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[color=#000030]Lust has always been a factor since creation. There are many instances in the bible. One noteworthy is the fact that angels left heaven to come sleep with women of the earth.

Technological advancement has made pornographic materials easily accessible in this generation, than in other generations, so it seems as if this generation is the worst. There have also been permissive laws been promulgated. You can now be gay and lesbian. You can marry a dog. You can marry a statue. You are free to do just about anything.
The _stupid YOLO slogan is also there. You can afford to be anything these days.

There was no way these advancements wouldn't have a direct effect on the spiking of lust in this generation.[/color]

[color=#000030]Go with your coffin. [/color]

[color=#000030]I didn't see "have money" in that list.

If there's no money, the relationship is a fallacy. [/color]

[color=#000030]Smoking before creating threads is bad. - Usa [/color]

AdeniyiA:
Buttocks are always at the back, anyone who loves them will remain at the back.

[color=#000030]Rofl. [/color]

[color=#000030]Any man that complains of number 3 should be slapped hard. [/color]

[color=#000030]What an _idiot! [/color]

gentle1010:
I'm 29, in love and have been dating a lady of 25, we met during our NYSC, we love each other and plan to get married. The problem here is that I've not gotten a job but I've been making little money through my hard work as a technician, both in computer and electrical, I got her a small job where she earns 20k, rent house for her and still manage to give her small small money for her up keep. I give her all the natural respects a woman deserves. The problem now is that she doesn't respect me, she take me for granted, doesn't care about how I feel. If she offend me and I try to talk to her about that, she'll ignore me to the core. I'm confused, I don't know what is happening and I've built my life all around her. Please advice me on what to do

[color=#000030]There's another man in her life who is better off than you, and now you have become a nuisance to her life. . . Start letting go. It's the only thing you owe yourself. Once a girl you are not married to starts behaving this way, it signals the end.

Brace da fuq up! [/color]

kolawaxxy:
sexkillz! welcome back bro

[color=#000030]I'm not him. [/color]

Dotwillis1:
why do you think he should stick to the second girl?

[color=#000030]He has made up his mind already. If he wanted the first girl, nothing the 2nd girl will do will impress him. He's using the word "love" for the second. Do you know how strong that word is?

The 1st girl maybe alright quite alright, but OP had been exercising some doubts about her. This second girl is the option he finally needs to push the first away. In order not to feel like the bad guy, he told both of them of each other, knowing fully well that the first girl will react more negatively, and knowing that, should the first girl decide to go, he already has a replacement, and he won't miss her.

He's playing a game and if he's not careful, he'll lose them both. The first girl is feeling very hurt and betrayed right now. You don't give 4 years of your life to one person, being faithful and all that, only to be told there's another woman. No one would accept that. Right now, if he goes back to the first girl, things will never be the same. He'll keep thinking of what would have been with the second girl. The first girl won't trust him no more either.

Coming to the second girl, the knowledge that he had to end a 4 year relationship because of her gives her an advantage over him. He'll be her mugu because he won't want to lose her as well, so he'll do everything to keep her. The girl will use that fact against him and will try to see if other guys out there will offer her better.

The mistake he made is telling the 2 ladies about each other. But It has happened. He has a higher percentage of ending up with the second girl. The emotions are young and still very new. The momentum might carry them far, but if I were him, I'm not putting my all my eggs in her basket. [/color]

[color=#000030]Stick to the second girl. But what goes around comes around. . . The second girl will also leave you for someone else.

That's the golden rule: Do to others what you want done to yourself. [/color]

[color=#000030]Mumu logic. . .

So, any one that stares at you wants you to come talk to them, right? If a woman your grandmother's age stares at you, you'll walk up to her, right? If a dog also stares at you, you'll do the needful I'm sure.

Where do you people drop from? [/color]

[color=#000030]Bro, this is the 2nd _stupid thread you've created today. . . Everything ok? [/color]

[color=#000030]The husband's brain must still be running on Windows 95 OS, in 2015. . .

Who gets angry at a man for getting his daughter a gift? Does it make him less of a man? Women are always falling into the hands of people who do not deserve them. [/color]

[color=#000030]Sex is wholly overrated. [/color]

groundnutoil:
u fit name dem

[color=#000030]You are number one.

For making me waste MB opening this nonsense of a thread. [/color]

[color=#000030]There are people I can pay to slap. . . [/color]

[color=#000030]Are paragraphs that expensive that you can't afford them? [/color]

Eberex:
Is it possible to move in and hide my address from these people?

[color=#000030]Yes. Very possible. They belong in the past now. Don't carry baggages from the past to the present. New home, new address, new beginnings.[/color]

Is it healthy to let my present girl friend know she has competitions?

[color=#000030]No.

Because she has no competition currently. No ex should be termed competition. That word is too elevated for them. Competition is when you meet someone totally new, not old. [/color]

Because we had issues one time and she told me campus dating should not be seen as serious etc and that a girl knows who her heart belongs to. With that ideology i want to also let her know i too know where my heart is even though i have my exes around me.

[color=#000030]If that is her idealogy, you have to be smarter than her. Start seeing other girls. Excluding you ex. Exes are bad news. They belong in the past. [/color]

I need advice: Should they know where my new apartment is? Should i open myself to them for another chance? (I loved and still care for the one asking for my help), or should i keep them out?

[color=#000030]If you want to open yourself to another chance, never make any of them your number one, in fact, they should all know about each other. Scatter everything. Then keep meeting new girls. If they are not comfortable, fvcking off is always a viable, legal and acceptable option.

Your happiness should come first before any fvcking ex. If they were all that in the first place, they wouldn't leave you. And how come they are still single? How come no other man wants them?

If you want to render assistance, render assistance. But never ever go borrowing money to render assistance to an ex. . . [/color]

[color=#000030]Have about 5 years to go. . . [/color]

[color=#000030]Package yourself from here to Jerusalem, Jericho and New york. If I don't like you, that's just it - I don't fvcking like you. . . [/color]

naijaboiy:
Bro!

[color=#000030]Holla. . . [/color]

[color=#000030] Your character makes you ugly. . .

If you aren't "Miss world" standard, and you have a very obnoxious character to go along with your facial deficiency, then yes, you have a big fvcking problem. . .[/color]

[color=#000030]Frontpage! [/color]

[color=#000030]Arrant nonsense. . . Rapists should be castrated. [/color]

[color=#000030]Nah. Too early for marriage. He should wait till he's 30, and has slept with 90 girls. . . [/color]

[color=#000030]If I were you, I would not marry such a lady. She's already the company's public servant. She's serviced 3 guys already, you're the 4th on the line, and you're thinking of marrying her? What if she's actually serviced 7 guys, and you're number 8?

How fvcking dumb can one get?

You've not even married her, and you hate the 3 guys she serviced. What if she has serviced your boss as well? You'll choose to lose your job over her? Get your head out of your ass, nigga. You're there to do a job and get paid. Not fall in love with a work mate and get married to her? Why do you think companies do not allow married couples working in their organization? Are there no other girls out there? Tf is wrong with you? [/color]