has to complain about something. he wants her to be this perfect girlfriend image he has in his head and because of their different views about things, it doesnt happen that way, and the way she acts and behaves tends to piss him off. he tells her how he wants her to behave, speak, act etc and she is willing to make all these changes because she likes him so much, but what im worried about is...is he being selfish for trying to turn her into someone that she isnt, even if she changes, will she be able to maintain the changes, oh i forgot to say, he always threatens to break up if she doesnt change. yes shes not perfect, she makes few mistakes, she has attitude problems, anger problems, and is willing to change. i think he is trying to make her a better person but she feels theres too much pressure on her to become perfect that its starting to freak her out

defendedvictim: I think she means u v a big head...Lyk, ur head size equivalent to a truck

LOOOOL

this question is intruiging. i dnt see hw she has to lose her man because of that
Ladies in the house do you cum everytime you have sexx?
guys in the house...do you expect this at all times from the lady?

stormybucci: "baby did we just have sex or we were playing with each oda?? make me feel lyk have never felt b4" if u don't bleed after d sex den d guy is a f*ck up

u freak loool wtf??

solomonbrown64: ........Just tell him naa....or bera still, tell him wah to do.......
lol....overconfident.....and u dont know wah u r doing...#strange.....

he thinks he's da shiiit

Sunkyphil: YOU tell him straight nooni,u will put on a stern face;tell him dat u dnt enjoy sex with him

lol without hurting his feelings

how do you tell a guy who is over confident in bed that he's not that good and he doesnt even do it right?

Elkewwty: What is dilldo

DILLDO is a s*x toy!! Dick Replacement

Liability: he is the best thing that has ever happened to me. My bf is the most sincere and loving person i have ever seen.

Just on sunday, i was lured into bed by his best friend. He has been disturbing me, asking me of sex. I refused him each time he made this move.

I wanted to report him to my boyfriend, but i dont want to be the cause of their break up. I kept mute because they have been friends from childhood.

On sunday he called my linr that he had a message for him. That his sister was at his place and that she needed to know me.

That was how i was deceived, i entered his room only for him to come from behind, grab me and started doing funny things to me. I wanted to scream but was unable. He held my mouth and entered me before i could do anything.

My bf entered his house without knocking and entered the bedroom and saw us naaaked! Doing it.

I am in tears now. I was deceived. He doesnt pick my call, he doesnt want to see me anymore.

Please advice me. I love him with the whole of my heart. How do i get him back.

You caused this urself, during my previous relationship, my bf's friend wanted to try it with me, kept sending me messages and calling my phone, i was forced to report him to my bf at the end and he confronted him asking him why he wouldnt leave me alone, uttering the word... why you wan chop wetin i dey chop.. lol anyways, they talked about it and sorted thing out like grown ups and his friend apologized to me and that was it. their friendship did not break up. if you really love ur man u will not let things like i dnt wanna break up their friendship ruin ur relationship.

100Cents: Everybody has fantasies.

That's his personal fantasy...

Don't take him serious.

yh don nit take him serious, he must have seen many fair chics before dating you, im sure he wasn't blind when he approached you, so take your mind off it.

Rival: You seem nice!

Anyway, you didn’t answer my first question but I know that’s where you’re taking him to and he’s aware of it,
but he’s not certain if he’s ready to walk that path with you by his side!
It takes two to form a relationship and the both should be pulling in the same direction!

And, I presume, this relationship is more important to you than the previous ones you’ve had, partly because you were younger and could not feel much of the impact of 2,3,4,5 years passing by; you probably were not even ready then to be paired for life!

But, it’s all different now; you’re now a woman; you don’t want to spend another 2,3,4 years building a relationship only to watch it crash on the shores of reality and start all over again!

This is when apprehension and desperation set! You want to do everything to keep your partner, even if it’s at your own detriment!

You visit without invitation; you call every now and then without reciprocation; you make yourself available even when you’re not needed; you cook with your money without thank you; you always want to please without any effort made to please you in return; you make all the sacrifices without your partner reciprocating in a similar manner.

Sooner than later, you’re taken for granted; your desperation is noticed and he feels being trapped and he puts on a defense.
Like everybody has said, create some distance; stop displaying any signs of desperation; talk less when you see him or communicate with him; break appointments by informing him late that you won’t be able to make it.

Since you're very pretty, have confidence in your beauty and ability to attract and make yourself look attractive!
Wish you luck in your relationship!

thanks a lot. in regards to your first question, the answer is yes. it is exactly what he wants and made his intentions known when we started dating, no time to mess around, no time to waste, we want our relationship to end in marraige, he clearly said he was ready for marriage, dnt know what went wrong.

100Cents: How many times do you call him a day or visit him in a week ?
Are you a fine girl ?
Are you employed or schooling ? How busy is your schedule ?

LOL not to sound very cocky, but I am very pretty, and I am employed working as a software engineer. but i still make out time for him

tyson99: Do you guys see everyday

no we don't at most 2 or 3 times in a week.

Rival: The part in bold seems closer to the truth!

how though? I don't disturb him, i don't ask him for anything, i let him do his thing anyhow anyway, i don't complain, i don't nag, he has his breathing space. so i don't know what you mean by im overchoking him.

I started dating this guy a few months ago and we were both crazy about each other, we have done so much together this few months that if feels like we've been together for years, i have met his whole fam, hes met mine and yes we had something good going. he has changed all of a sudden, he gets angry over every little uneccessary things, i do all i can to make sure hes happy all the time but he doesnt notice it, i go out of my way and convinience to make sure hes happy but he does nt do the same, he doesnt show that he cares anymre in anyway. i cnt seem to think about what went wrong or where i went wrong, its very hard to deal with this because i have fallen in love with this guy, my heart is fully involved and don't know what ill do if i lose him. ive never been so scared of losing a guy like that before, i have been in long term relationships, 4 yrs, 5yrs, we break up, im hurt, i move on, but with this guy, its different, i am terrified of losing him. i cry my eyes out everyday because i cnt figure out what is going on with this relation, guys please what do i do? i try to get him to talk but he says hes fine. im scared that he has lost interest in me and wants to break up. im losing my mind and sanity.