₦airaland Forum

What is the point in having pictures with men you have dated who you do not eventually marry? Will you proudly show it off to your husband "sweetheart this is my ex boyfriend" or your children " Nonso, this was the man I dated before i married your father" ? It serves no value for you the woman. The most stupid of all is the ladies who take pics with a guy that hasn't even called you his girlfriend, WTF! ! You are having sex with him (booty call) and you believe it's ok to allow him take several pics with you, sweetheart, you are ruining your future. Tomorrow the guy would show the world proof that he has slept with you. Lol. Mind you this message is not for prostitutes and runs girls those ones have lost their souls cos of money. I am referring to normal girls who think becos a guy asked her out and they are having sex she can keep taking pics with him up and down. Picture are evidence, can be used against you tomorrow.
Now think about a situation where you become a VIP tomorrow and one low life you dated in the past starts brandishing pictures he took with you, how will you feel?its even worse if you are married.
Many guys have no conscience, the pic you think you have taken with your boyfriend may mean something else to him and third parties who would see it in future. While you tell people this is me and my boyfriend, he may be saying this is me and a girl I was fucking way back, so sad!

Let me give you an example of Bianka Ojukwu, FFK says he has dated her,she has denied vehemently. Imagine there is some stupid cudly picture they both took, how could she have denied it?

The first photo you should take with a lover is pre wedding pictures. You know you two are getting married, not some silly love me I love you pictures, it's not necessary, It serves no purpose, it can hunt you in future, ladies be wise!!!!

BadBradley:
the only point she has is trying to justify why she acts the way she does; the insatiability of dick!

yea so? If she is dick insatiable, how should that be a problem? It's her bilogocal make up.

BadBradley:
Wrong! Wrong!! Wrong!!! Cinderella.
The link you put out is a sham and an intellectual fraud!

I) your researcher administered oxytocin artificially on the noses of the 57 males who were the object of the research.

The effect of Oxytocin cannot be observed in males purely without the effect of testosterone. In sexual activity, testosterone repels the effect of oxytocin. So applying it on the nasal cavity of males who are just sitting around is equivalent to drugging.

2) if I inject you with the hormone testosterone, you will need sex like the average male but that's not your true biological response or sexual predisposition. You will be in effect reacting to drug use. Or steroid.

3) did you read where your researcher was advising females to get their hands on nasal spray containing oxytocin? Isn't that manipulation and drug assault?

4) men release less amount of oxytocin during sex than females and still have their dominant hormone to repel its effects. How did your researcher administer extra doses of oxytocin without measurements in addition to the one ingrain in men? Seems to me they had 57 zombies as guinea pig for experiment

5) your researcher is Lindsay, a dishonourable dubious feminist suffering from gender orientation crisis conducting a supposed sexual response research in a non-romantic environment

Please before you delve into your fantasies again, try owning up to your laughable blunders.

* You claim oxytocin isn't released during sex

* You claimed it doesn't bind women to their sexual partner

* You claim and stated oxytocin has nothing to do with sex!

Now you're running off to show me oxytocin promote monogamy in males by preventing them from signalling romantic interest to other females

So off the focal point!

I have proven to you that Oxytocin during sex bounds a woman to her sexual partner and women cannot be bound sexually and emotionally to two men. It will only amount to distortion of the term bounding.

That's why prostitutes are cold because their oxytocin effect has been distorted and corrupted by abuse and re-abuse with so many attempts to bound with different males.

Argh!

I cannot continue to teach this forever.

what you are teaching is off point my dear, the issue on ground is cheating by women, and you say women are not biologically designed to cheat, I ask why and you say becos of the oxytocin she is meant to be with one partner. That makes no sense, considering the fact that being with more partners has no negative effect on her. Since you are a student of Google, search through and tells what you find as reason why women cheat and see if you will see anything about absence of oxytocin or 'distorted' hormones. A woman who decided not to cheat is not because of oxytocin but becos of other factors I have mentioned earlier.

Seahawk:


The guy is probably among those that won’t pass the DNA test to determine if he belongs to his father or not.

Yet he’s here blowing hot air.

Jesus . You have a point

BadBradley:
https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2017/05/170518085139.htm

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-2031498/Sex-Why-makes-women-fall-love--just-makes-men-want-MORE.html


For you to possess such staggering ignorance and be bold about it is by itself a human tragedy.

You say oxytocin doesn't bound women to men? You say this key love hormone isn't released during sex!

So this is what you have been researching all along for over 24hrs and still fail to come up with anything substantial!!!

The two links I furnished will re-educate and make you keep abreast with me-- only when I'm walking, though. If I choose to fly you will fail to follow and fall behind.

Now take this excerpt presented in screenshot and see why men are apt to fawk and leave you stranded.

The rest of your emotional spillover will not be dealt with now until you have read this and appreciated the sheer depth of my research.

When you quote me next, you must tell me what books or research you did so I can keep you abreast with recent research journals and publications instead of those pre-medieval books you're digging out.

www.nairaland.com/attachments/6999978_2018041923_30_03_jpege1be7612c888beadf2f8f3a4d886baa2


Modified: @ Seahawk bring your loosened, pus-emitting vagina here and defend your lack of sexual honour.

I am not a Nairaland addict, I only come here when convenient for me, I don't know what you mean by it took me 24 hrs to respond. I can get a mention but may not have the enabling environment to respond. Everyone can't sleep in NL like you pure virgin obsessed cupcake.

This your link does not show that women are biologically made to remain with one partner, does the oxytocin have a negative impact on a woman when she meets another man? The life of a call girl makes nonsense of this finding. Google will always give you anything you want, if I want a research which shows oxytocin in men makes them monogamous, I will find. Inshort that the position. But how many men are monogamous? Can we now say they are a obfuscation of manhood because they still cheat? Rubbish. No one is bilogocally programmed to cheat or not to cheat, it's a thing of discipline and self determinations. Becos the pure and unadultrated virgin you slept with told you she can't imagin herself sleeping with another man, it burst your brains and made you feel like king thereby declaring that the only true women are the pure unadultrated virgins. Lol. You need a reality check. But then again, you are entitled to your opinion. The reality is that such view are only aired in secret or faceless forums like that. Try it on national tv or public place and come tell me the response.

https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2012/11/study-oxytocin-the-love-hormone-makes-men-in-relationships-want-to-stay-away-from-other-women/265314/

Seahawk:
When people yarn rubbish with authority thinking they are making sense.
While in truth your post is a just a regurgitation of the BS spilled by randy senseless men day in and day out on nairaland. There’s no single line in your post that is original.

All have been said and debunked severally in this forum before. Maybe you’re newbie blowing hot.
Go and take several seats with your nonsense post that has no scientific backing. Your randy opinion is not fact. That’s a fact.
You will get cheated on by a woman that’s a fact. And yes the paternity of the world is indeed in question. That’s also a fact.

That you think your testosterone (which BTW women do have as well) makes it okay for you to cheat but an anathema for a woman in repay you in your coins is a testament of how you’re not reasoning clearly. Maybe testosterone is taking up the space where your regular brain neurotransmitters should be. That would be a good explanation.

It is wishful thinking to imagine that this your nonsense post will prevent the millions of women who are already cheating and will continue to do so from cheating. You’re living in a fool’s paradise if you think women don’t cheat as much as men.
That’s your ego talking not common sense.
When you are just a hoe trying to blame nature for your lack of self control

wow

BadBradley:
Nothing , rather no concept is in absolutism.

Still, I do not consider prostitutes or psychologically damaged female to be women. They are more or less a distorted representation of the term woman; an obfuscation of womanity.

A brief vexatious fact:

Scientifically it has been proven that the steroid hormone called testosterone is responsible for males insatiable sex drive. So men literally think of sex way more than women.

This sexual hormone testosterone is not dominant in female, rather estrogen and oxytocin rule the female psychological and biological make-up.

By this simple fact, biology through millions of years of evolution has limited women's sexual liberties, both in reproduction and copulation.

That's why your reproductive lifespan is less than half of your actual life span. ( Women hit menopause or have ovarian failure as early as 30s and 40s)

While men produce millions of sperm daily for the duration of their entire lives.

The estrogen female hormone is not a sexual streriod as the male hormone testosterone.

Oxytocin bounds you to a sexual partner until you begin sleeping around and get hormonally and psychologically messed up and confused.

When you get pregnant, you need a man to carter for you, father your baby and protect you. And only a recognisable father can provide these. Not one trapped in a maize of paternal identity crisis!!!

No matter what "liberated" women try to say. No matter what feminist try to say , biology doesn't afford women the right to swap partners as it does males.

It's the scientific facts and no amount of neo female movement can wish facts away.

Women who can't hold on to one man have been compromised in their formative years!

Everything you have said about oxytocin in women is false, it does not bind a woman to a sexual partner, there is no such finding on earth. Let me educate you even though people like you who already classify only virgins ( pure ones and unadultrated ones ) as women others being an obfuscation of womanhood will not be open minded enough to be schooled, I will all the same for the sake of people who may run into this thread. The hormone is present in men and women, the primary function of oxytocin in women is for lactation and child birth.
Now people have also called it the cuddle or love hormone, this aspect of the hormone is released when people cuddle, it helps men bond with their wives, mothers, fathers, friends and anyone. Same with women, even when playing with your dog the hormone can be released. Apart from it being a cuddly hormone, it can also make one suspicious of others. It has nothing yo do with sex. It is not released when having sex thereby making the women cling to a man, no researchhas shown this.

The only reason a woman may cling onto a man who disvirgined her is becos (note that such women are those who got old before having sex (lol) virginity is seen aa an asset in this part of the world, so since he took it from me, I can't let him go. That's about it.

Biology does not stop women from having more than one partners,if it did, it won't be happening. Oh sorry I forgot, women are virgins only, lmao.
The only thing which stops women, is culture and society, just a matter of time, we will get there. Every thing you have mentioned as biologically preventing women from having multiple partners do not hold water. When pregnant you need a man to cater for you, are you serious? You mean it she has her own money she would need man to cater for her? No offence but you sound like someone from the stone age. Lol. The issue of menopuse makes no sense, even if she gets into menopuse at 30, how does it prevent her from having multiple partners?

I will end by saying that women cheat not because they have high sex drive like the males, but becos of environmental factors, economc factors and emotional factors. Those who don't cheat is becos they are more disciplined, or they are too engrossed in their work or family affairs, not becos of your imaginary oxytocin, lol. Most times such ladies who are disgusted about being with another man are not sexual beings, the very frigid type, imagin a girl who as at late 20s hasn't being wirh a man. Lol. Good night Mr Pure unadultrated virgin
Out of curiosity pls, how do we classify men who despite the presence of almighty testosterone, they don't cheat? Obfuscation of manhood perhaps

BadBradley:
Women aren't programmed biologically to cheat. That's unless they have been damaged and altered somewhere in their formative years.

The hormone oxytocin bounds a woman to one sexual partner and that hormone is rendered ineffective by testosterone in males.

If women are to cheat like men, the paternity of the entire world would be in dispute. That's why you all evolved to be biologically limited to really cheat.

Don't mistake admiration or loyalty for love in women. If words were all it takes to bed a woman, then I wonder why you people don't marry poets.

Only males are equipped to reproduce children back-to-back. Women have to wait their cylce of pregnancy, childbirth and lactation before being ready again.

Women are born loyal except they get distorted by early rape in childhood or some other sexual trauma.

Only true unadulterated virgins know this.



N.B Don't insult me though, your first post delineated you as just hanging barely on the fringes of civility. Let's keep it civil.

very funny argument. So ladies who have boyfriends but still cheat got distorted at childhood due to rape and trauma? Laughable. That line is enough for me to end this argument. But I will love to know how you arrived at that.

Words are important to sleep with women, that's why you hear women fall for players and smooth talkers. Material things are there too. There is a saying that money makes a woman wet.

It's true that women cling to men after sex, despite this fact, some women still fall for men who could find a way to their hearts despite having a man. They are called loose women, doesn't mean she was traumatized as a child. She is just like the man who despite having a cute bae still Bleep girls outside.
Some women are born loyal while others are not, that's why you have cheats and faithful women. So you can't say women a biologically programmed for anything

Lol @ true unadulterated virgin, not sure what it means but you must know what even a 1 kobo dick loving beech was once a virgin, cheats were once virgins or are you referring tp women who have had just a sexual partner? It's possible they will cling to their first love, but to say only such women will appreciate what you are saying makes nonsense of your earlier generalization about women being biologically made to be loyal and faithful and clingy. Those are just a group of women, a small group for that matter. A woman that clings is just bexos she loves your company and may want it more, perhaps she sees you as a boyfriend material or husband material that's it, not the chemical compond you talked about. If not prostitutes would cling to all their customers.
Let me add that women who have been damaged due to trauma are not loose women, most of them hate men, they are frigid, hate sex cos they started on a traumatizing note. I know this of a fact cos I belong to a group on Facebook where women share their experiences and how it has afected them.

Klinee:
No you are not saying the truth, most of the girls are not people's girlfriends as you assume, they are prostitutes, most men identify and know them,have sex and leave, they can sleep with 100 men in a day.
While their individual girlfriends are freshly reverse for them when needed.
When I mentioned girlfriend I mean marriageable girlfriend not hanky panky ones

that freshly reserved one is someone else side chick. Lol

Klinee:
for men! not women.

you guys should wake up, the girls you cheat with are people's girlfriends. Everyone cheats.

Collins87:
My so-called girl friend cheats like fire! Am just watching her I shall soon dumb her ass.

women cheat just like men, if you can't take it you move on. There are exceptions though, you could find one if you are lucky.

Seahawk:
You’re the bimbo. The obviously ignorant one here. I don’t think you’re half as smart as she is.

he needs a reality check

BadBradley:
Another ignorant, attention-hungry bimbo looking for social media fame.

Women are not biologically programmed to cheat.

And if women are ever injected with a steroid hormone called testosterone men are coping with, they will be ripping off thier clothes and not spending long hours shopping for clothes.

what in God's name does the boldened mean? Biologically programmed to cheat? That is by nature a man is meant to cheat. Ok, it works both ways.
Now listen
A man has high testosterone level so he goes after women for sex. A woman on the other hand is moved by what she hears and acts which depicts care like gifts and all, this makes it easy for a determined guy to sleep with a girl, all he needs to do is tell her what she wants to hear. Now there are so many of such guys on a girls case daily, this is why women cheat. If it's biological for a man to cheat becos of high testosterone, It's also a thing of biology for a woman to cheat becos her heart and heard has been captured by his sweet words or his acts of "love". To say woman are not biologically programmed to cheat is erronous, inshort you need a reality check, you may not be operating on earth.
There are few girls that won't be moved by what a guy tells her or gives her, those are the exceptions to the General rule of why girls cheat, just as there are guys who despite presence of testosterone limit themselves to one girl. These two scenarios are exceptions. Men and women cheat. It's in them to do so.
Women excercise lots of restraints cos of what people would say. If it were a free world like abroad, we would Bleep Tom dick and Harry with pride becos its fun.

dingbang:
well if this was the statement your mum made to your dad when he met her, I don't think you would have been born...


Just saying

sorry about that

dingbang:
there is always a first time getting to know someone

you could be a ritualist. I will pass. Just being cautious.