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chris51:
Stop the relationship. This is a red flag. The church will be controlling your marriage if you make the mistake of marrying this lady.

Toolegit123:
Good day everyone.

So recently I've been thinking about marriage. Tho I'm in a relationship but the woman I've been dating doesn't really seem to have the same serious interest and intentions like me. I've talked to her severally but it seems she isn't ready to settle down yet. Imagine this is someone whom I've gone to see her people and they know me well. My own people know her too. I've equally talked to her mom since she's the one parent she has . And had also talked to her best friend about it too.

But one thing I've noticed about her is that she's over religious and seems to be too close to her pastor. The last time I talked to her about the marriage stuff,she directed me to go and talk to her pastor. Tho I was initially furious about it but I just had to man up,kill my pride and decided to pay her pastor a visit.

From the conversation I had with her pastor,it seems he's one of the major stumbling blocks. Because he was only curious about my financial status he was even asking me what was my source of livelihood,and of which I told him. Afterwards,he then asked me what was my monthly salary. Saying if I'm sure I can take care of my fiancee with that amount,or if I'm planning to have a side hustle. That he doesn't want a case where any of her spiritual daughter will go into a marriage where she'll be suffering. I told her categorically clear that I'm not a lazy man and I don't intend to put anyone's daughter into suffering in the name of marriage.

It's been over a week since I left the pastor's office, and since then,my fiancee has been behaving so cold towards me.

So I don't know whether to continue with my proposal or I should just kindly look for another lady to marry.

chris51:
Jehovah witnesses want their blood to be saved and use for them in case of emergency. They are not serious. If saved blood can't be used for someone else who needs the blood, it's useless. Do you know how many of their members that lost their lives because of this nonsense belief?

chris51:
Serious inductrination. What sort of belief is that? If the father dies in Medina he will go to paradise. What of himself that wants to kill the father, is that not murder? Is there no punishment for murder in the Koran?
The police men should have dealt with him with koboko first before arresting him

chris51:
Why does she not want the terrorists killed. What of the innocent people they have been killing? They have no mercy on the people they killed and why should the army show them mercy?

chris51:
Her mother is Ishekiri and her father, Yoruba.

sirpharrell:
She's from Itsekiri. It seems a lot of people mistake her to be Yoruba

chris51:
I believe DNA test should be mandatory. These days women have multiple sex partners and hang paternity on the richest man

anytexy:
I think it is the other way round. How can a reasonable man do DNA for his kids. Any child born by a legally married wife/woman belongs to the husband. The man is looking for trouble and emotional trauma.

chris51:
I think it's called pepper fruit. It actually peppry.

chris51:
Do you live in the US to know exactly what goes?
By any standard Obama is the best American President in modern history

SpaceX:
Obama is the sickest and most disgusting human being, he destroyed America, the hate for Trump is a fuel to propelled him to accomplish more for America. The world is blessed to have Trump.

chris51:
Grammy nomination of Davido is an achievement. Not winning the Grammy should not discourage him. Four, five or more people are nominated in each category and only can win.

Well done Davido. You did well

chris51:
Is this the topic for discussion?

muyico:
Less concern
I'm not member!
But my question to you
Why moulding statu of Jesus Christ and Mary ?? Still worship it like idol worshipper doing?? Where in d Bible can you quote it for me?? Why begging Mary to help you beg Jesus Christ to forgive you?? Alot atrocities baffling in that church

chris51:
That's not true. I drive on concrete roads in the US and they are good. The main point is to use correct mixture, either in the use of asphalt and concrete.
My conclusion is that concrete roads are better

tuoyoojo:
If you have driven on concrete road, you would know that is it very uncomfortable

The uneven Road makes driving so unenjoyable

Asphalt on the other hand is prone to wear and tear faster but makes driving pleasurable

chris51:
Concretes are used in Texas where I live and they are solid. I think the use of roads helps to reinforce the roads. Asphalt is used in the UK and they are also solid because of reinforcement. In Nigeria, contractors solid foundation before asphalts are used

RichBoy247:
Highways are made with tar in U.K. and US, I won’t say about other countries before I didn’t take note when I went, but I am sure of U.K. and US

chris51:
He is not a US citizen just honorary citizen certificate by State of Georgia ,, it has no benefit. What sort of exchange of prisoners are you talking about?

Watcharena:
as a US citizen they can negotiate his release through prisoners exchange may be Nigeria will release him for hush puppy to be released or any other Nigerian serving US prison term

streetsoldier1:
Of what nationsl importance is hushpuppy

chris51:
Honorary citizenship can not be used for anything official in the USA. It is an honor not anything else.