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Toshbay101:
Hi I’m planning to marry a Yoruba man currently in the USA. He treats me well and tries to be honest about things. He’s been pursuing me for the past few years and has made it clear he wants to be married. We get along great and lots of humor and warmth. Things are not perfect but we always work through them maturely. Sometimes I think he’s too romantic. I know he needs his green card and I’ve assumed his visa is already expired. He’s met my family and I’ve only met his sister and all the relatives he has in this city but not his mother in Nigeria. He’s Muslim so he said he wants to have a Muslim ceremony in addition to going to the courthouse, having a ceremony for my family out here as well as the ceremony in Nigeria. He says his mother will be visiting the US this year and we can video chat her in a couple days. I’ve heard her voice on the phone already and I’ve seen her Facebook page so I know what she looks like. He’s been married 2 years and divorced already since being out here. He says his wife was abusive towards him and that he only married her because I stop talking to him when we first met because I was afraid of marrying an immigrant. He flips cars but I suspect he may be scamming on the side since sales appear to be slow. He told me he isn’t and that he has other business on the side and that he does deliveries too! But recently I’ve seen some clue of this at his home. I told him already that I wouldn’t help him if he is scamming and gets caught. I don’t mind marrying him so he can get a good job out here instead of small jobs or using someone else’s identity to work. I have noticed that he can be kind of controlling as in showing up to my apartment unannounced once . He said he wouldn’t do it again but I can tell that he panics when he doesn’t see me every day. Always try to reassure me that he’ll never leave me and that he won’t cheat on me that he is serious. Now that I suspect he is scamming I don’t feel comfortable with proceeding but I am afraid of what will happen if I break things off. I won’t waste too much time taking action I just figured I’d write about it. I feel kind of disappointed in myself but it was a calculated risk. I feel kind of disappointed in myself believing that he was making it on his own without having to scam and I was proud of him for that but if he got caught that will be the end of our relationship anyway. If he was lying about scamming then he could’ve been faking the whole relationship and may change after we get married. I thought I had chosen a good one just based on the way we get along & hownhe treats me. And I understand if he felt the need to scam in order to survive out here but now the reality of the situation is hitting me and I don’t know whether I should still trust him or not. Now I am seeing certain things in a new light like the way he insists that he can’t pull out during sex. The way he likes to go out a lot to clubs . The fact that he was looking for marriage ever since he came to the US.

He has insecurity issues
I think his since with you but you just have to trust your gut

Nina don use her hand carry mirakul thin finish...e just dey shake anyhow

factsandfigures:
My friend is presently writing his PHD thesis on the psychological behaviours of reality shows participants 2017-2018 Big Brother Naija.
His write ups is very insightful and interesting. How do people react knowing that others are watching them 24/7? Why will some housemates have sex on reality show and some will not? He confessed to me that CEECEE is a classic case for behavioural Psychologists.
..I will need his consent to reveal things he wrote about CeeCee, Lolu and Nina. The three of them need to see a therapist after the show.

Good research Topic

I feel nina she's not playing a script reason why I felt she's not playing a script from the booze moment she decided to go hard on herself so she can express herself!!!! She has taken alot from miracle imagine yesterday game miracle didn't do anything sweet and you drilling collins borehole

Alex na evil
Tobi can't say shayo ways
Lolu.....no comment ooo, because iono understand am

On a norms gan...if set of friend have issue they all set out to grab drink by the time shayo enter body everybody go hold their self Two Two to pour out there mind base on shayo level!!!!(if you know you know) then case close!!!!

scondy:
Thank u...I realised this a few weeks back....and i got so upset ....cos we like miracle no mean say if he dey eff up make we no talk...

On bigbrother...if u want to play romance card ...be ready to play it till the end ...cos if u switch it can be disastrous...

A lot is riding on how he handles this....na ebuka shake table ...

Lol i feel say na miracle shake table himself jaare the ebuka just add salt to the injury then nina give m better conclusion!!!!!!!!

As GuyMan na miracle Bleep up

Miracle no like this nina let be sincere with ourselves!!!!!!!
You no like this girl and you still fvking her!!!!! If you doing Bleep and care steady steady we go understand but you no care at all!!!!!

Miracle don fk jaaare

Na only lolu fit help nina life as me dey see the situation

Nina feelings like a slut (to my own understanding oo)


Nina talking sense oooooo, miracle no be guyMan i felt that yesterday game miracle no try at all base on the update i got here, because i was unable to follow yesterday base on one or two



Nina is crying oooooo, i just pity her

Nina said she don't care about mircale anymore
Tobi tells her she can't hate him
Nina said..tobi doesn't know her



Nina don shayo, tobi gan don shayo,lolu sef don shayo to my own understanding


Alex na devil in disguise!!!!

Shayo na bastard



Nina telling tobi that she has been wasting her time
Nina also said miracle has hard heart

Omo make una dey watch ooo

Nina dey para oooooo

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Zozo06:
Alex hugs anto
Ceec hugs lolu
Tobi hugs koko
Nina hugs miracle




Nina thanks miracle for being a good, true, real friend. She wouldn't want the friendship to end, she wants it to keep growing. He's caring, she says sometimes miracle doesn't express his emotions with words but with action. She smiles and said he's a good friend and doesn't want to lose him ever.. She says if not for miracle she would have gone to meet biggie and say she wants to leave..
She thanks miracle for keeping to his words of always being there for her. She thanks him for standing for her sometimes.

Miracle asks you Don finish... She says yes.. She tells him thunder fire you. Miracle calls a fool and tells her it's listening that fires not thunder. They laugh.. Their done.

Biggie sounds.
Housemates look for others to hug

The diKk will likely continue after the show...nina you got a soft heart but wife like you issa no

My regret tonight is loading card on my small phone....i just dey vote one one....which kind nokia 3310 b dis

I don do 18 vote this nyt for lolu..make i do 3 online vote with 3 sim


Owo Sch fee make i help fellow sociologist enter final biko

Can we start voting now?

Make i do vote for lolu

ayam not watching ooo choi

But Ebuka said it going to be fake nomination

Ayam not understanding again

Bleep up

Lolu
Nina na bissdh

Nice mix

Miracle with his step
Lolu with his step
Tobi with his step


Sure niggas

Rico is high

Anto sef dey shake body gan ooooooo

If only alex can put this kind of energy when she's involve in arena games her life for better ooo

Lolu na goat ooo


See Cee-C dancing sha...babe dey feel say she dey,do last dance..buh na lie she go dey till finally day oooo


Kylie and rico ehn ehn

Nina over fine oooooooooooo

Tobi and Rico PJ na wash


Anti pj..lit
Oko ati iyawo ooo ....sha pra pran
Lolu.....Good
Cee-C....get different colour ooo
Alex...slow down na

Bastard e suppose no do m na
Lagos dirty as Bleep

Anto is just mad

nowpresence:
miracle is not an interesting character at all. He is too dull, even Nina is better than him in this aspect.

I doubt , i feel he's playing to script

My fav hm
Lolu, miracle, Cee-C

Their head is working perfectly well they trust their instinct

I just feel for miracle and Cee-C

Cee-C she's a strong lady i feel she will go far if she can just kill one or two of her bad habit.... In life there is what we call Tolerance if you don't have tolerance then try as much as possible to avoid necessary drama...this will take me to miracle case;

I just feel me and miracle we got something in common which is Not sending anybody , miracle get craze for head that why he avoid all necessary drama his level of tolerance not really high that why he avoid trash in the house.
I feel he's playing to script!!! How i wished he was up for nomination so many times it would have brought out beast in him, he got a cool face but the guy is hungry than Tobi.


Tobi problem i really don't know he's problem if he could just stay away from clique for some hours maybe he would find where is lagging!!!!


Everyone damn scared of Khloe

Na my own view ooo if you want to air yours don't subject your mind

Yoruba demon activated oooo version 9.5 LOTO
I get criminology class 8am biko make i go sleep in other words,i don't think the kiss is for the camera .

I think miracle is just dumb
Feeling moody since nomination period idiot boy, God no go allow you dig your downfall yourself

Tobi wey dey follow miracle i laugh in swahill ...e b lyk say e head don dey correct na why e nominate nina

The return of anto killed lolu game but thank God he's a smart guy


Alex and leo be lyk 5&6
Nina evil child (avoid gfrnd like nina oooo or else , imagine she go still dey give shout out to her bfrnd.....TBH, she dey pour spit for the guy face)
Khloe omo ogbon
Cee-C


Who else

Everyone love's TOBI i don't know why!!!!! Any reason

My mum loves Tobi any small thing (Tobi nkor ) but she has decided to Vote with 500naira for lolu it small but o necessary

Wait oooo

How can i help lolu Maybe i go collate all my sociology course mate let do online voting