@berrybass, thanks for allowing dh bd last night. you hv given devil a knockout. well done.

@omonikiba. your response is wonderful. the devil is a bastard. he can't continue fooling the apple of God's eye. Its time to show him where he actually belongs. Enough of his lies and deceits.

@seanbell, am not supporting you neither am I against your views concerning dh and dw issues. my experience so far has thought me otherwise,

@all listen to this. I have a very very close family friend whose dh rose from nothing to greatness by the grace of God. this dh has a childhood lady friend married with kids. one day, my friend showed me a text msg from her dh meant for her dh girl friend but mistakenly sent to her phone ("my love pls collect key from the reception, its room blablabla, I will soon join you"). my friend went mad, I encouraged her to ignore it, she refused, confronted her dh & her dh denied it & accused her of being the flirt. The issue was resolved. few months later, her dh traveled with this same lady friend, bought her an Indian wig & other things, some receipts bearing the lady's name was mistakenly left in her dh traveling bag. my friend saw the receipts. called her children, because she has four kids, told them everything, called her parents, told them every thing, called her parents, sister/brothers in-law told them everything, wrote a suicide note stating her reason of wanting to kill herself, @all, I was not aware of this issue until one day her dh asked me & my dh to pls see him the next day. We went, saw other people, like 20 pple, ie, the dw's relatives and man's relatives too.the man showed us the suicide note, told us his reason for inviting us was to say its over between him and his dw. He wants to marry that his girl friend as his dw has decided to kill herself because of a mere flirting. @all, non of us could speak. After a while, the men begged and begged him, he refused to yield, No bi small thing. we left, it lingered Upto a year, before the issue was resolved, during this period, the dw saw hail in her marriage, the man permanently relocated because he is a contractor,

I seen and heard about men who married a second wife or made their dw married but singe because of minor issues. Being confrontational as far as am concerned has NEVER and will never change men. A woman came to my working place few years ago to disgrace her dh and a lady staff because she hard they are dating, @all, after, that disgrace, the man and the lady are now inseparable, they are always seen together, I was told the man most times sleeps in the lady's house.

sorry for the long epistle as usual, marriage, dh flirting or other behaviors needs extra wisdom, men have serious ego and they will never seat back and watch a woman deflect their ego. they are ready to do the unimaginable to protect it, my council is @safe06 101 advice to @doublebles. Forget what you watch of TV/movie/pulpit. A wise woman builds her house while a foolish one destroys it with her own hand. silence is golden. Mostly importantly, I have leanrt to fight with my knees instead of my mouth.

(((e-hugs)))

@safe06. u too good ooo. this ur wish to @dreamisbc. supporters club ke, una no see me ooo. my hand is on my head

@safe06, sweet baby, figure 8 baby, d only tomato is her dh stew, d only peppermint in her dh mouth, d baby we em mama born laugh,. be strong u hear, no mind watin devil dey do. yours is closer then u think. as u dey make us laugh so, no so God go make u be like that man wey give testimony for my church this week. triplets 3 times in 3 years. amen. ((((hugs)))

@all, azoto, atinga, makosa, all join, that is what am dancing now oooo. who no no go know say God dey faithful.
@blessedmom, when u were doing e-battle with goldenbaby, shebi I tell una say na early pregnancy symptom dey worry una. make u go read my post again. ooooo. This our God, you tooooo much oooo. devil u b bassssstard. @safe06, see say ur prediction no work. .

@goldenbaby, go check urself for ur bfp ooo.

@all, one man come give testimony for my church on Wednesday communion service. he said they waited on God for a child for 9 years, The wife carry belle in the ninth year and delivered triplets, after two years, she carry belle again and delivered triplets, no so the man begin run up and down from hospital to hospital to do family planning, like say God never tire with them, na so the wife carry belle again with the family planning tube the next year and delivered triplets. that is 9 children in 3 years. na so the woman go remove the womb. see as church scatter. This God u toooo much. we dey hail u oga kpatakpata from here.

@mummyf,hmmmmmmmmmm. kill something ke. my love, just put yourself together. Its well wit you. Do you know there are some people who are ttc and hv also not seen af for years now? af only shows when they take drugs. the sight of af naturally makes them sing praises to God Almighty. just be happy. Where were the old men when God gave a young man like Obama, president of America?. No be who first give birth dey make am for life. God is keeping your womb for the best. Its not how far, rather how well. That everybody around you is getting preganant of giving birth can not change God. God's time is the best. hold on to faith, clean your tears, its well with you.

@all. I saw a post here yesterday by @justiade4u[/color. ......pregnancy made easy.......... who follow me see am. I comment but d comment no go, maybe the ogas on top done delete am.. una do wellooooo. to avoid gullible pple like us falling into temptation.

@Goldenbaby, carry go, nothing do u. weldone.

@all, see me dey shout dey scatter everywhere. What a mighty God we serve. I told God that we have been hearing #2 bfb's, its time to answer those looking for the first child/children. God we bless your holy and mighty name. Na so so wonder Jesus dey do.

@nictos love, congratulations...... what a good God. I barricade your life throughout this 9 months by the edge of fire, be soaked and covered with the blood of Jesus. Go and bring forth in due season IJN.

@Neeky1. congras dear.

@omonikiba, though the sisters have said it all. I heard of a woman who's friends pleaded with to do IVF, she refused, saying its unbiblical and devilish, after so many years, she went back to do ivf but was told its too late, her age has passed. she ended up adopting a child last year. she is the first to advice women now to do ivf when there is time/money. In this ttc journey, there is nothing you will not hear o o, just be focused and redirect all questions to God almighty. Its well.

@goldenbaby, am disappointed in you, so you can not still say sorry after all these admonitions?. pls this life is an empty world.

@blessmum: sorry, you hear, life goes on. don't run away from this tread because of this issue. its well with your soul.

@ pink22, @safe06, @mamatriplets, @all how go dey go?. watin my eye see yesterday, my mouth no fit shut up. stay glued to the gist.

my lovely sisters:@chokl8y, @favoredgal, @flakeey, @berrybass, @alwaystrue, @nictos, @amazon1012, @pink22,@safe06, @goldenbaby, @dreaminbc, @omonikiba, @merciful, @igabe, @mamatriplets, @chi16, @beloved1993, @all. I no fit thank una ooo. God bless you so much for your beautiful soul touching birthday messages you sent to me. you are really special in my life. I thank God so much for meeting/interacting with you all. May God give you your heart desires very very soon. joy and laughter will never seize in your homes IJN.

@hebrewwoma. Congratulations. May God's name be praised for your your bundle of joy.

@beloved1993, beloved beloved, your story touched me so much. it allowed tears flow freely on my checks. I love you so much. Keep the hope alive. Its well. the devil is a bassssstard. you are an actor and you will never quite this game for the devil. You must testify very very soon. May the grace and love of God overshadow you. ((((hugs) dear.

@blessedmum & @goldenbaby. e bi like say na early pregnancy symptoms dey worry una. I hear say the thing dey make some people provoke some times. some go even begin quarrel kitchen utensils. I no surprise. make una take am je je . lots of love from me here.

@all, pomb, pomb, pomb, I dey celebrate eeee, I dey pomb champagne, Praisssssse God!!!
but wait a miunte, watin she dey celebrate self, don't mind her, she no see say grey hair don dey come, no pikin yet, presure everywhere, she done old oooo, time don dey fly pass her, almost every thing seems not working. Its a lie, setan, you are a bassssstard. you can't shut me up. I must celebrate.....
Praiseeeee God, God has added another year to his precious daughter (me) today.
follow me thank God oooo

[color=#990000]@ all let me start with wat lead to call d so called" PST VIC", my dh gave me his bb to go repair for him at ikeja, I initailly complained dat I didn't ve d time to go do d repair but I later agreed to help him out. So I went, and d phone was repaired and I was in d brt bus going back home and I decided to keep myself busy with his phone, hmmmmmm wetin my eye see my mouth no fit talk finish o, his convo with a particular lady who happens to be a blast frm d past scared d hell out of me o, my dh apparently flirt non stop with her all day, nothing they actually haven't talked abt, and to make matters worst she is actually married with kids o. Na so I come vex say make I even call dis man of God dat people ve been singing his praises o, cause I felt I needed to save my marriage ASAP, so I called PST vic, today around 12PM he asked me where I was calling frm I told him and asked wat my situation was I explained he now said I [quote][/quote]

@Adedoyinsola, I observed that most pple concentrated on Servant Vic aspect and left this important matter of your hubby flirting with another woman. have you been following the internet on Solomon - Ezinne - Lilian - Uloma saga?.see(lindaikeji..com) Its well. take up the battle yourself in this area with or without Servant Vic. remind God that no woman worths putting asunder in your marriage. ttc is a phase that will surely pass away very soon. Let your knees be your greatest warrior. Don't be worried, your marriage is safe. you are a Conqueror. ((((hugs) love.

as others have said. dropping your bible to me does not mean anything negative. call him again if your spirit leads you.

safe06. thanks love. be careful is the watch word. the lady/dh stays in my former neighborhood. I knew she was married but never knew she was ttc. I can't meet her dh now cos am just too angry to confront him now. might not even see her again cos we hv parked out from that area years back. just ran into her on my way.

hello sweet mummies in the house.

hello lovely mums. @nictos. u still dey do MIA abi. U better show face sharp sharp.
@safe06, hope say ur dh is not still investigating on d real Eve in d Garden?
hmmmmmmmmmmmm so many story about Servant Vic. Na waooo. Its well.
watin dey happen, why ebi say na only those on #2 dey announce BFP this month?. God abeg ooo. ur sweet lovely daughters on #1 dey hold u seriously on ur garment. let bfp's roll IJN this month so dat dis December rice go get plenty chicken inside.

((((hugs))))

ttc!
ttc!! ttc!!!, Lord, pls in ur infinit mercy, let this stage pass away
very soon.
I don't know how I feel. I have been verrry down emotionally since
yesterday. I feel like crying, but tears will not roll, I feel like
praying but words seems too far from me. God pls do not let your own see
shame.
@accurategirl, congratulations. @ omonikiba, your wealth and properties
are for your children and children alone. God said we will never plant
for another to eat nor build for another to inhabit.