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Oizee:
for sure they will reap what they sow, but he should forgive too.

yeah... AND EVEN carry their financial burden... Or.. No wait.. He should collect his salary and give them everything then wait for them to give him whatever they wish out of the salary... Forgive ko.. Forgive ni

luminouz:
jesus. you are fighting another dude over a fake ass story bro?

OH.. You found out its fake?

OA01:
You have all right and justification to get angry at all of them.

Remember! You can't achieve anything without the mercy and grace of God, most especially the love of God.

You need to reciprocate the mercy, grace and love God bestowed on you back to them.

This is very hard to do, but you still need to do it for the sake of their creator.

You don't deserve the position you are today by virtue of the circumstances that befell you but mercy took you there.

Do what is in thy power to do for them all, if God grant you the grace.

God is respecter of nobody, whatsoever one plants shall he reaps.

Brother! Start planting good seed now.

My advice: call the child back and apologize for how you spoke to her/him because just like you, you don't know where he/she can get to.

Assist him/her in your capacity.

God will continue to help you

Yes.. He should go and even beg his parents.. Roll in the mud sef... Whenever he collects his salary.. He should hand everything over to his parents.. Then wait for them to give him whatever they want.. Since you want to be very stupid

Timekeeper:
Listen and listen good.
He can forgive them but not still help them out...

Forgiveness does not have to do with Helping them.


I'm sure u don't know the kind of burden in this man heart.... He can forgive so as to let go of this burden

Can you hear yourself... Those people don't even want his forgiveness... They want his money... The first thing they did was to send their financial burden to him

DemonInvoker:
OP Have a Forgiving Spirit and Forgive your moda fvcking Family Members and only use your head while dealing with them.
E get why...Who Rise now fit fall tomorrow and who dey ground now fit still Rise..No man is an Island ooo.

If he should fall tommorrow definitely not those dead beat parents will raise him up

Sparkle777:
pls forgive them but dnt ever eat their food or sleep in same house wit them. help them in any way u can but dnt go the extra mile. pls never ever trust them, they may poison u cos their own favorite children is not up and doing,trust me on this.
call them once a while and let them bless u and pray for u. give only what u can but dnt let ur guards off.

What prayers and blessings does he need from a deadbeat parents? They should keep their blessings to themselves and use it to turn their own lives around... So they won't need to ask him for money

Oizee:
what's the essence of forgiveness if he will still retaliate the same way? They are still his parents and that's the angle I'm looking at.
God has been merciful to him despite all he went through. May God bless him with a virtuous lady too. Let him liv vengeance for God. Wether or not he takes care of them, they will still reap what they sow, there's no point in paying them back d same way

No dey dey stupid with religion.. I hate am... The Bible said.. He who dosent provide for his family is worse than an infidel

Froshloaded:
Ikr..

There is this bible saying "Honour thy father and Mother, so your days shall be long"

He should not commit a sin because of his parents..

Honor your father and thy mother... You no read it down.. Where that same Bible said.. Parents.. Provoke not your children

Oizee:
Nawao, ur case is like that of someone I know, but his mum was there all tru, she sacrificed all she had. The dad was completely absent, he didn't even know when he finished pri/sec sch.
God bless d guy and he got a job, he lost his mum shortly after.
Now d dad is really in a bad condition and not that he remarried after the separation from deir mom, he wasted his life to alcohol.
He was a serious drunkard. He has 3 kids from d woman and my friend is d first born and only male. The younger ones are married, d man will be calling dem and be reporting dem to people as if he was there for them and the children are now neglecting him.
One woman told my friend that he should look at the whole thing as a challenge in life and as a test from God.
Your parent failed themselves and God, don't be like them, God will continue to protect and bless you more.
But do only what u are capable of doing and don't go extra mile for them, cuz they don't deserve it. But inorder to get total blessing from ur God, please take care of them in any little way you can but don't abandoned them, don't commit sin out of pain.

Very very stupid take.... They deserve nothing from him.. Religion makes people greatly stupid sha.... Even the Bible said.. Thou shall reap why you sow

GboyegaD:
So being childish and relationships are not about money.

Relationships are about giving.. We can't have a relationship with each other.. Without giving

Kemimarch16:
Honestly I understand what you are going through but just forgive and forget and assist them in the way that will not affect u,don't do anything that will affect u to them

Nah trash talk be this sha.. Make we no lie.. Forgive and assist them... Oh.. So they get away with thier actions right Can you forgive and assist someone who maybe.. Killed your child? Then why should he assist someone who abandoned him.. If he had died.. Would they have cared.. Christianity is making some of you irredeemably stupid and manipulative at the same time.. Even the Bible says... A man reaps what he sows

Vokians:
Bro. Let bye gone be bye gone. You are a success today is not by your power. It may be you are destined to be an helper. Your parents and half brothers and sisters are still your family. Do not pay them back in their own coin. No one knows tomorrow.

Omo. Make I no lie.. This talk stupid sha... Who made them his family?? Family is who loves and supports you

GboyegaD:
Do you need help with comprehension? Did I ask him to give out money?

Then what exactly were you driving at with your stupid talk of forgiveness.. How can he forgive wothout giving them money, oh.. It's people like you that plan to abandon your children then come back to beg them when they have made something out of themselves later ehn If you want a wet floor, you pour water on the floor... Even the bible says.. A man will reap what he sows... Like.. These People are only trying to get back into his life because he has made it financially.. Like.. The first point of contact was to send their children to ask him for money... He doesn't need such people around him... He should cut them away from his life.. Without looking back

Timekeeper:
Not like parents sir.... He can forgive them but will not get close to them... It is possible.


Gracia Master.... U av done so good... Thanks

Your take is trash.... Would you abandon your 2 year old child, if he had died... Would they have come back for him?? Don't you dare emotionally manipulate this guy.... Op.. If you forgive them and take on extra financial burden from very toxic people.. Op.. I swear to The almight God.. You will live to regret it.. Im talking from experience

OlawaleBammie:
God forgives me bro..



But if I were u even God knows that that is what I would do.

I can't respect a parent who didn't care about me while growing up. Never!!!


Oga, it would be better if u don't let them know Ur ous o, so DAT they won't go and park them family people come dey beg u.

And pls don't even plan to take any of their children into Ur ous.

Just live Ur life jejely and enjoy Ur sef.

WEN THEY GROW OLD VERY WELL AND DIE, DO THEIR BURIAL IN AN ELABORATE AND GIGANTIC WAY JUST LIKE NIGERIA DID YARADUA OWN.


TO ME THAT IS THE ONLY THIN U OWE DEM.

bleep nonsense

I swear down..people should stop trying to make people escape repercussions from their actions by forgiveness...

benjida:
His parents are pure evil. A 2 year old child for crying out loud!!!

Like and some people are trying to say some bullshitty.. Forgiveness.

Froshloaded:
I've read it.



Hell no.




This is life for you o..

I feel he should just forgive his parents and do what he can afford ..


BTW are you a christian?

Why should he do what he can afford... Were they there for him,.. Did they clothe him.. Did they show him love,... If he forgives them.. He would only add a financial burden to himself... How do you abandon a child.. The. Come back years later to come apologize just cos you want money from him... Forgiveness jo.. Forgiver ni..he should move away fast from them

Mindlog:
Both parents are yet to acknowledge that they did wrong, dismissing the wrong they did to their child. No mea culpa but feel entitled to assistance from a son they deliberately abandoned to experience a traumatic childhood.

This is not just about forgiving or not but are you capable of accommodating their toxicity? Uninvolved parenting tends to have adverse effect on an individual up to adulthood as most tend to have difficulties forming attachments.

Like that's the issue here.. They are both manipulative... They just want the money

Ishilove:
He doesn't owe them a dime. They failed in their responsibilities as his parents.


Yes I am.

Like people should not use this Christianity to promote bullshit... If you want a wet floor, you pour water on the floor... You can't take me through hell and tell me to "forgive`

adebayo3449:
I don't want to say much about this.
But I will advise you to call the young lady back and help her, if you have the capacity.

Don't you dare emotionally manipulate this guy.. They deserve nothing from him

uboma:
This is deep.

The final decision is entirely yours to make.

Please forgive your parents and assist if you have the means.

Remember that their blood runs in you. No one can choose his/her parents.

What you went through and the total abandonment from them was very painful.

Put the past behind you. Forgive them and free yourself the emotional trauma.

Whatever decision you take, I wish you all the best.

If you need us to talk more about these, do contact me via the private mail.

This is a very bullshitty talk... These people are just trying to come back to his life to put financial burden on him.. Family isn't by blood.. Family is who loves you. If the op needs a family.. He should get married to a woman he loves and who loves him in return... Oh.. He should forgive and start taking over their financial burden? Ask yourself this question.. If he had died, would they have cared?? How the hell do you abandon a 2 years old child and expect to escape repercussions by way of forgiveness??.. These people are coming back for the money

GboyegaD:
One of the things I read here is ignorance on their part. One might be thinking he is punishing the other without recourse to jow the instrument used (you in this case) feels about it.

They have erred and deserve forgiveness. Having a relationship with them to know their person, ideology, and character flaws as a way of guiding yourself is no crime. You do not need part with your money to achieve this.

Alaye shut the Bleep up... If you mess up to people you can't escape the repercussions through the instrumentality of forgiveness... Why should he forgive.. Oh so they would come and be fleecing him off money

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