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Just finished having another truth to truth talk with wife and now i can see where many things go wrong in marriage.

The first thing being that marriage itself is full of painful surprises you will hate as a man and the bad thing is that those who married earlier than you do not really say this. All of them are just trying to endure and bear them. Me, i hate pain and endurance and the bad thing about marriage endurance is that it is forever compared to the regular endurances we bear eg enduring till salary is paid or enduring shi* from your boss until your work plans work out. So you always know that all these endurances have expiry dates and after that you are free.

But, this is not the same for marriage, you have to endure until death.

As i said earlier, i just finished having an heart to heart talk and now, i say that if you have a toy less than 5inches, don't bother marrying, because when kids come, you aint gonna satisfy your wife no more.

The pulolo gets deeper and where before, your virgin wife used to say that she did not like long things and was satisfied with your small thing, now she needs the loong . And She needs it like agbero needs igboh.

And every day she does not have it, it gets worse and worse. And it gets so bad that if she hear the word loong thing, her head don scatter be dat.

And that is one of the reasons why married woman are very very easy to sleep with.

And let us not forget the truth which is that she is very very tired of your egusi to the point that when you are touching and doing her, the truth is that you yourself know that you are boring and it is not working and that your power over her has expired.

So she is just lying there playing the obedient wife, enduring and praying that you finish quick and leave her alone, to continue her struggle and endurance of how she can live with the hunger of long things or at least if she could have a fresh ogbonno soup, life would be good for her.

Now, i understand why some wives cheat and yet their marriages continue . It all comes down to understanding.

Wish the elders had said these truths, then I would not have married for satisfaction is koko of marriage. And any party not satisfied in the marriage, has a right to get satisfaction elsewhere hence why husbands have side chicks to satisfy their egos and expiration and why wives must cheat.

Men, those who married before us una no try at all.

Na wah oo. How devil use people and the fools are willingly used.

The Bible said, in the last days there would be blasphemies, and here is the fool blaspheming yet, he does not fear God.

Surely, this what Judas Iscariot experienced before his eyes cleared.

Anyway, make I run. Thank God Satan no see me use.

Wow! Seun want make people fall into hole wey dem no know say dey wait dem

haggai247:
Baba make I just tell you the truth you've low testosterone watch what you eat.

Here's my stacks of tools

You see those five guys they are the 5 horse men in the apocalypse.

You can't take these and not satisfy any woman.

No alcohol except for one and it's a medication for malaria (heem leave).

I almost lost my live in 1997 was carried everywhere for solution untill I met one man.

Na old man wey marry 59 wives or so show me road.

Google the name Chief Simon Odo.

You said so oo. Baba but I don't think there is cure for how 4inches will fill a 9inches expandable very hungry hole.

https://www.nairaland.com/3203752/wife-told-me-she-just#47168013

https://www.nairaland.com/7970131/why-women-marry-dont-love#127946522

Now, this thread is mostly for men who marry because of love.

Do note that if she said she loves Chris Hemsworth, that is the kind of man she truly wants to marry and whom she would love.

And it is because of she never had Chris Hems or he never wanted her is why she married you when her marriage clock rings (make she no lose out pata pata)

So if you are not in the category of men that she naturally likes then she is managing you.

And after she marries you, she goes back to wanting her Chris Hems. And this is why cheating is always in the next house.

She might love Chris Hems even if he's a 4incher, though she will later dump him for 7inch Daddy Showkey.

And this is where you learn that great body bursting sex ivery important to women and when a woman becomes a wife, it becomes very very very very important to them.

A wife needs to have that scream and earth shaking orgasm where she is the one begging you to stop and after that she may run from you. She needs to have this kind of sex at least once a month at least.

And after that over great sex she can stay months managing the regular normal sex which we 4inches guys think is the greatest sex ever.

And even if she orgasms, my brother, she is still managing you. You are still not enough and she is still managing you, silently waiting for her body to recover from that last wow and screaming experience in readiness for another one.

And that is why she is always in contact with the guy who gives her that great sex and always opens up to him whenever he calls.

Or she goes to him whenever she has waited for him to but he has not called.

And this is the plight of women who are not virgins.

And it is always after they have had this deep and satisfying sex is when they calm down and even look like people who are not hungry for sex or look people who hate sex or look like people who do not even forkk.

Which many of us mistake for good girl.

And because she moans and maybe even orgasms a little we think we have hit the spot and have satisfied our girl.

Bros, you miss.

She is just managing you and passing time with you till her orgasm clock is full

Delete!

Why pastor no give an time line after all travel is a part of life?

Ebele you are talking lubbish. Which grant Omo nile dey use sell land wey everybody dey buy yet, they are the owner?

Abeg, leave all dose nonsense nonsense law wey the bandits wey una dey call govt dey use take tiff from we the masses.

Meanwhile all these property matter we don dey do am dey come even before dose oyibo bandits come here Kon bring all dia lie-lie and tiff tiff law come tiff our resources.

haggai247:
Baba make I just tell you the truth you've low testosterone watch what you eat.

Here's my stacks of tools

You see those five guys they are the 5 horse men in the apocalypse.

You can't take these and not satisfy any woman.

No alcohol except for one and it's a medication for malaria (heem leave).

I almost lost my live in 1997 was carried everywhere for solution untill I met one man.

Na old man wey marry 59 wives or so show me road.

Google the name Chief Simon Odo.

Oh. Thanks make I check am before dem come carry my wife go

haggai247:
Baba my tools no big ooo infant na micro peninsula I get but i fit last till thy kingdom come.

If I joke with any babe say I get small peninsula na corner eye dem dey take look me sef.

Just use the tools very well. I don't drink or smoke.

Maybe na gift because me I dey badly fail for dat department and since my wife born, she Kon deep well well and don Kon wide small. So now she no dey music again and e be like say Maker disable that app.

haggai247:
Person wey say sugar mummy no dey no know anything.

Why them carry me go bale palace and banish me from the community?

I was helping bale sister before it extend to his wife's.

Everything cast when i say I no do again.

Women can't keep shut when they have good sex...they tell it to their "trusted friends" and tell her not to tell anyone.

Their trusted friends tell his one and only trusted friends and tell her not to tell anyone.

Na so full community begin dey watch me ooo even moving to another location no solve the problem before bale(,king) say make I go find another community stay.

Get good in bed you fit go viral...

Abi na the man wey no fit do him wife well them dey pass dey hear screaming from my window. Ayomide na God go judge you just to keep quiet you can't.

Them laugh pass before you know madam begin dey look me one kind eye anytime I go her shop go buy something.

One thing lead to another madam don dey find me come house.

Before I know oga don dey greet me for road.

We jam for football field oga call me go corner to ask weird questions about my secret I give am fake things...

I've many crazy stories...God forgive me.

Shey on top your good sex, you Kon long join, shey?

My wife need dat looong big thing and me na small I dey small everyday, men, I don weak

Yes. I said it and I know that you all know that this is True. For we have all seen and experienced that some of us are better alone and that many of us even do and fare very very well when we are a lone or a one.

And that is why we have loners, introverts and people who would rather work in the house than go out to work in a place called an office or a market

That is why we have people who thankful for online work rather to go out and meet their neighbors.

And that is why some people are over shy and have small dicks and are ugly, and are too tall or too short; and some people suffer some form of infirmity or disability, or mental distortion; or some too selfish and self centered or some too sacrificial.

When we look at this things and you look at the demands of marriage, if you look, you would all remember that we say people like this cannot marry and should not marry. Because these kind of people especially for men who have all these, you people cannot meet the demands of marriage.

All these issues will be like a traveling with a car that either 1 or 2 of it's tyres are not turning.

So, you are always going to have an issue during your marriage journey.

So, i am beginning to think and see that not everyone should seek to be married.

Samakus:
Say the truth oga. You noticed that if you go fast and kpa kpa kpa, you pour like chicken.

Go treat yourself

If your wife want kpa kpa kpa, give it to her na. Abi your dick game dey poor?

BTW, how does your woman cum with slow digs? Cos once a woman approaches the point of orgasm, you will demand you kpa kpa kpa. What are you not telling us?

The man up has said it. It is more about hunger to eat other men than about kpa kpa kpa

Dtruthspeaker:
Calm down man. Marriage is indeed not easy but so far you have had a good run and you have eaten the rewards of faithfulness.

So all you need to do is to learn and understand the new problems and create a new solution to it. At least she has not yet run out to satisfy herself, so that means that she is putting up a fight. So don't give up.

And no think all those cuckold shit, yes it would appear that they might give you release however, it is temporary and very short lived. And the pain of her screaming under another man's diq and hands will make you drink snyper. So in the end those things only escalated the pain you are trying to assuage.

Hmmm.

I am seriously considering open marriage and all, including cuckold because of what is the value of faithfulness if a spouse is not satisfied?

If I had known it was going to be like this then it is better I did not marry.

Meen, marriage is very very hard. It's as if the longer you are married the worser and harder things get. And there are many many things worser than cheating which can break up a marriage. Eg changes.

So many changes and surprises that one is unprepared for.

For example I am a slow rider, and I have been that way since I married and the wife has been orgasming, even multiple times.

And since we are relying on withdrawal method, as even pre cum can make her pregnant, I dare not go fast cus everytime I go fast, any sperm in the pipe which enters her, is pregnancy immediately

So to avoid poverty, I must be slow. And now I noticed that even though the wife has orgasm she is not satisfied and from my short bursts of kpa kpa kpa I can see that she is in great need of furious room 403 banging.

Which is what led me to see that orgasm does not always mean satisfaction. And now I know it is true that statement "treat your wife like a queen but fvck her like a whøre.

But I cannot give that to her. Make una help cos me I won die comot for dis marriage. Which kain disgrace be dis.

Nnamdipapa:
Are you ok, the minor was pregnant for him. What other evidence do you need and why are people becoming less intelligent these days. Olanrewaju accepted and never denied the pregnancy.
A teacher impregnate an SS1 student and you are defending him.

I would have arranged for Olanrewaju to meet with an accident were the girl my child and, will not marry my child to the rapist.

Look at your story. No where did you say she was raped. No where did all the people around you say she was raped. No where did her parents who even care for her more than you say she was raped. C'mon is this how easy a woman can spin you?

Look at all the cases of rape here, it is loud and clear and everyone immediately pointed it out. But you and all the people around you and her parents never said any rape occurred.

So really, you are behaving like a scorned lover and crying more than the bereaved.

Where you her boyfriend before the corper came and stole her from you? Not to think that you are now married and even have a side chick yet this corper is still paining you? Man, you are more jealous than me. If you were in my shoes you would have killed your wife.

Nnamdipapa:
Why? Was she well serviced. Do you feel good about the whole experience?

Of course. That is the advantage of virginity. But what I did not know was that many changes would occur like child birth and that variety things also sometimes affect virgins.

And me, I already have a lot of disadvantages so I did not want to stick around anymore. And since she was trying to be faithful I found it even more painful so I wanted to push her into it so that I could be free either no matter what.

But we had a truth to truth talk and we began tracing and discovering that a lot of things we don't want sneak into us unknowingly. And these things grow into something powerful that begins to push us to act in a certain way which we did not wish to do.

So the more we saw the more we understood and the more she declared her love and preference for me, even though I wanted to leave because I know that there are better guys out there.

So, right now we are playing Mr and Mrs Smith watching out for those tiny sneaky shits that creep in on us unawares

Nnamdipapa:
To be frank, she was not insulting anyone, just emphasis on the position of the fellow who was defending a rapist.

You are not saying the truth. From beginning to end all she does is insult. Meanwhile you did not call him a rapist when you first gave us the case, as we can see in the beginning until the lady came in
So lawyer is right in pointing out the things that show no rape occurred. And the law cannot be punishing somebody simply because people have accused him. It must go through process.

dragonflyy:
that thing no be insult boss.Na the bros argument wey she finish.

Since when did smelling butt become a part of an argument?

Do you not know that any argument that attacks a person rather than the argument is wrong?

All she did was to insult and insult him while trying to argue at the same time. If you remove the insults and look at her arguments you would see that she was just talking her own and how she wants it to be. Meanwhile, law moves in ways we common people do not understand and sometimes do not like but procedure, is procedure.

You can not expect that because a person has been accused so he must be judged guilty. There are procedures which is what I think the guy is saying. And this is of course as he said even the op did not think rape when it was happening.

All is well now. Wish I could delete this thread.

dragonflyy:
Jesus, which person pikin Dem finish like dis? 😭😭💀

That means her arguments have no value so she is using insults and abuse to make her point.

floss:
Just take care of your kids after confirming they’re yours, stop worrying who fvcks your wife, she’s the one that will realise how fvcked up she’s been, and if she decides to divorce you, accept it and continue with your life, at least you fvcked her your own share to your satisfaction, you can get a lot of fvcking outside, get yourself another hoe for your satisfaction and life continues.

Your kids should be your priority

You obviously think marriage is a club where you dance with as many partners as you get or want.

Well, I respect your choice but for me I want to look back with her when we are 90 and I get to remind her that we have accomplished the Westlife song "I wanna grow old with you, I wanna die lying in your arms...'

And we have just finished the first half. So second half has just started.

Kobojunkie:
According to your culture, marrying a person is marrying the person's family. A sensible person, aware of this basic fact, would make certain to screen both the potential partner as well as the partner's relationships/familial bonds in deciding whether there is a good or bad match.

I don't know what you mean by marrying a person's family, but I do know that marriage means relating with people who you may not have related with if the marriage had not occurred.

Of which it is still the same type of relationship which you have with your own family members some of whom you would not have related with if not that you people are related.

Same for some colleagues at the office or worse, your boss

So, it is still a thing of having a decent and reasonable relationship with people who it needs be that you relate with.