[quote author=Chukwunonye post=90931346]Pls stop saying what you don’t know Benita is 20 plus she’s my friend on ig ... she’s going through a lot by people like you who post and say wrong things about her ,.... Abeg make una free the babe Abeg [very true make them leave the babe naaa]

Pls stop saying what you don’t know Benita is 20 plus she’s my friend on ig ... she’s going through a lot by people like you who post and say wrong things about her ,.... Abeg make una free the babe Abeg

Jeboy:


PLEASE ADVICE HER

I am a Banker in my early 30s and going through a messy divorce. I married my husband as a virgin. I have never been with any man but him until I was raped. I didn't know anything about orgasm, climax or what have you because I have never experienced it. 8 years of marriage with a miserable sex life. I have two children from my marriage. It happens that We traveled to my husband village during last Easter period. While in his country home by 1 am in the night our house was raided by armed robbers a gang of 7 members . It was a very terrifying experience, after collecting all the valuables at home, the leader turned to rape me. The leader tied my husband to a chair, tore my clothe and went on to show me his manhood that he will use it on me. I was frightened. I begged him and cried but he wouldn't listen. It was a rape that cost me my marriage. As the guy was entering me, I was supposed to feel pains but that wasn't so. I felt a kind of ,electrifying sensations that I have never felt in my whole life. I screamed oh my God, as he started pounding on me I didn't know when I was holding him hard and begging him not to stop to the amazement of others, I was enjoying being raped by a criminal. I was told I was screaming very hard when I wanted to come. Yes I had my first orgasm through rape and since then my life hasn't been the same. The robber took me two rounds which I came both times. I don't know what happened, if it was my village people that pursued me, but all I can say is that I haven't had such with my husband. My husband gave me the beatings of my life after they robbers left. He called me unprintable names, I am a prostitute, he didn't know I was an ashawo. He can't marry an Ashawo. I was hospitalized for two weeks as a result of that incident and his beatings . My husband left me at the hospital and travelled back to our home. I was Damaged .How could such a thing happened to me? What was responsible for me enjoying being raped and even coming as a result of it? How could I even enjoy such act of cruelty on my body? These were the questions I kept asking myself. When I got discharged I met a divorce papers waiting for me to sign. I tried begging my husband , involved my parents but he swore instead of staying with me he will rather die. That I am a disgrace to his life. My husband is a rich guy, so when our divorce news broke out, while I was denying it, he kept telling everyone one that I am a LovePeddler. It took me months to accept my predicament and move on. I am still healing, still seeing my therapist. But one thing I know is that I am not what my husband says I am. I am just a woman who was sexually starved. I did not pray to be raped, but it was the turning point of my life . I just feel like sharing this with you my family because it will help me . Pls don't judge me, because you don't know my pains. By July I will be through with the divorce . I just want you all to wish me well with my new life. I pray to find Love in the nearest Future.

1. *What could she have done differently?*

2. *Was it a crime for her to enjoy rape sex like that?*

3. *Was the husband being fair to her?*

4. *Was divorce the only way out?*

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Hello ma’m if you re on WhatsApp maybe we could talk more thanks

brainz360:
Hello guys, as a fresh graduate with a 2:2 grade, which would you advice I do or would you rather opt in for among the three to have a successful career in the near future?

How about you do yours master outside Nigeria, a course in IT information technology, maybe data science
Because if you observe now with what is happen a lot of IT jobs will come out after this pandemic so you can reconsider..... leaving Nigeria is the ultimate goal , after all thought pray about it and get direction from God

You

Preshieben:
Okay

So am 19 years(tho I'll be 20 on June)
A final year student
I have a partime work which pays very well
So I must say am doing very well all by myself
My problem now is I don't seem to fall in love with any guy
I Know this shouldn't be my worry
But I want to get married at 23 or 24yrs
And I haven't been in any serious relationship before
Am beautiful tho,I respect alot and am a very nice person
I play around when once am in a relationship and often it leads to breakup
I hang out mostly wwith men old enough to be my dad and I enjoy their company
What could be the reason?

N/B; please no one one should come here and call me a kid
Age is just a number

Alright I can relate to this can can I dm you personally let try something new

[quote author=Capenda post=88260528]Just for fun, I'll take care of ur expenses if ur a student, from houserent to feeding.
Or pay u 150-200k monthly and u should be available whenever I need u, no string attached pls.
Dark in complexion is preferable, not too fat, skinny or average looking.
DM me thanks.
U should be around the southern part of the country.
Should be available during weekends, I work most weekdays so I just have to relieve stress on weekends[/lol

StrikeBack:
Why must your God always speak to a Nigerian MOG??


Why not From other developed countries?


Your pastor is a FRAUDSTER

Guy you see your problem is bigger than you have a low sense of thinking there is a problem in the world ,have you seen what trump is going through? The solution to our problem is prayer that why he kept hitting hard on prayer of the saint... I guess you re still a child that why you don’t know the horrors that would befall the world if we don’t pray our self out .... and for crying out loud we re in Nigeria if you want foreign prophecy go online and search for them pls change the way you think you re full of carnality that why you can’t see the nothing

@https://www.nairaland.com/hellomosquito hello good Evening how about the remaining part of the billionaire mindset

Bro look anybody that is telling to stay back in Nigeria isn’t wishing you well, I’m a business developer.. Nigeria is a crazy place to startup a business you have to be ready for it I wasn’t an abroad fan not until last year when I was seriously challenged with the system I made up my mind to leave this country... and that bros that is in USA why can’t you come back and stay rather than advising him from the top... my brother make your moves ASAP invest your money with all this bank then move into the bigger picture thanks