Hotzone:
I always respond to my fiancée financial demands even when most of them seems like extortion. She prefer I pay her bills both rent and utility though I try to wriggle my self out in rare occasions.
Condition of marriage: No sex before marriage, I abide completely because I want her. She attends her friends weekend activity than finding time for us to stay close even when she constantly reports about how her female friends accuse her of lesbianism but I pray she’s not.
She works and her wages and daily earnings is a little bit above mine. I have told her my marriage intention and she openly accepted without the usual marriage proposals but I am thinking to make it official.
I am still considering if she is suitable and can make a useful wife because I am about to make an official statement which is going to change my entire course in life.
Please, my fellow Nairalanders, I need constructive and supportive words. Blissful week to you!
Bro, this will definitely be difficult to back out, as per your financial and emotional commitments.
It’s better when expenses are shared if not 50/50, at least she should be responsible for somethings. So what will happen (God forbid) when you go broke? She’ll start misbehaving.
I won’t say she’s not bn considerate to you because you know her more.
At the end of the day, only can take the final decision.
May God guide you.