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We have two categories of "big boys" by big boys I mean those who have arrived, who have enough money to spend on luxury and the finest things of life.

The first class are the Ex broke guys. They were born into poverty stricken homes, they had to hustle hustle and hustle hard to break off the bondage of poverty from their lives (not talking about Yahoo boys o )

The second class are those born with silver spoon, ajebuttters, those that their wealth is tied to their family ties.

From my little research, I have observed that they behave differently.
1. The ex broke guy is usually very stingy perhaps they always remember where they are coming from
2. The ex broke guys are usually on a revenge mission. They are the ones that keep saying when they were poor, girls did this and that, now it's their turn to do this and that. Very vengeful creatures

But I have lots of respect for them, they have better chances of changing their world and making meaningful impact.
This is a special shout out to all ye hard workers, keep conquering poverty cos it's a bastard

MariaLavina:
Op is right to some extent. Human naturally tend to forget people who stood by them when they had nothing. While some been ungrateful some were distracted by the luxuries of life. As it is humane to forget your sufferings when you finally get what you want.


But then, I think We all should strive to attain to that level where we render help, love and support without expecting back. A stage where you realize that no one owes you nothing and you only help for humanity sake.

A woman shouldn't build all her hopes in a Man. Support your Man but never neglect your own dreams.That way you make his burden lighter and your expectations slimmer. We should all strive to be the best.

nice

usoroh4luv:
Someone said that a poor man is always humble but wait after he has become rich to see if he will be humble or not. The true character of a man usually surfaces when he has made it.
So staying with a man during his hardship moments does not guarantee that he will love you after he has survive. It varies from person to person.
However, I would suggest staying with a man that is grounded in the word of God, he would be considerate in what he will do even after he has made the money.
Also, ladies should know that a poor man might tolerate your bad attitudes till after the day has dawn on him. Then he may decide to not want you anymore. So my advice to ladies is that they should always consciously put up good behavior with their man whether he has made in life or not. Men are very observant of the lifestyle of ladies. We don't get married to you because you stayed but rather because u have a good character. This is my opinion by the way.

you are so on point. Too much wisdom

maxlev1:
I was once broke but now am rich. There was a girl who loved me deeply and supported me throughout the struggle. She never disrespected, hurt or looked down on me all through d broke times. Right now she is the only lady and will always be the only lady apart from my sis and mom that will enjoy my love and money. So stop deceiving the good girls out there to share ur same kind of negative mentality because it ain't good at all. Alot of guys who are made today will always go back to n pick that babe(except there was none) that supported them in their years of suffering but will bleep and dump most of the babes they meet after they are made. This is because most men don't trust ladies they know after they are made.

I like your testimony, thanks for sharing. I am just tying to say this is not always the case

Airforce1:
She's not all about the money but happiness , which I'm giving to her in abundance.

I doubt if you got a man
Fuckit , are you even rich ?

happiness is very important, that's my message. Since she loves you despite your poverty, she should be all means remain. I don't think you read my post with understanding.
I am rich

Airforce1:
Na your type yahoo plus boys dey find

before they see me, they have used your useless baby mama. Fake guy with fake life! Now get lost.

I believe the above is a fallacy. A guy who loves you loves you, it doesn't matter whether you were with him when he was broke or when he is made. Ladies don't be blackmailed by that fake lame story guys say to keep you glued to their side when they have nothing meaningful to offer in the relationship. Don't pity a man and remain with him, remain only cos of love not poverty related pity. I have seen men dump girls who were with them during hard times for sexier girls, so there are no rules.
Let's not be blackmailed by struggling aka broke guys, follow your heart.

Nice one. Sex with a man is over rated. Just keep yourself till your Prince charming comes, if you have the need to ease off sir tension, get a toy.

dasparrow:
You pay what bills? The entire world knows that in many Nigerian marraiges of today, the woman pays all the bills. It is just that, you forbid your women from telling anyone so that your fragile ego does not get hurt.

And women DO have a choice. They have the choice of marrying men from reasonable advanced cultures and countries rather than marry some Nigerian ape from a third world shithole country who has nothing to bring to the relationship except sexually transmitted diseases.

haahahahahaha. That particular guy you quoted has been treating himself of STDs for over 2 years now, a sick paedophile who believes he has an opinion.

LordsApostle:
because we pay the bills, women for is are like goods being bought, and if course when u buying something, you get to choose how you want it to be.. The specifications and how you want it delivered. So we reserve the right to choose it the way we want, unfortunately you don't.

hi apostle. When you say we I am assuming you mean men, but I am wondering how you make the list of men, are you not the laughing stock of the Ashawo thread, the fake doctor who has erectile dysfunction, the one who travelled to obiakpor village and claims to be in UK, so you actually confidently believe you are a man too who can decide how he wants a woman? Hahahahahahaha. You are funny, please if you see 500 N ashawo willing to marry you, agree fast because you are a waste of humanity.

kushercain:
How about the truth that you are a full time unintelligent troll who is sexually frustrated but still full of pretense you refuse to come out of your shell and simply ask for what you seek. I'm very sure there are guys who would oblige and screw the loose nuts in your brain back into place without any charge even if your hygiene is as low as your intellectual capacity and your pussy no doubt smells like rotten stock fish.

Or is it the truth that you have managed to slacken your pussy with not 1, not 2 but your whole entire fist which is why you keep opening foolish threads like this one to find some kind of answer to the rhetoric foolishness that is your life?



Exactly so don't bother quoting me I'm busy

this one is clearly frustrated, no where to pour his acidic poisonous akamu.
Pls look for the closest goat around, cos I know not even ashewo will agree to fvck you.
Disgusting dead rat.

kushercain:
The truth hurts

which truth? Please go to your ashawo thread, they must have dropped a sexcapade for you to masturbate on.

Oluromantic:
Vj or no vj. Even as a woman u cannot spend ur hard earned money to buy tomatoes that are near expiry date.

If you must spend a lot to buy a commodity, you want it to be d best and you want to have a feeling of being the first to enjoy ur tear-rubber brand new car. Not the car that have aborted like 15 and the head lamps have fallen. Its so bad for some that they laff at their husbands on the streets for being so unlucky to marry such

so you equate a human beign to tomatoes and car? Amazing

Oluromantic:
Not really. Its not necessary she's a virgin but when a man has been with 2 or 3 women, and d would-be wife has been with 25 men and then lie that its only 5 men she has been with..my sister the only believable person is a virgin. If a girl has dated half of Lagos, she'll tell you she's dated only 5 or only 3. The most devoted offer a woman can give her man in marriage is her body. Wetin go remain after sharing it with 28 men.

In summary men want (not necessarily a virgin) but a girl that hasn't gone too far. They want a girl they've gone farther than. Simple!

you have a point, we know girls lie a lot. But there is no difference between a girl that has slept with one man and the one who has slept with 7. The vj is elastic, It contracts after intercourse.

Please I really need to understand this. A man who has been with not one, not two, not three women is ready to get married and he decides, It must be a virgin bride or nothing. I know there are a lot of men with this mindset, if we have any here I want to understand what moral right you have to look for tear rubber when you are tokunbo.

Horney nigga

adanny01:
You dont know jack.

Non of the 2 are responsible for what you call the immoral market.

For the bros, ones nature and the wifes are responsible while the sis is the same nature and usually the economy.

Nature says we all must eat, some eat beans some dont. Others like pounded yam while it makes others sick. Some people are alargic to milk while others are not. Nature chooses what we eat as much as possible then our preferences take care of the rest. When comes to sex, we are not all the same just like the food we eat. You dont expect everybody to stay with one sex partner like you probably would.

Everybody has a reason for having extra sex partners. Not every married couple have a great sex life.

I am beginning to see prostitutes as helping those women who cannot properly satisfy their husbands. Those husbands come back home satisfied from having good sex outside, relative peace will be established for that service rendered by a prostitute.

Lets begin to tolerate how are people are.

so will your wife permit you to sleep with prostitutes? You think she will be happy about it? Do you know the risk posed to her? Why not bring out the best in her sexually rather than abandon her for prostitutes.

InvertedHammer:
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The man who approaches you is a perfect stranger. If at any point you end up sleeping with him, what does that make you?

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are you saying every woman is a prostitute? If a stranger approaches me, we exchange contacts, then get to know each other over time, he asks me out and I agree cos I like him, then with time sex happens, you mean it's same with standing on the road or in hotel waiting for people to pay me for sex? I hope you are normal cos I won't waste my energy on a mad person.

koolsnoop2:
Inbox me..
I have a book for you on why good girls remain single.

Why not drop the name of the book here so I get it?

GrammarNazi1:
...I...it's...These two sets of people...

thanks

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
I don't concern myself with what has been and what will continue to be.

Jesus never condemned Mary Magdalene, did he?

are you saying she was a prostitute? assuming she was, are you saying sin should continue or that Jesus encouraged people to sin?

I am of the opinion that the men who leave their homes looking for a stranger to sleep with are under a spell, i don't think its normal.

Prostitutes who under any guise collect money to sleep with strangers are possessed.

These two set of people represent the dark world, i only wish they end up marrying themselves but the sad thing is they don't. The guy who has finished all his sperm on prostitutes is likely to end up with a God fearing responsible girl, while the girl whose vjay has lost its elasticity due to commercial sex will end up with a 'good guy'.
life is so unfair.

Now between brostitutes and prostitutes, who can we say is responsible for the thriving immoral market?