WE HERE SOME PEOPLE SAY THEY ARE IN LOVE WITH TWO PEOPLE , BUT THE QUESTION IS CAN YOU LOVE TWO INDIVIDUALS AT THE THE SAME TIME ?

Girl it best you go on with ur life as they has been telling u, most likely before he went to visit he called his people and told them he needs to settle down and they should look for someone for him. He is one of them guys who are traditional and they believe in women from there country of origin. He is telling u these tales so he can have u until he sends for her and then he kicks u to the curve. I know girl its something about them niaja men , I met one online and fell stupid for him without seeing him. They know what we want to hear and they can make us feel alive like no other and i never even had my naija Prince on the white horse (lol). love hurts give it one last romance and pack it up, no future for u and him but u being his spare for the time being. Wish you the best!

Sista I have been thru the same of what u went thru and even worse i stayed in the relationship for 7 years and I can say this guy not only beat me down physically but emotionally also. People can give you advice but they don't know it until they have been there. All I can say Praise God you're out of it early before he did more damage. Girl I say take time find yourself, find out what is the common denominator in those guys and then build a relationship with your Creator. Pray about it and the hardest thing is forgive those who has offended you and move on. It's a cruel world out there we meet some good ones and we meet some bad ones. Soon as you discover who you are and what kind of man you deserve you will be able to differentiate the good ones from the bad ones. It take time there is a man out there for you but take time and heal; he will come to you in due time but all I say is find you first. You are a beautiful woman inside and out, don't let no man or woman take your worth from you or even break you down. God bless you sista!!!

What is the problem for one to choose are we not given that option ? I don't understand why people tend to get upset when a person wants something and they are labeled as being prejudice or biased. If I want to meet a Nigerian in person I believe I'm entitled to that. But what you don't understand is that I haven't met any Nigerians in person but would like to meet one. So whats the problem and I didn't ask to marry one just would like to get to know one. Where is the crime or better yet should I keep from meeting a Nigerian. I'm sorry to say it but it seems as if though you are against people meeting Nigerians.

IT'S NOT ABOUT BEING STEREOTYPED ITS ABOUT FINDING SOMEONE YOU MAY ENJOY THERE COMPANY OR THERE MANNERISM MORE THAN OTHERS. I DON'T THINK IT'S WRONG TO PREFER ONE FROM THE OTHER. WHAT SOME PPL DON'T REALIZE IS ALL PPL ARE NOT THE SAME AND WHEN U LIVE IN A COUNTRY SUCH AS THE U.S. PPLS MORALS CHANGE. OR SHOULD I SAY YOU DON'T WANT OTHER RACES TO COME AND EMBRACE YOUR FELLOW NIGERIANS. AND I'M NOT WHITE, I'M NOT SOMEONE LOOKING JUST TO BE LAID HERE. ITS NOT ALL ABOUT THE SIZE OF THE PACKAGE OR WHAT THAT PACKAGE CAN DO. AFTER THE SEX IS GONE WHAT WOULD YOU HAVE IN THAT RELATIONSHIP?

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I would like to know if there are any single African Nigerian men in Florida. I have been chatting with a Nigerian and I must say there is something sensual about him but I don't know if its all Nigerians. The Nigerian I have been chatting with is in Nigeria but the distance is becoming an issue. I just would like to see if I can chat with a Nigerian here and see where it goes.

please translate for me plz asap: len pien dhlau hirew dinesd lopy . i have no idea what it means and would appreciate what my love is trying to say. so plz help me out . i think i need to learn this language. but im waiting for a reply

MAY I GET SOMEONE TO TRANSLATE THIS PHRASE PLEASE : len pien dhlau hirew dinesd lopy. I HAVE A NIGERIAN ACQUAINTANCE SAYING SOME PHRASES TO ME I WILL GREATLY APPRECIATE IT. THANX

I HAVE BEEN CHATTING ON LINE WITH A NIGERIAN FOR OVER A YEAR NOW AND WE HAVE BEEN ON AND OFF. I'M CRAZY IN LOVE WITH HIM BUT SOMETIMES IT JUST SEEMS HE DON'T CARE BUT SOON AS I TELL HIM I HAVE MOVED ON HE TELLS ME HE LOVES ME AND I'M MAKING A MISTAKE AND I WILL REGRET IF I LEAVE HIM. THE THING IS I FEEL HE IS THE ONE HE IS EVERYTHING I LOOK FOR IN A MAN. EVERYTHING ABOUT HIM MAKES ME WILD; WE HAVE NEVER MET FACE TO FACE JUST CHATTING ON LINE. BUT HE WILL GO MANY DAYS I DON'T SEE HIM ON LINE OR HEAR FROM HIM, MAKES ME TO WONDER IF HE CARES.

THE BAD THING IS I HAVE BEEN CHATTING AND GETTING SERIOUS WITH A YOUNGER GHANAIAN BUT HE HAS THE TIME AND LOVE FOR ME I'M LOOKING FOR BUT I CANT TRULY LOVE HIM THE WAY HE NEEDS IT, I'M STUCK ON MY NIGERIAN. WHEN THE NIGERIAN COMES AROUND I FORGET EVERYTHING ABOUT THE GHANAIAN.

IS IT ALL A GAME OR JUST THE FACT OF LIVING TWO DIFFERENT WORLDS?

Thank you for the translationa as a matter fact he was but it is all good. Some men when you don't tell them what they want to hear or do what they want you to do, they feel if they call you names then they are man now. His opinion only , I know who I am and thats what matters the most.

you are awesome dominique

i got into a relationship with a nigerian whom i must say i loved to much. it started good the communication was pretty good at the beginning but it eventually got less and less till i felt i was being ignored and unwanted. also i had other friends who was telling me maybe he had other relationships where he was so that added more fuel to the fire but eventually the relationship fell apart. we still chat but as they say it has to be two people who is dedicated to make it work. i wish it would work but he does understand when you are in a long distant relationship communication is a necessity. i think his male pride will not allow him to ask me to help with the financial part.

I WAS SPEAKING TO AN ACQUAINTANCE AND HE MADE A COMMENT AND I NEED HELP WITH THE PHRASE "ESU LOMO". PLEASE HELP ME TO UNDERSTAND THE MEANING. WOULD GREATLY APPRECIATE IT THANKS IN ADVANCE