Xso666: Hello nairalanders, I am new to this forum and I was introduced by a friend of mine to this forum to seek advice on how to go about my marital issue.
Here is the problem, I married my wife a virgin and as at that time she was almost done with schooling as I met her when I went to stay with a friend around her school area. So we connected and then I told her I had interest in her and I would like for us to be in a relationship so she agreed and we started dating.
Fast forward to 2024 she was done with school so I went to pay her bride price and then brought her over to Lagos where I stay and then we started living together as husband and wife.
Everything has been moving fine after I disvirgined my wife and I felt like I was the luckiest man on earth and I feel like I already made it in life because I believe as a man if you get a good wife then you have solved 80% of your problem the remaining 20% will be making money to sustain the family.
So of lately I notice my virgin wife became so addicted to sex that she barely can’t go a day without sex and I am ready to give it to her any day any time.
So I traveled for work sometimes around feb 2025 and I stayed 2 weeks over there so when I came back I decided to take a stroll with my wife to get something down the street so I noticed as I was getting something she greeted a guy that sells female stuffs in my street so immediately I turned to talk to her she quickly discharged the guy and then they both acted like they were not talking together well I was unbothered because I mean the guy is just a trader doing his business and maybe she bought something from him and so I suspected nothing. Not until I noticed my wife likes going out to get things and she would spend time outside and this is something she doesn’t like doing before so I thought she is getting used to the Lagos life and so she is enjoying herself now and comfortable now in Lagos. I never had any insecurities whatsoever because I don’t believe she could have anything to do with any man since I married her a virgin although I know she has high sexual drive but I still think she can’t do no such thing.
Fast forward to sometimes around June I traveled again but this time somewhere close to where I live so I told her I would be spending a week or more and so I left to work getting there we lodged and waiting for update as regards to why we are here so on the 3rd day the contractor called and said we should all go and come back that the job has been rescheduled till the next month so I decided to go back home that same day since it was not far from where I stay so I tried reaching out to my wife’s number but she wasn’t reachable so I thought her phone was off, so I boarded a bus home to relax and break the news to her only to find my house locked and my wife wasn’t home and her phone was not going through so I managed to open the door using my spare key and then went inside and took my shower then I went to the kitchen but there was no food to eat so I decided to prepare something for us to eat in the house. I tried reaching my wife again and still not reachable and it was getting late already so I was worried and was curious to know what happened to her because she’s not so conversant with areas in Lagos. So I decided to pray and take some wine while I wait to think of my next action.
Suddenly she messaged me and told me she has not been able to charge her phone and there have not been light in the house, so I asked her where she was and she told me she was in the house and then I told her to come on video call I want to show her something I got for her but she told me the ba3 will die that she managed to use this to call me so I know she’s fine well I told her there was no problem and she should do her to make sure the battery don’t die so we can communicate tonight. So I went outside the compound only for me to find my wife coming back that night with this guy that sells female stuffs down the street and she was so shocked to see me at home she shouted immediately saw me and the guy just disappeared from no where.
Till now I don’t just know what to do because I married this woman a virgin but she has turned something else and I don’t know if to tell her parents or handle this like a man within us here although she told me she didn’t do anything with him that he tried to have her but she didn’t but how do I believe that please guys help me move this to front page so I get more suggestions as I am really confused.
That's a fake virginity. I tell, it takes time for a virgin wife to get used to sex not to talk of Extra marital one.
Frenchkiss564: Probably would have been saved, if he wasn't into crime.
Smh
Exactly. He can't be committing crime and expect to remain in the US. Sorry for him. His father was also not responsible. He should have filed for him when he was born
chris51: Do not ever travel with palm oil. It is not allowed. You can go with egusi, ogbono, crayfish, pepper. Put them in transparent waterproof or ziplock. Label them Vegetables are allowed but dry them. Fresh vegetables of a lady I met were trashed. I felt very sorry for her. I had dry scent leaf and other things. I dried my snail very well in the oven. Nothing was taken from me.
Do not ever travel with palm oil. It is not allowed. You can go with egusi, ogbono, crayfish, pepper. Put them in transparent waterproof or ziplock. Label them Vegetables are allowed but dry them. Fresh vegetables of a lady I met were trashed. I felt very sorry for her. I had dry scent leaf and other things. I dried my snail very well in the oven. Nothing was taken from me.
I support President Donald Trump in this. The so called transgender people were cheating biological females They should have their own separately and compete among themselves
ediko5: This man said a lady called him a fool and a gay after he spent money on the lady without demanding for kna-ck and he asked his friend if he's actually foolish for doing that.
So is he really a fool?
@BigDicksoon wrote:
You are indeed a fool. Not because you didn't ask for s3x but because you spent so much on a girl you took out for the first time
1. He quits politics entirely and focuses his energies only on running his many businesses
2. He quits the Republican Party, but remains in politics and decides to create a 3rd party or support an independent candidate (something he has spoken of doing before and something which another Billionaire called Ross Perot tried in 1992 and it cost Republicans the Presidency which they lost to Bill Clinton)
3. He plays the long game and reconciles with Trump in anticipation of throwing his weight behind his own preferred Republican candidate in the 2028 U.S Presidential Elections.
I personally think he'll go for option 3, but nothing is guaranteed at the moment.
For one thing, he can never become a Democrat because they have spent the past decade demonising him as a Nazi, calling him a white supremacist and destroying Tesla car dealerships all over the United States.
Musk himself is forbidden from running for the Presidency of the United States because he is a first generation immigrant.
Under the American Constitution, a first-generation immigrant cannot run for the office of U.S. President.
The U.S. Constitution (Article II, Section 1) requires that the president be a "natural born Citizen" of the United States. This means the person must have been born a U.S. citizen, typically by being born on U.S. soil or to U.S. citizen parents abroad. First-generation immigrants, who are born outside the U.S. to non-citizen parents and later become citizens, do not meet this requirement.
You have to be born in the US before you can run for the presidency
A heartwarming moment unfolds as a woman surprises her husband with the news of her pregnancy after seven long years of trying. His raw, emotional reaction has touched the hearts of viewers around the world — a beautiful reminder of hope, love, and patience.
Why didn't she allow the man finish food. Congratulations to them
The most important thing at old age is good health. Plenty of money without good is useless. Some don't recognize their children or aware of their surroundings. Good health, loving family and small money are all you need to enjoy old age.
Samantha125: When you're from a disadvantaged background, of course you'll see money as everything... But once you have it, you'll then realise that it's nothing, it can never buy you happiness.
You don't know what's happening to that person behind closed doors.
You are wrong. Pray to have good health. There are people with so much money at old age, with dementia and bad health. They don't even remember their children.