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pls send to missindependence44@yahoo.com

Have u ever had a girl sleep over without getting intimate?

Go meet this guy and soon!
Sometimes I have observed women taking
what they think is a small risk, like
connecting online with someone who doesn't
have their phone number, address, etc. - in
hopes of a very large gain, i.e. meeting the
soul mate.
In reality, it's often just the opposite. It's a
big risk - falling for someone you've never
even met - with a very unlikely payoff when
everything is said and done.
Honestly, what you're feeling now is the shift
between the assumption of a small risk to
the understanding of how great this risk
really is. But being true to yourself, you've
now put your biggest chip - your own heart -
on the table. Knowing that, you don't want
to fold, you should play out your hand.
But before you do, work through that honest
assessment you've been making - the lack of
a physical attraction could kill what has
been kindled behind the scenes.
Truly, one of the serious pitfalls of online
dating is how a woman invests her heart in
the process. She often sets herself up for
disappointment whether the guy turns out to
be Mr. Right, but doesn't like her nearly as
much, or just an average Joe - in which case
she has invested a lot into something she
really didn't want.
Meet that guy as early on as you can,
transparency is quite important in making
romance work! Either way, then you'll know.
And if it does work, you'll be asking yourself,
why did we wait so long to meet?

God help us all. 10k is the highest l ve been offered as a graduate in the East with my 2:1. Diarisgod oooo

;DDon't worry bro. she go come back beg u by d time l bombard her wit loads of messages

airroseice: While the idea of "great achievement" is subjective may vary across cultures, I am of the opinion that it boils down to personal views on what is an achievement. For instance, an uneducated and or poor parent in Subsaharan Africa that struggled to send their child to attain a tertiary education might consider it a great achievement while it is normal for folks in the EU. This also applies to marriage. It is tough, especially in a society like Nigeria where peer pressure and social norms prevent people from being themselves and do what they really like.

To answer your question, marriage is the greatest achievement for some women but definitely not "a woman's greatest achievement"; that anomaly cannot apply. Personally I consider "leaving a footprint in this world (offspring)" to be a great (if not the greatest) achievement for us, however some people may disagree because they don't see the big deal about kids.

I hope this gives you a view on my thoughts.

Cheers.

That's a nice one!

Same news in my family this morning. Dad is shouting and ordering everyone to go take a bath with a salty hot water and without bathing soap. Nawa oooooo

please help me! missindependence44@yahoo.com

l feel there is no need for white wedding after traditional and vice versa.

[quote author=Efemena_xy]His wife lacked home training. He sent her back home to acquire that home training after bearing it for 2 years. So what's wrong with that??

The only thing I'll fault him with is this: didn't he look before leaping into marriage? Didn't he date her? Or was it an arrangee marriage? If it was, then the inlaws should take a huge portion of blame. If it wasn't then the man should take some of that blame too.[/quote]you don't really know someone until you 've lived with that person.

lonelydora: I once had a girlfriend with brown/yellow teeth. Kissing her was a problem then. I wish she can see this thread.

methinks u re d victim n nt ur gf.

No chit viewing this thread but guys. I thought guys had it all figured out.

Am surprised the suspects' faces weren't covered with ink marks as usual.

What wud be d fate of PHCN Pensioneers?

What wud be d fate of PHCN Pensioneers?

Michael! May ur gentle soul rest in perfect peace

yuzedo: My story is many..

God wil punish ALL girl worldwild (esept my future wive) amem!

Oncle, pliz tel us ur storey. Tenk

Aifey: Scam every where in this country. Just a way of takin back a fraction of d alawi.

Imagine!

Am a batch A corp member currently serving in a school in Warri South L.g in Delta state. A seminar was held today by the head of SAED at the secretariat. He addressed the issue of unemployment and the inevitable need for skill acquisition in our sick economy. SAED (Skill Acquisition & Entreneurship Development) is a programme which has already been introduced to us in camp. Now, it has been made compulsory for all corpers to pay #5000 and engage in one of the skill acquisition programme; art and design, computer training, bead making, food processing, make-up, agronomy etc, without which you can't be given your discharge certificate. Mind you, their so-called training is just the theoritical aspect. Those who want to learn the real deal, that is, the pratical aspect would have to pay the stipulated amount (different from the #5000) to get the desired knowlege. I see this as a disguised means of extortion. Fellow corpers, is this compulsory in your state?

yuzedo: My favorite...

I just hope u re nt planning 2 use it on rita dummnick

Hmmm. If I say genny, am wrong. If I say tonto, there re 2 tins involved: is either haters will continue criticizing or admirers will continue praising....

Ok

nerodenero: Another black sheep tarnishing our already damaged reputation abroad.

'Our already damaged reputation'. I know his crime added little or nothing to our country's image.

Confessions!

daddington: Hello Chrisjane, i am from Isuikwuato. I am presently in Ibarapa North Local Govt, Oyo state. Pls where are you now? Amandu Samson Odoemenam Nkemakonam Daddington 08034372988, 07088405510

Am in warri nw

Password77: hehehehehe, ANTI-CORRUPTION na CDS for Delta. . . Blood Of Cow!!!

E be like say we go start ANTI-BOKO HARAM as CDS up north.

Corruption is a universal phenomenon. U cn start d Anti-boko haram Cds cos u go hammer! Gudluk

1.Why promise a girl marriage when u 've no intention of fulfilling it?
2.What is the benefit of leading her on? Sex?
3.Do you know that women's biological clock ticks faster than men's?
4.Do you know how many potential suitors she must 've forgone for her so-called man?
5.Do you know the sacrifices she has made in the r/ship?
If only we can get the answers to the above question....*SMH* if only....

engrjoe: .
No CDs group 4 me yet. shall let u knw whn placed in any

Alright

That must b Mrs Claire. Am in Anti-corruption. U?

engrjoe: Thanx bro. Mine is kinda diff because oda states hav paid July B4 I redeployed bt my state's own delayed on 1st of August our ZI said smthn like they were expectn it any moment. Dis ws b4 I redeployed... Now which accountant do I lay my complain to? DELT or BENUE. Going bak 2 Benue because of dis makes me feel smhw cos no assurance of it being paid...more suggestions plssss

meet d ZI in warri south secretariat and Mrs Claire at d same place. They wud definitely help.

engrjoe: Lolx u won't believe they almost threw me 2 illah (villa after asaba)..... I told d man 2 change it. Den I begged him, he later gave me where I asked..warri (Fed Govt College) just because am a batch A corper. Re u serving @ d sch (FGC)?

No. Am in Nana college

Good people of nairaland, God bless u all. Mrs Folake, ure healed IJN....cn I hiia y'all shout a thunderous Amen?