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plsdisvirginme:
There is this student girl I met through Michat.
We started dating.
I believe in establishing people in life.

I discovered this girl is from a poor and idle background.
They are 7.
The first three daughters all married and they didn't goto school or learn work.
Their parents nothing to write home about.
She is the only that struggle to enter university through her POS business.

Her POS folded and she was left with nothing.
Last year I went for a program, I decided to setup a charging and POS. I entrusted the business in her hand to be balancing me weekly and also to support herself through it.

It was one excuse to another. This busines collapsed under 7 months.
Business I used close to 1.5m to open.
I swallowed the loss and moved on.

I discovered she can sew then I encourage her to open shop. I supported her with everything and she started her fashion shop.
I even rented a good apartment for her.
I discovered this girl is really extravagant with money. She can't save.

Last year Dec I gave her 500k with agreement she will be giving me weekly return.
Uptill now 1 naira I never see.
I discovered she and her sisters open whats app family daily contribution.
I was shocked. .
I asked what for.
She said they want to open business for their parents .

Meanwhile this girl has 2 years plus to finish school.
You are contributing to open business for your parents that have not supported you in school from day 1.

I warned her but this fell on her deaf ears.
Now this morning she chatted me that she got her sewing contracts that i should loan her 30k..
This is the girl I invested just 500k in her business this dec on agreement to be giving me weekly return and she never give me 1kobo from it.
Now you are chatting me for 30k loan. ..

And this is the girl I intend to marry.
I have just zero my mind off her to look for better person.

Guys it is a very big error to invest in a student from poor family.

I just learnt my lesson.

omoredia:
It was an accident it can happen to anybody. They should leave him

chris51:
You added her name through your HR, go back to your HR and remove her name. Don't be deceived, you can remove her name.
Does it mean that when you legally marry in future, you won't be able to add your wife's name?

chris51:
Lie from the pit of hell. Natasha that just gave birth to a baby, how come a video of a fight with her and tuface is appearing on internet?

odejimioflagos:
The UK should be ashamed of itself for not deporting a former senator that was convicted for organ trafficking.

Is that not modern slavery? Why are they so hellbent on keeping that guy in the UK?

chris51:
How can you arrive the US today and assume you have malaria. Go to a primary health provider who will refer you to a Lab for test.
The test result will determine the your treatment.

The US is not like Nigeria where malaria is assumed when one is ill.

Remember that long distance travelling takes a toll on people. Over the counter medicine for flu may take care of you.

chris51:
How long did he stay abroad to be speaking like that. He is exaggerating it.
I bet he will lose the next election

chris51:
Virgin ko, Virgin ni. If she really was a virgin when he married her, how did she commit abortion before marriage? Regina and Ned should stop disturbing us with their personal matters.

david22uu:
Wait o ... I thought he said she was a virgin according to his right

chris51:
This military officer did not intimidate Wike. He was calm and polite.
Wike should have handled the matter officially. He had no business going to the site. He is used to bullying people but the officer defeated him with his calm approach

MarkNsukkaBread:
Na wetin for happen if to say na soldier

You people like giving these military guys power to oppress you in this country

chris51:
Wike used very inappropriate words against the young officer. How could he have told the officer that he is a fool. As a Minister Wike is expected to have more decorum.

FreeStuffsNG:
https://punchng.com/naval-officer-in-face-off-with-wike-breached-the-law-san/

chris51:
Ned Nwoko should teach his people how to fish and stop giving them fish.
There are people who are happy to be the a one eyed man among blind people.

hatchy:
Oga go and sit down. You all are leaching on him because he is rich. If he was to be a poor man would you say all this rubbish.

Ned is not living for anybody. Go and make your own money and stop depending on another man's sweat

chris51:
These days that girls sleep with multiple men at same time, DNA is strongly recommended.
Some girls are not even sure of who the father of their unborn babies are.
It's unfortunate

MistyDense:
I know a lot of you will call me all sorts of unprintable names and would want to nameshame me.

My Elder brother died about nine months ago and his wife is about to Remarry.

They had been married for ten whole years, but unable to bear a child for 7years, until God blessed them with a beautiful and lovely baby Girl. We all celebrated and were joyous. A few weeks after childbirth, my brother became sick. What initially looked like an ulcer became something else, and he had to go under the knife. After the surgery, there were some Terrible complications, which resulted in his eventual demise. Most painful part was, he had just landed his dream job after five years of graduation. He was extremely depressed as a result of this joblessness until luck smiled at him. He was traveling round the world like he was going to his backyard. He was breezing in and out of Nigeria for official duties until the sickness struck.
Now it's been nine months, and she already made her intentions known to my family that she wants to Remarry. Meanwhile, the baby is just two and half years old.

As a woman, I understand how lonely and traumatized she is. I perfectly understand what she's going through but myself and my family feel it's too too early for this. We, her late husband's family didn't and have never interfered in her dealings. All my brother's properties are in her custody, the Businesses they co-owned are all in her care.

I thought she would have waited a bit much longer to do this, considering how much she seemingly loved her late husband. Meanwhile she's 38yrs old. Her parents have told her to wait for some time, but she wouldn't listen. But before making her intentions known to my family, we already suspected that she was seeing someone else, going by the way she was acting.

I'm now the next in command in my family after my elder Brother's death, but I'm also a woman and have limited powers. Even if I had all the powers, I still wouldn't be Able to stop her from doing what she wants. After All, she's older than me.

I'm really pissed now as she will be taking my niece to live with another man. She's marrying a man who already has two wives, making her the third.

What should I do?

chris51:
Our politicians are the highest paid in the world. When it comes to management, only citizens are expected to manage. God dey

AdolfHitlerxXx:
What's the GDP of each country ?

The other day, a bicycle for Olympics cost 10k USD or was it 40k . Is that what Nigeria can easily afford to use for training like other developed countries?

If Nigeria wan do am sef, the kit should be Ankara or Guinea brocade.

chris51:
You can represent your country Nigeria if it is that's easy. These athletes put all their energy into preparation and representing us but they are not appropriated

madridguy:
She is not serious for calling out our beloved country online. No one is holding her, she should switch to another country.

Mtchew

chris51:
Twenty years of abandoning the wife. What stopped the man from sending for his wife to join him abroad as other men do?
He is lucky that there was an incompleted building for him to see.

Did he think of how the wife coped mentally, physically and financially. It could not have been easy in an environment like ours.
The man should work out things and appreciate his wife. He should overlook her shortcomings.
Good luck

chris51:
Jonathan and Patience joined Wike to deal with Rotimi Amaechi. As a governor Amaechi was shabbily treated, that prompted his leaving the PDP. You can't blame him