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duduade:
Omoooor beds don dey empty omoooor

Kola and Dede on their bed... Murmuring
Dede: I genuinely feel like you're two-faced. And I feel like I don't like who you are when I'm not there. And it makes me not take anything serious. Anything that has to do with us. There is no level of anything

And then whenever I'm not there, I don't think of anything. So it makes everything very shallow and sh!t

Kola: what led to you thinking i am two faced?

Dede: because I was just lying down here and come things began to clock in my head. I'm like this nigga has fuse. Like I was lying down here with Mide and I wasn't speaking at the time and then some things started hitting

Kola: what things started hitting?

Dede: I can't remember they were just thoughts

Kola: thoughts about

Dede: just events, conversations, words

Kola: what

Dede: first of all, don't talk to me like that

Kola: I'm trying to get clarity, that's all. I'm not upset

Dede: oh I don't know if you're upset, I wonder why you're

Kola: why do you think I'm two-faced

Dede: Cause I don't know who you're

Lol! She needs assurance from Kola. Whatever Kola is doing with her ends inside Biggie's house!

Why beating her? If you have an evidence of infidelity against her,simply send the werey out of your house.

A fi bi Apere efo gbure — shapeless!

Tifay:
You read to counter and not to understand. When did I claim Dede was a big deal. I have repeatedly called her fake and pretentious. So how's that defending her. She only has Kola to thank for giving her ammunition by allowing her dictate how to act post their intimacy.

How's she not in control of what they are doing. Can he even switch it up for her?, Can you compare him to say a JJ ( with Sultana) or even a Koyin ( with Isabella). Is it a lie that Dede still has more power between them. Is it not whatever she offers he takes, What's your point exactly?

Kola is only a gamer now because the cameraman did him a solid. The babe even pushed him off her bed earlier before their kiss later on. Imagine all the noise and cr33p stories we would have heard if the camera didnt later show the kiss.

You sayin Kola is exposing her as a hypocrite na lie. Thats in your imagination to sell Kola for more than what he is despite no proof. How's he exposing her when he wouldnt even discuss it with Bright - despite being known as a gossip girl. Isnt that just doing what Dede wants from him

You comparing how Kola has acted to Koyin with Dede clearly shows your bias. Only one of both has clocked her for the emotional manipulator she is and returned the same energy. Only one has been so stoic, that the girl is the one doing the chasing unlike the other one who has been labelled a simp all season until last night[b]. Guy rest, dont come and twist what we have watched all season.

Rest? That's the exact advice I gave you earlier, because I knew Dede would stress you out — and that you'd end up in this state, laboring in vain to defend what isn't true, and very obviously making a spirited effort to twist facts.

Dede is nothing but a smart crook — a hypocrite who criticizes others for the very things she does under the duvet. My point is simple: Dede is not who you desperately want us to believe she is. Kola is only focused on exposing her hypocrisy. He doesn’t rate her — so don’t make it seem like he’s desperate to marry Dede outside the house.

He has already told her that they’re unlikely to meet again outside of Biggie’s house, and that’s because he would never go after her.

If anyone needs to rest here, it’s you.

Friendly25:
Please are you trying to turn BBnaija bants into TRIBALISM ?😯

No, that was never my intention. If I had chosen to go that route, some of these pretentious tribal keyboard warlords here wouldn’t be able to handle me — if only Seun’s bots would allow a free hand to do justice to it. I won’t respond to any further questions or posers on that — it's needless.

It's Michael Jackson — no one comes any close to him!

Tifay:
I'm not sure I get your point. I also think one of the paragraphs is to me. Let me paint the reality for you as it is before you get carried away.

1. It has been established that they do things under the duvet.

2. Dede then acts like nothing happened which unfortunately Kola has to play along. - This shows he's still bowing to her whims and she's very much in control of whatever it is they have going on. If she decides to go public with him today, he'll happily jump at it. Basically Kola is just taking whatever she offers. Lets also not forget that he really really worked for this and made all of the efforts, which is why I think she doesnt really like Kola like that, so no he's not the prize to her. He's just nice enough to accept whatever she offers

3. Third and the most brutal of them is that Dede keeps whacking him in public despite their intimacy. Any self respecting man shouldnt be accepting that if you guys are already doing things. This is the one area i'm actually giving kudos to Kola. Maybe he's just nice enough to keep taking the hit while she acts for the public. Most guys wouldnt take the disrespect. He's actually sacrificing his self respect for her

This is actually the only reason why I would say Dede fooled me. I catch on to things quick and if you remember I already mentioned that something similar happened with Koyin and the next minute she started acting and telling him she missed her bf bla bla bla and hugs and Koyin returned the same energy. If Kola had done same, maybe we/I would have known. Now that I think about it, that night he was screaming at her by the swing that she was being mean to him did seem like an overreaction, maybe that was the context I was missing

4. We all know Kola was never interested in pursuing things outside. That part is clear. We also know he doesnt really like her like that. He just needed his aesthetic ship for his strategy. The problem to us however was that he came off as a simp and being too desperate for it. He also has the camera crew to thank for redeeming him otherwise, she'll keep faking it and he'll be the one to suffer the whole consequence - like being in the simp hall of fame.

My points are never clumsy — they were clear enough. Perhaps you've simply chosen not to engage with them. Dede is not who she — or you, her defenders — desperately wants us to believe she is. And honestly, that’s not even hard for any discerning mind to figure out. Even your weak attempt to defend her here is riddled with contradictions.

Now, check these out:
(1) "She's very much in control of whatever it is they have going on."
(2) "We all know Kola was never interested in pursuing anything outside. That part is clear. We also know he doesn't really like her like that."

If you say Dede is in control of whatever it is they have going on, and it's equally obvious to viewers that Kola doesn't really like her like that, then do we really need a soothsayer to tell us that Kola is the actual gamer here — and that Dede isn’t remotely close to him in the game?

See, it's really simple to pinpoint where we disagree: you believe Dede is the real deal, and I simply don’t see her that way. Like it or not, Koyin is not the one for Dede — Kola is! Dede might be young, but she's a sharp, highly skilled manipulator. Kola doesn’t care about the camera crew or appearances; what he clearly cares about is exposing Dede as a hypocrite — someone shady and adept at concealing her true emotions. Dede is no better than Sultana or Isabella.

Kola won’t act like Koyin because, unlike Koyin, he has a mission — to expose Dede and her double standards. It's all part of the game!

If you're convinced Kola has no interest in Dede outside the house and, at the same time, you believe Dede is in control of “whatever it is they have going on,” then I honestly don't know what to tell you.

P.S. Why does it always seem like you're so quick to tear down Kola and Mide, while painting Bright and Dede as the best thing since sliced bread?

It’s honestly hilarious how some of Dede’s die-hard fans are still desperately trying to paint her as this hard-to-get, smart, decent, “pond-owner” kind of girl. Adorable, really. Meanwhile, those of us with functioning eyes and common sense have always known she’s nothing more than a fake, hypocritical wannabe. And guess what? Some of us didn’t even need a camera to figure her out — her game has been loud from day one.

Some of us don’t even need a camera to decode her game. She has always been doing — albeit discreetly — what she criticizes other housemates, like Sultana and Isabella, for!

I’ve said it here before: I would be surprised if Kola were genuinely in love with Dede. That’s because I knew Kola only wanted to make a point — to expose Dede’s hypocrisy. She has always wanted Kola; he knows it for a fact, and he knows she’s been hiding it from both the viewers and her fellow housemates. I remember also saying that Kola is Dede’s main prize in that house, regardless of her antics and how she cleverly used Koyin and JJ to boost her value in Kola’s eyes.

And oh, I still crack up thinking about that one fan who tried to argue that Kola meant nothing to Dede because her “boyfriend” outside the house is supposedly this rich, powerful man who sent her on a 3-month vacation to South Africa. Bless their delusion — what a solid, airtight defense!

I even warned one of her most loyal keyboard warriors on this platform: Yes, creating your own happiness is lovely, but reality checks are important too. If you’re still out here convincing yourself that Dede is some flawless queen, brace yourself — another round of heartbreak is loading. And now that the rooster has finally come home to roost (big shoutout to the camera for catching Dede’s yansh in 4K), I can’t wait to hear what excuse they come up with next. Dede must be exhausting to defend — just like I predicted!

And just so we’re clear: Dede will try to chase Kola outside the house. But he? Oh, he’s going to block her so fast, her head will spin. Believe it or don’t — Dede is simply not in the league of women Kola actually vibes with. Outside the house, Kola won’t even look her way. One of her stans should go ahead and screenshot this for future reference. You’ll need it.

Someone from a tribe with no enviable history quickly removed History from our curriculum, yet her people are the same ones spreading falsehoods—claiming what their forebears never were and attempting to establish a kingdom wherever they find themselves today. Our history must be learned; everyone must be placed where they truly belong.
You can't be a descendant of primitive forest dwellers and now parade yourself as if you own land beyond the very forest your ancestors lived in.

I am a proud Yoruba.
My great-grandfathers conquered land from the shores of Nigeria to beyond its borders—Benin Republic, Togo, Ghana, etc.
It is important that my history and heritage are showcased for the whole world to see.
I am proud of my Yoruba heritage and history.

Hazardfan1:
So, this Kola no sabi speak Yoruba....

Kola is a diasporic Yoruba.

[quote author=Allnacruise post=136830768][/quote]This Imisi girl is highly underrated by both the viewers and her fellow housemates. I must say that I'm impressed with her responses here. They may appear ordinary, but her responses are highly intelligent.

Love800:
Yea. I remembered vividly. Teddy-A was like the landlord of the house before that evict. Infact nobody expected teddy to be evicted. It was so shocking.

I appreciate.

Teddy-A, the true definition of an alpha male — a highly territorial, no-nonsense, cute man.

Halleluyah! So shall it be permanently in the name of Jesus Christ.

God bless Israel!
God bless Netanyahu!

Kola must be playing some kind of strange game that only he understands, because there’s no way anyone can convince me he’s genuinely in love with this girl. Whatever is going on in his head, Kola should be voted out of Biggie’s house.

I could understand Ozo’s situation — Nengi was a beauty goddess. But this girl? Bland, average looks, no special endowments — I just can’t understand why anyone would simp for her!

To Kola's fans, I greet you! But aren’t you tired of this embarrassment? Kola doesn’t deserve another week in that house.

Yes,Lagos — our city,our home,our heritage! We are the great Omo Oduduwa — the Yoruba!

Eko o ni baje o!

Gbogbo Ile Odua yio ma tesiwaju!

immortalcrown:
Join the business and sell at a cheaper rate, if you believe that those sellers overprice their items.

I heard that even fruits are expensive there. So, why won't things imported all the way from Africa be expensive?

Do you know that any Japanese that enters Nigeria and finds out that 2007 model of Toyota Corolla goes for more than 3 million naira will complain that the price is outrageous? He will do so because the car is very cheap and becoming outdated in Japan. But that Japanese does not know the cost of bringing that almost-outdated model of car to Nigeria. It is easy for an African person to complain of the price of pounded yam in a Western country because that African is probably judging by the cost of the same pounded yam in Africa without knowing the cost of providing the same pounded yam in a Western country. So, join the business, pay rent and all the taxes in that country, export yam from Africa and tell us your own price.

The way people like you talk, one would think you're all wealthy and can effortlessly afford whatever you desire. But oftentimes, it turns out you’re actually as poor as the proverbial church mouse!

He should “join the business and bring the price down” simply because he noticed an anomaly—one driven by greed and corruption—and chose to speak out against it?

Why is it that people like you seem to take sadistic pleasure in watching ordinary people get cheated under the guise of doing business? Mr businessman,I hope you can afford a plate jollof rice at Hida Baci's eatery?

You talk as if you can even walk into a decent restaurant in Nigeria and afford a proper meal, yet here you are condemning a man who pays $140 for a plate of pounded yam abroad!

duduade:
Notable nicknames this season I can remember
1. Sandpaper ynash
2. Dracula
3. Angler fish
4. Hermaphrodite
5. Ado-Ekiti Usher Raymond

6. Ikeregbe
7.Paso

Friendly25:
Lol, Kaybobo had stuff with Juliet Ibrahim, so he might be amused at Dede feeling herself. It's why i wish i could see Kola's exes. It's how I can tell Jason hasn't really bagged many girls like Sultana before .

Anybody will not do o, otherwise she for reason Kuture since. She's just hovering around the presumed top 5 freshest boys in the house.

Exactly.

DoctorStanley:
Why didn't they negotiate with him like they negotiate with Northern bandits? Just asking

E no get level — a small fry!

Friendly25:
But it's a waste of time for her. Kaybobo doesn't even kiss. He'll just cook for you and gist and maybe cuddle, and even in the cuddling if you try touching him wrongly he might complain. The problem is that women LOVE pressuring such guys. It's why some women like going for pastors that are married.

Outside the house, you think he would choose Dede over Juliet Ibrahim?

As it is now, anyone will do! Dede desperately needs a story to hang on to. I agree with your earlier submission — Dede desperately intends to launch a new storyline with Kaybobo, since the pond has dried up and the "fishes" have escaped! As you rightly observed, she has picked a wrong guy — Kaybobo will never fall for any of her antics.

Juliet Ibrahim and Dede? There is no basis for comparison — Juliet is not in the same league as Dede.

Hotfreezer:
See them here

I knew it! Those guys are simply irredeemable!

Believe it or not, the developers are not happy about the capture of this man. He is one of the demons they use as an excuse to run away from their barren land.

Friendly25:
Maybe she felt Kaybobo was a player. Maybe she felt he was too strict. Kaybobo mentioned Dede and Soso as his main interests,but he doesn't chase women. Maybe Dede's brain is telling her she should look at him a second time.

Yes, maybe — especially now that the "fishes" are no longer cooperating.

Friendly25:
Lol, is this your description of Kaybobo of all people, one of the most desired guys in the house?

If not that he probably wants to avoid woman wahala by focusing on food, he was actually ranked by women as being on the same level with Bright.

As much as I agree that most of the girls in the house find Kaybobo attractive and would have loved to have something with him, the fact remains that Kaybobo wasn't on Dede's radar in the early stages of the show. This was even evident in their conversation yesterday when Kaybobo told Dede that he had wanted to get to know her in the early days, but she (Dede) brushed him off.

So, in essence, my point is: if the "fish" story were still very active and the "fishes" were cooperating like they did in the past, Dede wouldn't even remember that someone named Kaybobo exists in that house.

Hence, when the desirable is not available, the available becomes desirable.

Friendly25:
Why do I have this very very very odd feeling that Dede is slowly taking a second look at Kaybobo?

When the desirable is not available, the available becomes desirable.

PavillionEnergy:









I don't understand you.

See the kind of people we have in this country.

So BECAUSE Sultana is a Fulani and was married off at a tender age, she should be given the Big Brother Crown.

This post reeks of sheer hypocrisy and you are fanning the embers of a society that doesn't reward merit but choses sentiments.

This is a reality TV show. The winner should be selected based on actual live entertainment and reality exhibited and not based on historical facts.

Rubbish.

Your response is a prime example of how the eagerness to appear incisive can quickly devolve into misplaced aggression — a masterclass in superficial understanding and unwarranted self-righteousness.

Let’s be clear: my comment was neither a critique of merit nor an endorsement of sentimentality over achievement. It was an observation grounded in sociocultural context. I highlighted the uncommon trajectory of Sultana — a Fulani woman, married off at 15, who managed to break through cultural barriers to appear in a space where people from her background are rarely represented. That is not “fanning sentiments”; it is acknowledging reality. If that somehow threatens your warped notion of “merit,” perhaps it’s time to reexamine what merit truly means to you.

You claim my message “reeks of hypocrisy,” yet you fail to identify a single instance where I contradicted myself. Instead, you projected your own assumptions onto my words — a misinterpretation that reveals more about your biases than my intent. The real question is: do you even understand what hypocrisy means?

What’s most ironic is that, in your attempt to present yourself as a champion of meritocracy, you completely overlooked the merit in Sultana’s journey. If you genuinely value merit, then you should recognize it wherever it appears — even when it wears a different face or emerges from unexpected origins.

Next time, before launching into a rebuke, do yourself the courtesy of fully understanding what’s being said. Otherwise, you risk doing exactly what you accused me of — stoking the flames of misunderstanding.

And for the record, acknowledging Sultana’s efforts and giving her her due (crown) is not the same as declaring her the overall winner of the show. I’ve already made it clear that my preferred housemate is Faith.

bentenny:
Sultana to be honest is very pretty and physically attractive!
I believe she would have looked far better if she wasn't a smoker!

Sultana doesn’t look like what she’s been through. Do you guys know what it means to be forcefully married off at the tender age of fifteen (15), and already have two children?

If viewers knew her real story, Sultana would be given her well-deserved crown. That babe is a Fulani from the conservative North — and I bet many Nairalanders don’t fully understand what that means. My paternal grandmother was a Fulani. So,I know.

I’m not even trying to excuse her shortcomings here, but given her background, Sultana definitely deserves some slack.

A Fulani lady on BBNaija? I give it to her!
Don't get me wrong — Faith is my favorite. Coincidentally, he's a medical doctor, just like my wife. But that aside, I find him intriguing.
Faith is smart — I love smart people.

Skrrrrrrr:
How Joanna went from one of my favourite to one of my worst housemates is something I can't even explain....
Why would your only mission in the house be to talk about someone?
You no get work?

If there's anyone I want evicted right now, it's Joanna. No wonder she's referred to as Dracula! I detest her recent moves,so much, in the house.

Those who are blaming Ghanaians for protecting their cultural heritage and territorial integrity need to have their heads examined for possible psychiatric tendencies. Ghanaians did nothing wrong; the blame should go to those who choose to behave without decorum in a foreign land. Why should Ghanaians tolerate strangers who want to establish a kingdom on their land? Or should the indigenous Yoruba of Lagos fold their arms while the same people label their land "no man's land"? It won’t work!