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Exjoker:
Whores in disguise

i wonder o.

Exjoker:
It is shame for ladies to beg money from their boyfriend in precisely.... It make them look like whores

some even ask for money before sex. what is the difference then?

Mondisweets:
Just say you are broke and you have nothing to offer, simple!

i am not broke.

kelvinmuffins3:
Both guys and ladies are guilty of this.

Some guys do beg for money from girls and some girl do beg for money from guy.


So it equal.

girls are worse. they have built the mindset that guys are their central bank. they dnt want to help themselves.

what about self-service? many especially guys are guilty of this.

it will work if u are really at fault. guys just beware. dnt break girls' heart.

Frankenstein:
OP... "It is our right! A guy is supposed to give money to girls because that's how it is meant to be. Girls have a lot of needs.

Do you know how much a lady's make-up kits cost or the amount used for hairdos ehn? Not to talk of body creams, perfumes and beauty soaps. Let me not get started with the articles in our shopping lists — the dresses, shoes, handbags and jewelry. Shey you think daddy's money or the meager salaries women earn in their professions can handle all these stuff?

All these things are meant for us to look good and attractive for you guys, cos when we dont look great you will complain. So you have to pay for them joor... Abegi, it is our right to collect cash from guys!"

instead of u to find something good doing, u are relying on guys to meet those needs. i pity u. u should also be ready to spread ur legs too. meagre salary indeed. you can continue ur begging profession.

BobNeli:
You with ur romantic eyes. Waiting u dey look for, under?

why e open am for my front?

Stephxoblessed:
not just money even asking him to buy stuffs for you.with time,you become a liability.

true

GozieDiora:
Hey, before we go about shouting, "expository, I've learned something today!", let's bear in mind that a good deal of what the OP stated above are more opinionated than factual. We've always known about these debates but you don't expect our institutions to swiftly start teaching these controversies. I don't know why we derive pleasure from calling ourselves names. The subject of this thread implicitly suggests that Nigeria is way backwards for teaching these stuffs yet most of them are still taught in the Western world. Gone are the days when teachers were the only source of knowledge. Today, we have the Internet and most things are verifiable. Some of us do have American Curriculum for Basic classes and most of these arguable stuffs are not even there. It takes long for researches to find its way into academic schemes, dudes.

Once again, these are someone's opinion. We should mind the way we copy stuffs from the Internet and paste here with misleading captions.

Nice research, though.

u are right. let us not just jump into conclusion.

none

girls and begging of money is too much.

ugojamali:
Inspired piece. True words from the op. The main point in life is to live it the way it suits you. What makes you happy... Do it. It's never advisable to fall in love online but if you ever find yourself falling, then by no means act on it.

It may not work but still telling a woman you care about her is fun in many ways so do it. Dream and fantasize of that would add some light in your life.

The point is. .. whatever you want to do for happiness just do it. Don't let hypocrites who you could probably be beta than in real life ruin your happiness with their bashing. Let them bash till thy Kingdom come while you do crazy stuffs that many of them would like to do but probably feel too inferior or shy to do.

true talk. you dey talk true.

Elantracey:
It has absolutely nothing to do with this discussion , do you know whether he had sex before she became a Christian and then choose to abstain from it? Whether she is or nor have no business with you .


Your sense of reasoning really baffles me and I don't really blame you , prolly because of the kind of girls you've met.

story for the gods.

Oluwatosean:
m nt saying u r broke. I dont just bliv a guy go send 11k give person wey im no knw. Ok, do u work? Cuz if u r a studnt den its a no no no to me

so i should start telling u my life story because i gave someone 11k? if u dnt believe it is your own business.

Elantracey:
Nice response, I wonder what that have to so with this discussion .

it has everything to with the discussion. since she says pre-marital sex is a sin. it means that she must be a virgin. isn't it? i know she is lying when she said that she can woo a guy.

VickyyB:
1) I can woo a guy.

2) My virginity is none of your business.

abeg vicckyy, nor let me laugh?

VickyyB:
I can't ask a guy for sex because I'm a Christian and it's morally and religiously wrong to engage on pre-marital affairs, not because of people's opinion.
But I can ask my husband for sex. Lol, no need because men has higher libido than women and are interested anytime.

I can ask a guy out and that should be through making some signs or internet. You catch my drift?

can u woo a guy?

So, are u a virgin?

Elantracey:
now someone is acting like he knows me .



Lemme give you an advice , don't speak with so much certainty about someone you know nothing about .

are u nt a girl? Or are u with a di'ck?

VickyyB:
Exactly!
They are quick to make fallacy of hasty generalisation when it comes to girls. Smh

have you seen any girl in a relationship with a guy that has nt begged? Even those that are nt in a relationship still begs like my encounter above. It is just in their blood to beg boys money.

Elantracey:
That's just you and it doesn't speak for all guys same way your post doesn't speak for all girls .

all girls beg guys money including you.

@vickyyB

talk another thing. Can you ask a guy of sex? Can you also ask a guy out as a lady?

Oluwatosean:
Me adonbilivit, 3k+7k=10k. Oya tell me wea a boy go see 10k give ha gf nt to talk of person wey u no knw

so, u think i'm broke?

Elantracey:
That's all .


You guys are always quick to run a lady down but forget that you yourselves are also beggers , even though I don't support begging guys for Money and your post is only true when its extreme just as your story implies .

i dnt beg girls money at all.

A Lady should not ask a guy out, cos it will make the lady look cheap people will say.

A Lady should not ask a guy of sex because it will make the lady look cheap people will say.

A lady should not woo a guy cos it will make the lady look cheap people will also say.

But what about begging a guy money? Would it not make the lady cheap also?

When it comes to begging a guy money, ladies dnt see it as making themselves cheap.
Let me ask. ladies, are you not making yourself cheap when you beg boys money? Why should you beg a boy money when you want to protect your dignity? Ladies are really funny. So, begging money from guys doesn't affact the dignity abi? Funny tins.

There was one lady i added on facebook and she accepted and we became friends. We use to chat often. After 3weeks, she told me that i should help her with the sum of 3k that her parent is broke now and that she is passing through tough times. I told her to send me her bank account details and the next day i pay 4k into her account. She said thank you.
After 2weeks, she told me again to help her with 7k telling me all sought of story as before. I pitied her and payed it into her account. In a month's time, she came demanding for 7k again, i then get annoyed and told her that she is making herself cheap by begging me money every time, that i'm not her boyfriend nor a central bank. I told her that i just felt pity for her that was why i gave her those money, that i now know the kind of a worthless beggar she is. Trying to use me. I then quickly deleted her from my friends' list.

Know this as a lady, that when you beg boys money, you are also making youself cheap and reducing your worth. Real ladies don't beg money like beggar. If you cannot ask a guy out or tell a guy that you want sex, don't also beg him money at all. You are also making yourself cheap by doing that. So, ladies don't beg guys money again.

may God bless the op.

those that have wide mouth can talk. it doesn't affect me at all.

what is happening here? i have been out since.

iceberylin:
Story for the Gods...

it is a word for all nairaland guys. Those chicken hearted and shy type.

If you like any nairaland babe, don't be afraid to tell her that you like her and wants her to be your girlfriend. Don't allow anybody to intimidate you. Don't be shy, go ahead and tell her that you are in love with her. Announce it to everybody, let them hear it. You dnt owe anybody any apology for doing that. Tell her boldly that you loves her. The worst thing she can do, is to say 'no' or reject you. But you have acted like the man you are. Go for what you want. Dnt allow pretenders or hypocrite to dissuade you from your goal of getting that nairaland babe. That is why nobody whether boy, girl, man, woman or even the devil can intimidate me. If i want a girl, i go for her. I tell her the truth. If she like, let her say 'no', i dnt care. But i have done my bid. That was why i can tell Mprex, farano, eroticangelina etc that i am astound at their beauty and i would like us to be real friends.

Go ahead, tell that girl your mind. Don't be afraid of her. You loves her? Why not go for her? Why behaving like a chicken? Please, be bold.