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edlion57:
love is love.hate is hate. What of true hate

Ivynwa:
Mr. Coded do stop sulking like a child dear, do u realize that you may be 100% wrong and in that case accusing her falsely. Which woman will answer call in that position much more moan to the hearing of a person speaking on the other side of the phone, if she were with sb she will not even want to make any noise to your hearing.
She is telling you the truth believe her, jeans and clothes can give out sounds when being pulled on so she may not be lying. You shouldn't be that suspicious or your new found love won't even pass the door of your bedroom much more get to a level you two can meet and know each other more and if you two have not met for the first time, I will advise that you make effort and meet soon and be sure you really like yourselves before going crazy with love and fondness to avoid disappointment and heartbreak my brother.

Akinagirl:
Question: When is the Best Time to have intimacy to Get Pregnant?

Answer:
There is a lot of misinformation out there on when you can get pregnant and when you can't. In high school sex education classes, many of us remember being told you can get pregnant if you have intimacy at any time during your cycle. Telling teenagers that they can get pregnant at any time may be an effective way of encouraging them to wait to have intimacy, but the information is far from accurate.

To get pregnant, you need to have intimacy before you ovulate, with the two to three days prior to ovulation being your most fertile days. But how will you know when you're going to ovulate? And when and how often should you have intimacy if you want to get pregnant?

Predicting Ovulation and the Day 14 Myth

Something else often heard, even from doctors, is that ovulation is on day 14 of the menstrual cycle (with day one being the day you get your period). Some women hear this and decide to plan to have intimacy on day 14. The problem is that many women don't ovulate on day 14 of their cycle. Normal ovulation can occur as early as day 10 and as late as day 20 (or even later, especially if your cycles are irregular).
So how can you predict when you will ovulate? There are many methods available, including using ovulation predictor kits or tracking your basal body temperature. There are advantages and disadvantages to these methods.

Seven Signs of Ovulation
But research says that the best day for sexual intercourse when trying to get pregnant is the day you notice the most fertile cervical mucus. Fertile cervical mucus is cervical discharge that resembles raw egg-white and typically appears on the days prior before ovulation.

Using Cervical Mucus to Time Sex for Pregnancy

A research study done at the University of North Carolina looked at which was a better predictor of sex that would lead to pregnancy: sex based on basal body temperature charting results or changes in cervical mucus.
What they discovered was that, regardless of what day ovulation actually occurred, pregnancy was more likely to happen if the couple had had sex on a day when fertile cervical mucus was present. This may be because cervical mucus helps the spermatozoa survive and "swim along." Still, there are other reasons why waiting until your most fertile days may not be the best way to go about getting pregnant.

Why Waiting for Ovulation Isn't the Best Idea

Sometimes we get so obsessed about having sex at the right time, we neglect sex at other times during the cycle. Sex begins to feel more like a chore, becoming less about love and connection. This can put tremendous stress on a relationship.
Beyond that, though, there are other reasons not to wait that pertain to your fertility itself.

If you try to time sex only for ovulation, you're more likely to miss your opportunity. If you're waiting and waiting for ovulation signs, you could miss them or they could occur when sex just isn't possible.

Research does say that sex during the six days prior to ovulation does indeed have the possibility of resulting in pregnancy. If you plan on having sex two to three times a week, regardless of fertility signs, you're likely to have intimacy at least once during this six-day time period. This is less stressful than trying to time sex for a particular few days.

In addition, research studies have shown that after 10 days of abstinence, spermatozoa quality and quantity is greatly diminished. spermatozoa quality and quantity peaks, however, after one or two days of abstinence.

If you've waited to have intimacy until you have signs of ovulation, and you haven't had sex for several days before, the spermatozoa your partner provides may not be as fertile. You may be at your most fertile time, but he won't be at his peak fertility.

http://infertility.about.com/od/tryingtoconceive101/f/whengetpregnant.htm

goodsegs:
well,the guy she met in camp broke up with her later dis year, we were together for 5 years.the tin is,i moved on though, wasnt easy,my guys try to arrange several ladies for me den,so i can forget about her,i was shocked by d disapointment, the break up still affect my currently relationship,am scared to trust her even when she says i shud,is not easy,

freecocoa:
Hmmm,na wa oo,dont just conclude,afterall you didnt catch her(see her)in the act,just confront her.

maedan:
Well you better forget her bc I know you can't really be 100% sure she was busy "banging" some other guy when you called but I promise you, her hands are not clean . To save yourself extra wahala just start afresh, haba. It'll be easier to forget her and find another love than to stay with her and be biting your nails wondering where she is or what she's up to every five minutes.

Dyt:
Code y r u takin things personal now?
Am i d one dat caused u nt 2 b able 2 do d real thing
n i jst gave u a very liable advice now u r complainin
na wa o
sm peeps sef no do appreciate

Dyt:
Hmmmm u sound 16
bt i think i can help
jst mk sure say u tk 3 full wraps of 'igbo'(weed) mixed wit original 'sekpe'(dry gin) n 'opa eyin'(sexual herb)
den invite er ova n 4k d hell out of er