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Well, thanks for this I was going to say something but I had to relax cos I don't expect everyone to be honest with me here so let's just continue. Thanks alot

AsomArchitectNG:
You see my friend, when giving advice especially on sensitive issues like this bothering someone, it's imperative you think before you talk and not the other way round

Amen

Onyiiobi7735:
He can stop it by God's Grace

Word!!! Bro word

Vinnie2000:
OP
Mr Clighton up There don Pieces everything for You!

Follow the Advice, ok?

I want to add, Get a Girlfriend ASAP! Although some Nigerian Girls are useless!

SmellySperm:
You can only limit it. Sometimes when the urge comes,get a weed, light it up and start reasoning how to level up financially.
#goodluck bro

to be honest I have done this and it worked I stayed 3months n didn't fap. Thanks man.

Thanks alot tho I'm not a regular church goer but I'll try

Clinghton:
Make a conscious effort to stop it by;

1, Any ungodly video or music should be deleted.

2, Download musics and videos that would help you spiritually.

3, Study the word of God, apart from Sunday church attend weekly activities.

* if you can't practice all these I would advice you seek help from a church member who's filled with the holy spirit.

MrBrownJay1:
you can either cut both your arms or cut your dikc....choice is yours!

hahahaha

Good evening everyone, happy New month and wishing you all the best in this December.

So like the topic says, yes I masturbate and I want to stop it completely ( I'm not addicted, just once in a while) but for some reason I haven't been able to stop it completely, I came across a post here yesterday about a guy who was complaining of getting old and haven't achieve anything yet and sometimes things goes well for him and before he knows it all goes back to zero. (Exactly what's happening to me) and alot of people was asking if he masturbate which he said no but he watches porn. In the comments there was this comment that got me, the person said (if u are masturbating and life is going well for u, den continue).

So I went online did some research and what alot of big names have in common is that (I quit masturbating) and now I'm feeling bad like I don't know how to describe how I'm feeling, but I want to stop it completely.

I am not in a relationship tho, and I'm not a fan of going to a brothel cos honestly I haven't done that before (the brothel thing).

I know to stop a particular habit u have to replace it with another one so please I'm asking, if you use to masturbate and have stopped completely how did u go about it and what do you do when the urge comes.

I don't want to start 2022 with this same issue.
I feel I have delayed myself alot.

Real talks please.
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I really haven’t got the message from the video though

the girl betrayed him

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torqque7:
Hmm bro I went through exactly the same thing u are experiencing now,mine i was even the one who disvirgin am but bad friends influenced her and she started playing with drugs and weed,she is still young and a student and beautiful too so her beauty also got into her head..it didn't end well and I was real hurt but had to move on and I'm happy now with my present partner..I'm just telling u to get ready cos it won't end well,sorry but she has started fv.cking another small yahoo boy probably thats y she is bold enough to put up statuses like u say she does..exactly my story and when I found out she mess.ed a yahoo boy,omoh that was the end o,I started fv.c.king girls like mad and she couldn't bear the fact that I was fv.ck.ing other girls,,first to do no de pain,na second to do the pain pass ,the relationship went down from there even sex was nolonger sweet or interesting with her,omoh I move ahead to a wife material and I'm very happy now and most importantly I have peace of mind..

Thanks man i really appreciate.

generalwo:
..... Well maybe I didn't read it well sha...... I didn't see where u mentioned she was into cultism or moved with cultists.... That's a no no for me....... I once dated a cultist and it wasn't funny...... If she is moving with a cultist, the day the cultist develops interest in her.... You have kissed peace good bye so for your own good..... Delete her from your life immediately.... Sorry for the misconception

i didn't say shes into cult shit I said she started posting it and some other things

Joe4real1988:
Bro they have given u a sound advice here. Just leave her with no consideration since she not serious about life yet and take your time search for a serious lady. U might as well consider lowering your standard like beauty, shape.......... to get what u want. Not too beautiful ones are better option when it comes to wifing coz the too beautiful ones are so full of themselves and want the world to revolve around them.

Thanks a lot bro, I really appreciate everyone yall are the real families, I already told her I'm done asked her to come drop the car and I gave her 150k... not cos I have the money but cos she told me before that she had to get some stuff for her mum, it's really not my problem if she lying or not tho. I can't thank you all enough.

Gfskw:
Don’t waste your time on these hoesss bro

Better impregnate one and take care of your baby and enjoy your life . I broke up recently with a jobless girlfriend turned bitcchhh to me having spent on her ,she claim no sex till I marry her when she is not a virgin and has been fuccvkkking other dude before me . She took me for a simp

thanks man, really trying to pull myself together today bro i appreciate.

Mcslize:
Dating is one thing. Marriage is another ball game. This is the right time to know if you will be able to condole some certain things in the relationship or not.

When it comes to marriage, there should be no compromises. You may be putting marriage in mind but to her, she still want to flex. I believe she is still in her early to late 20's.

Girls of that age range only think about flexing, nothing else. You might feel quite disappointed that she isn't even feeling concerned about settling down soon.

Marriage is not a one night stand. It is a life long journey. If you get it wrong with the wrong person, you won't enjoy it but rather endure it. Nobody wants that.

Look well before you leap!

Thanks alot been really down today this gives me hope. Yes early 20s

aktolly54:
Op. Are you sure she isn't a runs babe? Check codedruns or other site like that confirm ooo

never crossed my mind tho

generalwo:
...... At times I feel nairaland has become a place for stupid things all over...... As if disturbing people with relationship issues isn't enough, u had to come up with dumb reasons why you broke up a relationship...... So she should become an island because she is dating you...... U want her to be with you inside the house 24/7 and open her legs for u always to lash...... U don't want her to go out with friends because you're the president's son...... The girl deserves a man better than you..... Simple..... No be say u catch her dey sleep with one of the friends...... Because she dey go out with them, u break up with her...... I am sure you're among those hailing obi Cubana up and down...... Check one thing he has in common with your ex girlfriend..... Both of them have friends...... As far as she no cheat on you, you have no justification to break up..... Anyway, it's your loss..... She will eventually meet a guy who will love her truly and last last... Her friends network fit help her man achieve great heights..... Your loss dude.... Your loss

what about the drugs n the cult thing, n did I mention she has a friend who's a tomboi? It's my prayer for her to be happy I'm just hurt n u won't understand my friend had to come check up on me today just to know if I haven't drowned in alcohol

Belafonte:
Your woman is under the influence of another man (or men). I guarantee you, she's gone.

She chosen the streets, respect her choice and have peace

this is exactly what my friends are telling me

BluntCrazeMan:
You piss her off you know...
You have a lot of standards which you abide with, yet you don't know the basis and the fundamentals of these standards, and thus, some of these standards contradict themselves because they have different basis and different directions of thought, but you're not aware.. All you care about is to copy-and-paste these standards into your life and then impose them on people that come into your life.
Now, the fact that the lady changed after she started dating you confirmed the above hypothesis.
You frustrated her with your too much perfectness which you don't even understand properly.
..
So, check yourself again.
But this time, deeper thoughtful checking.

ok, I believe in respecting people tho

DonCandido:
Op, you won't like this, but it has to be said;

No REAL man breaks up with his girlfriend for such a FLIMSY EXCUSE as given by you.

It is apparent from your write up that you are a control FREAK who is clearly getting out of control. You unreasonably seek to DOMINATE the spirit of a clearly extrovert girlfriend (not even a wife o) by constituting yourself into a MONITORING SPIRIT.

You need to see a PSYCHIATRIST IMMEDIATELY to help you out.

You are not your girlfriend's father, mother or husband and thus you don't get to have a say in her choice of friends. NOBODY has appointed you to monitor her movements. Her parents are still alive, so let them do their duty.

LEAVE her alone and look for another girlfriend you can turn into an household upholstery.

If your fear -as I suspect- is that she is cheating or likely to cheat while out with her friends, just ask her to allow you to be part of these outings sometimes.

Op, has it occurred to you that if eventually she agrees to marry you, some of her friends may end up being part of circle of family friends?

DON'T cut your nose to spite your face op. You will not lose anything by respecting your girlfriend; by trusting her choice of friends; by not attempting to restrict her movements; by trusting her absolutely without any preconditions.

Remember always that she is not your charge at this point having not married her legally, PLEASE allow the poor girl to EXHALE!
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Hmm ok

Draconian:
Get a baby mama and have the product you are avoiding or dislike in your girlfriend.
Get married the proper way and refrain from being a baby daddy. Don't bring menace to the society when there won't be the onservative way of parenthood

thanks

[quote author=Juliearth post=104179252][/quote]I'm sorry I let my emotions get hold of me I apologize

Blackdisciple:
Take a little of her off your mind for now and keep watching her while you continue your hustle.......

I'll try but I don't know how long tbh I don't want to cheat on her, I know I'm no saint but I just don't want to

Nzel:
@citywal it's nice you noticed the change in behavior. Since you've talked to her and she doesn't want to listen, move on with your life. I wonder why this my gender will choose to stay out so late with strangers even with the much danger roaming around. Another thing is the friends she associates with.

ok thanks

int0x80:
What did you expect from a 20yr old kid? Is she done with school yet? Give her some time, she will turn around!

Hmmm

HRSweetness:
What is Molly? Hard drugs?

yes real hard drugs

CrossRiverian:
I will recommend a book for you to read. Just give yourself one week and your worries will be over. Peace of mind you will find after all.

"MARS AND VENUS ON A DATE"
.... By John Grey, Ph.D
Good luck young man!

thanks I'll try to get it on audio